Everyone's Talkin' Money

Scarcity Isn’t About Money—It’s About Self-Trust

If you’ve been saying yes to the wrong clients, under-pricing out of fear, or treating exhaustion like a strategy, this one’s for you. Bianca D'Alessio [https://www.biancadalessio.com/], CEO/founder of The Masters Division, Managing Director at Nest Seekers Development Marketing, #1 Real Estate Broker in NYC & NY State, and author of Mastering Intentions—joins Shari to unpack how high-achieving women move from scarcity to self-trust. We get into values-aligned decisions, setting real boundaries, building simple systems that compound, and a grown-woman version of “manifestation” you can actually use. Get your Seven Day Sprint here! [https://everyonestalkinmoney.kit.com/selftrust] You’ll hear: * The compounding effect of small, intentional decisions (not one “big break”) * How to spot scarcity in your behavior—and replace it with self-trust * Boundaries that protect time, energy, and revenue (without feeling mean) * The winner’s mindset vs. toxic positivity (and why the difference matters) You’ll walk away with: * Recognizable tells of scarcity you can stop this week * A 7-day plan to set boundaries and redirect your time to aligned work [https://everyonestalkinmoney.kit.com/selftrust] * A simple systems checklist to track leads, costs, and ROIA * practical mindset shift to make confident money moves Grab Bianca’s book Mastering Intentions [https://www.amazon.com/stores/Bianca-DAlessio/author/B0DNDFX5NC?ref=ap_rdr&isDramIntegrated=true&shoppingPortalEnabled=true&ccs_id=372c878d-ee1b-485c-b797-0b8a93ba3e4a]. Show notes and more at everyonestalkinmoneypodcast.com. Follow the show so you never miss an episode, leave a quick rating/review, and come say hi on IG @everyonestalkinmoney⁠ [https://www.instagram.com/everyonestalkinmoney/]Talkin’ Points → where your money gets smarter. Real talk, practical tips, zero guilt straight to your inbox. Sign up here. [https://list.everyonestalkinmoneypodcast.com/]  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices [https://megaphone.fm/adchoices]

Holiday Spending Survival Guide: The How-Much-Is-Too-Much Budget

If you’ve already blown your holiday gift budget… breathe. You are not the only one scrolling through your cart at 11 p.m., refreshing the screen, praying the total magically drops by $200. Your holiday spending didn’t “get away from you.” It sprinted off in glitter-covered sneakers — and today we’re going to get you back in control. In this episode, Shari breaks down why the holidays turn even the savviest women into overspending zombies, how guilt and obligation collide with Pinterest-level expectations, and what really causes December budgets to explode (hint: it’s not just the gifts). You’ll learn how to rebuild your gift budget in 10 minutes, how to set real boundaries with group gifts and family expectations, and what to do right now if you’ve already overspent. We’ll also dive into the forgotten budget busters — the holiday parties, school events, matching pajamas, cookie swaps, travel incidentals, and “small traditions” that add up faster than a Target cart on a Tuesday. And yes, we’ll walk through a step-by-step damage-control plan so you can fix this month without sacrificing your entire January. If you want more practical, shame-free money help (and frankly, fewer financial plot twists in December), join the newsletter at everyonestalkinmoneypodcast.com. And if you’re ready for personal planning support designed for real life, not Pinterest perfection, connect with Shari at GWAwealth.com [https://www.gwawealth.com] to build a financial plan that won’t collapse at the first sight of twinkle lights. Stay merry — without the money stress. Talkin’ Points → where your money gets smarter. Real talk, practical tips, zero guilt straight to your inbox. Sign up here. [https://list.everyonestalkinmoneypodcast.com/]  Be sure to like and follow the show on your favorite podcast app! Keep the conversation going on Instagram @everyonestalkinmoney [https://www.instagram.com/everyonestalkinmoney/] Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices [https://megaphone.fm/adchoices]

