053| When Not Being Chosen Becomes Your Identity: Healing the Strong One’s Survival Mode

054 - What Forgiveness Really Is How to Begin Healing Childhood Wounds, Parental Absence, and the Strong One’s Heart Part 1

Hellllo Bright Souls!! Forgiveness after parental absence is complicated, emotional, and deeply personal. In this episode, we explore what forgiveness actually is — how it feels in your body, why it’s so hard for the strong one, and what begins to heal inside you when you release the weight of childhood wounds. Through Scripture, real stories, and raw honesty from women online, we unpack forgiveness for father wounds, mother wounds, emotional abandonment, and identity trauma. This is Part 1 of a four‑part forgiveness series for Christian women healing from childhood pain, emotional survival patterns, and the pressure to be strong. Start your journey here: * Download the Free Identity Guide at NineCrownsOfGrace.life * Join the newsletter for weekly identity‑anchored encouragement * Book your clarity call directly on the site * Support the mission: CashApp: $9CrownsofGrace Let’s heal with grace, truth, and God leading every step.

053| When Not Being Chosen Becomes Your Identity: Healing the Strong One’s Survival Mode

Hello Bright Souls, When you grow up not feeling chosen, it doesn’t just shape your childhood — it shapes your identity. In this episode of Heal from Parental Absence, Beverly unpacks how parental absence, identity wounds, survival mode, emotional exhaustion, overfunctioning, and the strong‑one syndrome form the hidden patterns that follow high‑capacity women into adulthood. You’ll learn why the “strong one” often feels unseen, unsupported, and tired in places she can’t explain — and how God restores identity, heals abandonment wounds, and rewrites the story of being unchosen. A powerful, faith‑anchored episode for women ready to stop performing and start healing. Keywords: parental absence healing, identity wounds, strong one syndrome, Christian women healing, emotional exhaustion, survival mode, trauma‑informed faith, God heals abandonment, chosen by God, identity restoration, nervous system healing, faith‑based emotional healing, high‑performing women, inner child healing, Christian trauma recovery   Start your journey here: * Download the Free Identity Guide at NineCrownsOfGrace.life * Join the newsletter for weekly identity‑anchored encouragement * Book your clarity call directly on the site * Support the mission: CashApp: $9CrownsofGrace Let’s heal with grace, truth, and God leading every step.

