56| Here Is Why You Give More Than You Need To

60| I Let Fear Run My Life After Divorce. Here's How I Took It Back.

After my divorce, fear made almost every decision for me — the job I took, the man I stayed with, the dreams I shrunk. Today I'm showing you how to spot fear-made decisions before you make another one." * The one question that exposes a fear-based decision * The 24-48 hour rule for panic decisions * Why shrinking your life doesn't protect you from more pain * The verse that breaks fear's grip: 2 Timothy 1:7 Ready to go deeper? 💛 Join the Dating After Divorce membership — a safe community of women just like you walking this journey together. 👉 Instagram http://relaltionshipcoach4women [http://relaltionshipcoach4women] 📲 Come find me on Instagram — send me a DM and tell me your biggest takeaway from today's episode. I read every single one.

59| How to Fall in Love With Yourself After Divorce Before You Fall in Love With Anyone Else

Have you ever found yourself scrolling through a dating app at midnight — not because you're ready, but because the silence in your house feels too loud? Friend, you're not alone. And in today's episode, we're going to talk about something nobody told you to do after your divorce — fall in love with YOU first. Before the next relationship. Before the next first date. Before anything else. In this episode you will learn: ✅ Why you don't recognize yourself anymore — and how to find your way back ✅ Why being alone doesn't mean something is wrong with you ✅ Why you keep giving love to everyone but yourself — and how to finally stop ✅ Simple things you can start doing THIS WEEK to come home to yourself We also look at what Psalm 139:14 and Matthew 22:39 say about why loving yourself is not selfish — it's actually scriptural. The right love is not going to complete you. The right love is going to find you already whole. And that wholeness starts with you. 🔗 LINKS & RESOURCES MENTIONED:   💛 Join the Healing After Divorce membership — a safe community of women just like you walking this journey together. 👉 Instagram http://relaltionshipcoach4women [http://relaltionshipcoach4women] 📲 Come find me on Instagram — send me a DM and tell me your biggest takeaway from today's episode. I read every single one. 👉 Follow me on Instagram: @relationshipcoach4women   💬 DID THIS EPISODE SPEAK TO YOUR HEART? Share it with a friend who needs to hear it today. And if you're ready to go deeper, come join us inside the Healing After Divorce membership. You don't have to do this alone. Rising After Divorce for Christian Women Over 40 is a faith-based podcast to help you heal, rediscover yourself, and step into the woman God created you to be — after divorce.

58| Stop Dating From Your Wounds — How to Open Your Heart to Love After Divorce the Right Way

Have you noticed you keep picking the same kind of man... and getting hurt the same way? In this episode, we talk about the difference between dating from a wound and dating from a healed heart — and why most women don't even realize they're doing it. You'll learn: * Why you keep choosing unavailable men (and how the abandonment wound drives it) * Why you hide your true self on dates (and how the rejection wound drives it) * How to fill yourself first, so you date from want — not need * One Bible verse to help you see your own heart clearly If you're tired of opening your heart, getting hurt, and closing it again — this episode is for you. Healing comes first. Love that lasts comes after. 🎙️ Listen now and start dating from a healed heart, not a wound. 💛 Want support walking this out, not just hearing about it? Join Dating After Divorce — text RISE to get started.   Instagram http://relaltionshipcoach4women [http://relaltionshipcoach4women] 📲 Come find me on Instagram — send me a DM and tell me your biggest takeaway from today's episode. I read every single one. You are not starting over. You are starting better. And you don't have to do it alone. 💛   Grab my FREE guide to help you Heal Your Heart After Divorce https://pattymartinlifecoach.kit.com/6207d50f76 [https://pattymartinlifecoach.kit.com/6207d50f76]

57| I Lost Myself Being His Wife: The Road Back to Being You

Have you ever looked in the mirror after your divorce and not recognized the woman looking back at you? Not because of how you look — but because somewhere along the way, you stopped knowing what you liked, what you wanted, and who you even were. In this episode, we are talking about something most women are afraid to say out loud: I lost myself being his wife. And we are going to walk through why it happens, what it costs you, and — most importantly — how to find your way back to being you. This is not about blaming your marriage. This is about reclaiming what God always intended you to keep: yourself.   Ready to go deeper? 💛 Join the Dating After Divorce membership — a safe community of women just like you walking this journey together. 👉 Instagram http://relaltionshipcoach4women [http://relaltionshipcoach4women] 📲 Come find me on Instagram — send me a DM and tell me your biggest takeaway from today's episode. I read every single one. You are not starting over. You are starting better. And you don't have to do it alone. 💛   Grab my FREE guide to help you Heal Your Heart After Divorce https://pattymartinlifecoach.kit.com/6207d50f76 [https://pattymartinlifecoach.kit.com/6207d50f76]

56| Here Is Why You Give More Than You Need To

Have you ever said yes when everything inside you wanted to say no? Do you ever feel resentful after giving so much — and then feel guilty for feeling that way? What if the reason you over-give has nothing to do with generosity — and everything to do with a wound you haven't healed yet? Ready to go deeper? 💛 Join the Dating After Divorce membership — a safe community of women just like you walking this journey together. 👉 Instagram http://relaltionshipcoach4women [http://relaltionshipcoach4women] 📲 Come find me on Instagram — send me a DM and tell me your biggest takeaway from today's episode. I read every single one. You are not starting over. You are starting better. And you don't have to do it alone. 💛   Grab my FREE guide to help you Heal Your Heart After Divorce https://pattymartinlifecoach.kit.com/6207d50f76 [https://pattymartinlifecoach.kit.com/6207d50f76]