Money Blindspots: Why Smart Women Get Caught Off Guard

So many smart, successful women are running companies, leading teams, and managing full lives… yet flying blind when it comes to their own household finances. Not because they’re clueless, but because money is quiet when you ignore it — and trust feels easier than clarity. In this episode, Shari breaks down the real reason high-earning women get financially blindsided and the three guardrails every woman needs to stay informed, secure, and empowered. Then forensic accountant Tracy Coenen [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/love-and-money-podcast/id1684290632] joins the conversation to reveal what she sees behind the scenes: the blind spots, red flags, and financial dynamics [https://www.divorcemoneyguide.com] that quietly derail even the most capable women. Whether you’re single, partnered, or somewhere in between, this conversation will help you protect your money, strengthen your confidence, and take back control without creating relationship drama or adding one more thing to your mental load. You’ll walk away with: – The #1 reason smart women get blindsided financially – The three essential “Money Guardrails” every woman needs – How comfort turns into vulnerability (and how to stop it) – The red flags Tracy sees most often in high-asset households – How to talk about money in relationships without damaging trust – Simple routines to stay informed, independent, and protected Learn how Shari works with her clients by visiting GWAwealth.com [https://www.gwawealth.com]. Talkin’ Points → where your money gets smarter. Real talk, practical tips, zero guilt straight to your inbox. Sign up here. [https://list.everyonestalkinmoneypodcast.com/]  Be sure to like and follow the show on your favorite podcast app! Keep the conversation going on Instagram @everyonestalkinmoney [https://www.instagram.com/everyonestalkinmoney/] Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices [https://megaphone.fm/adchoices]

Permission Granted (Part 2): Fear, Freedom, and Writing a New Money Story with Carl Richards

In Part 2 of this intimate conversation, Shari continues her discussion with Carl Richards [https://behaviorgap.com/], the New York Times “Sketch Guy.” If Part 1 was about the behavior behind money, Part 2 is about the beliefs behind your life. Carl opens up about how his simple sketches began, how a single comment from his wife reshaped his entire career, and why permission—not math—is often the missing piece in big financial and life decisions. He shares unforgettable stories, including the woman who left her prestigious Wall Street law job to return home and help her father run the family farm—because Carl granted her the “permission” she already had inside her. Shari and Carl also dig into fear, impostor syndrome, our inherited money stories, and why most of us wait far too long to trust what we know is true about our lives. This is the kind of conversation you don’t just listen to—you feel it. You’ll walk away with: – Why permission is often the bridge between intention and action – The emotional patterns that keep people stuck – How fear shows up at every major life moment – The story behind Carl’s famous sketches – The one money belief Carl would give his 25-year-old self – Shari’s own reflections on her younger self —and what she wishes she knew Shari closes the episode by sharing how Carl’s influence shaped her practice, her philosophy, and the human-centered way she guides clients inside GWA Wealth [https://www.gwawealth.com/]. Explore more episodes at everyonestalkinmoneypodcast.com [https://www.everyonestalkinmoneypodcast.com/]. Talkin’ Points → where your money gets smarter. Real talk, practical tips, zero guilt straight to your inbox. Sign up here. [https://list.everyonestalkinmoneypodcast.com/]  Be sure to like and follow the show on your favorite podcast app! Keep the conversation going on Instagram @everyonestalkinmoney [https://www.instagram.com/everyonestalkinmoney/] Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices [https://megaphone.fm/adchoices]

Money Is Human: A Powerful Conversation with Carl Richards on Fear, Permission, and Becoming a Better Investor

Money doesn’t behave the way math does—and no one knows that better than today’s guest, Carl Richards, the New York Times “Sketch Guy” and author of The Behavior Gap [https://behaviorgap.com/]. In Part 1 of this powerful two-part series, Shari Rash, sits down with Carl to unpack the exact moment he realized that investing is less about spreadsheets and more about psychology, fear, wiring, and real-life behavior. Carl shares the story of stumbling into finance by accident, landing on the trading floor during the Netscape IPO frenzy, and discovering firsthand that humans—not numbers—drive markets. Together, Shari and Carl explore why smart, capable people still buy high, sell low, and spiral during market chaos… and what it actually takes to become a better investor. If you’ve ever wondered why the “right financial move” can feel impossible in the moment, this episode will make you exhale. The problem isn’t you—it’s human nature. You’ll walk away with: * Why money decisions rarely follow logic * How your hardwiring pushes you toward emotional investing * What it really means to become a “good investor” * Carl’s “Deeper Yes” framework to avoid panic-selling * How Shari uses this work inside GWA Wealth [https://www.gwawealth.com/] to help clients stay grounded This episode is deeply personal for Shari—Carl’s work shaped her entire approach to financial planning—and Part 1 sets the stage for an even more transformative conversation in Part 2. Listen to Behavior Gap Radio. [https://behaviorgap.com/radio/] And if you’re ready to build a plan that honors both your numbers and your humanity, connect with Shari Rash on Instagram @everyonestalkinmoney [https://www.instagram.com/everyonestalkinmoney/]. Learn more and listen to past episodes at everyonestalkinmoneypodcast.com. Talkin’ Points → where your money gets smarter. Real talk, practical tips, zero guilt straight to your inbox. Sign up here. [https://list.everyonestalkinmoneypodcast.com/]  Be sure to like and follow the show on your favorite podcast app! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices [https://megaphone.fm/adchoices]