052| Becoming the Woman God Saw - Identity aligns with destiny

Hellllllo Bright Soul! In Episode 3 of Heal From Parental Absence, Beverly and Dr. Patrice J. Carter dive into the heart of emotional healing, spiritual growth, coaching, therapy, and the courage required to face your life with God. Dr. Patrice shares her powerful insights on the difference between therapy and coaching, how God called her into Christian life coaching, and the miraculous way He aligned mentors, resources, and divine connections to launch Breakpoint Coaching Collective. She also opens up about her books — SUPERb Woman: From Bad Girl to God’s Girl and Rainbows in Dark Places — and how God used her testimony, trauma, and transformation to birth stories that help women heal from abandonment, grief, identity wounds, spiritual warfare, and generational patterns. This episode is a must‑listen for Christian women seeking emotional healing, identity restoration, spiritual clarity, and the courage to walk boldly in their calling. ✨ Episode Highlights * Why therapy is essential for trauma, grief, and emotional wounds * How coaching complements therapy and supports forward movement * The divine story of how God launched Dr. Patrice into coaching * How Breakpoint Coaching Collective was birthed * The power of obedience, mentorship, and divine alignment * The story behind SUPERb Woman and how Bathsheba inspired the book * How Rainbows in Dark Places helps women navigate trauma, abandonment, and identity * Why dealing with your life is the key to spiritual and emotional freedom * The importance of acknowledging your pain instead of avoiding it * How God uses your darkest places to elevate you ✨ About Today’s Guest: Dr. Patrice J. Carter, BCC, CHHC Dr. Patrice Carter is a Board‑Certified Life Coach, Certified Holistic Health Coach, Ordained Prophet, author, speaker, and CEO of Breakpoint Coaching Collective, where she trains and certifies Christian Life Coaches worldwide. She brings 41 years of experience across entrepreneurship, military service, and healthcare, and holds a: * PhD in Organization & Management * MBA * MSA in Healthcare Management * BS in Management She resides in North Carolina with her husband, Dalton, a retired Army Veteran, and is a proud bonus mom and grandmother. Her mission is to help God’s people heal emotionally, physically, and spiritually — and to walk boldly in identity and purpose. ✨ Connect with Dr. Patrice Carter Website: https://drpatricecarter.com/ [https://drpatricecarter.com/?utm_source=copilot.com] Social Media: * Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/patrice.s.carter/ [https://www.facebook.com/patrice.s.carter/?utm_source=copilot.com] * LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/drpatricecarter [https://www.linkedin.com/in/drpatricecarter?utm_source=copilot.com] * Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drpatricecarter/?hl=en [https://www.instagram.com/drpatricecarter/?hl=en&utm_source=copilot.com] * TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@patricejcarter [https://www.tiktok.com/@patricejcarter?utm_source=copilot.com] * YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@DrPatriceJCarter [https://www.youtube.com/@DrPatriceJCarter?utm_source=copilot.com] ✨ Books by Dr. Patrice Carter SUPERb Woman: From Bad Girl to God’s Girl https://shop.ingramspark.com/b/084?params=oUNKlT4iAp2T1A2ini67Rh08qHb2aPwjrQbGgzOpvFW [https://shop.ingramspark.com/b/084?params=oUNKlT4iAp2T1A2ini67Rh08qHb2aPwjrQbGgzOpvFW&utm_source=copilot.com] Rainbows in Dark Places https://www.amazon.com/Rainbows-Dark-Places-Patrice-Carter/dp/B0FRWYMG4P [https://www.amazon.com/Rainbows-Dark-Places-Patrice-Carter/dp/B0FRWYMG4P?utm_source=copilot.com] ✨ Additional Resources Mentioned * Breakpoint Coaching Collective — Christian Life Coach Certification * Healing Journey Community (HSV1/HSV2 support) * Holistic health coaching * Courses, coaching, and wellness programs at: doctorpatricecarter.com If this episode blessed you, bright soul, please: * Subscribe to the podcast * Leave a review to help more women find this healing space * Share this episode with someone who needs encouragement And if you’re ready to begin your own healing and identity restoration journey, connect with Beverly at Nine Crowns of Grace™ — where high‑achieving women heal, rise, and walk boldly in who God created them to be.

051- Still Trying to Heal Alone_ What Childhood Absence Taught You — and What It's Costing You Now - Before Part 3 with Dr. Patrice Carter

HELLLLO Bright Soul! In this episode, Beverly speaks to the high‑capacity woman who pours out for everyone else while quietly carrying emotional and spiritual exhaustion. Inspired by a powerful moment with Dr. Patrice Carter — “I realized I lost the ability to pray for myself” — Beverly explores how strong women slowly leak out through fatigue, numbness, anxiety, and disconnection from God. She breaks down the link between emotional pain and the body, the impact of soul wounds, and how unhealed trauma shows up in physical symptoms, burnout, and spiritual heaviness. Beverly shares her own journey of healing, alignment, and learning to honor herself, reminding listeners that you cannot lead well from an unhealed place. This episode calls you back to your voice, your rest, your relationship with God, and the community you need to heal. Beverly closes with a prayer and an invitation to reconnect with your identity, invest in yourself, and walk in your God‑given purpose.   ✨ RESOURCES Spiritual & Identity Support • Daily prayer + journaling • Scripture meditation (Psalm 147:3, Isaiah 61:1, Matthew 11:28) • Community support through Beverly’s Facebook group (link in show notes)   ✨ About Today’s Guest: Dr. Patrice J. Carter, BCC, CHHC Dr. Patrice Carter is a Board‑Certified Life Coach, Certified Holistic Health Coach, Ordained Prophet, author, speaker, and CEO of Breakpoint Coaching Collective, where she trains and certifies Christian Life Coaches worldwide. She brings 41 years of experience across entrepreneurship, military service, and healthcare, and holds a: * PhD in Organization & Management * MBA * MSA in Healthcare Management * BS in Management She resides in North Carolina with her husband, Dalton, a retired Army Veteran, and is a proud bonus mom and grandmother. Her mission is to help God’s people heal emotionally, physically, and spiritually — and to walk boldly in identity and purpose. ✨ Connect with Dr. Patrice Carter Website: https://drpatricecarter.com/ [https://drpatricecarter.com/?utm_source=copilot.com] Social Media: * Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/patrice.s.carter/ [https://www.facebook.com/patrice.s.carter/?utm_source=copilot.com] * LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/drpatricecarter [https://www.linkedin.com/in/drpatricecarter?utm_source=copilot.com] * Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drpatricecarter/?hl=en [https://www.instagram.com/drpatricecarter/?hl=en&utm_source=copilot.com] * TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@patricejcarter [https://www.tiktok.com/@patricejcarter?utm_source=copilot.com] * YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@DrPatriceJCarter [https://www.youtube.com/@DrPatriceJCarter?utm_source=copilot.com] ✨ Books by Dr. Patrice Carter SUPERb Woman: From Bad Girl to God’s Girl https://shop.ingramspark.com/b/084?params=oUNKlT4iAp2T1A2ini67Rh08qHb2aPwjrQbGgzOpvFW [https://shop.ingramspark.com/b/084?params=oUNKlT4iAp2T1A2ini67Rh08qHb2aPwjrQbGgzOpvFW&utm_source=copilot.com] Rainbows in Dark Places https://www.amazon.com/Rainbows-Dark-Places-Patrice-Carter/dp/B0FRWYMG4P [https://www.amazon.com/Rainbows-Dark-Places-Patrice-Carter/dp/B0FRWYMG4P?utm_source=copilot.com]   ✨ CALL TO ACTION Bright soul, you don’t have to carry everything alone. If this episode stirred something in you — if you felt seen, understood, or gently called back to yourself — don’t ignore that tug. If you’re ready to heal, reconnect with your identity, and walk in your God‑given purpose, book a call with me and let’s walk this out together: 📩 ninecrownsofgrace@gmail.com   If you would like to buy me a coffee, you can support the mission here: 💛 CashApp: $9CrownsofGrace   Let’s heal with grace, truth, and God leading every step.

050| Interview w Coach Dr. Patrice Carter - Part 2 Supernatural Healing: Grace Restores What Pain Tried to Steal

Hellllllo Bright Soul! In Part 2 of this extraordinary conversation, Beverly and Dr. Patrice J. Carter dive even deeper into the realities of emotional trauma, physical symptoms, spiritual warfare, and the miraculous healing power of God. Dr. Patrice shares her raw, unfiltered testimony of surviving suicidal despair, walking through shame, enduring a year‑long physical affliction, and experiencing a supernatural healing that birthed the healing anointing she now carries. Her story is a profound reminder that God heals the soul, the body, and the spirit — layer by layer, glory to glory. This episode is essential for Christian women navigating hidden pain, chronic symptoms, shame, or spiritual exhaustion. It offers hope, revelation, and a roadmap for whole‑person healing. “When I got ready to pull the trigger, my mom rang the doorbell… and the Lord said to me, you're not going to kill yourself. He said, I have great need of you.” “Every time they took the blankets off, my skin was healed… that was him birthing my healing anointing.” ✨ Episode Highlights * Dr. Patrice’s near‑suicide moment and God’s intervention * How shame, guilt, and hidden sin manifest physically * The year‑long eczema affliction that led to supernatural healing * The prophetic vision of “winter has come” * How God used a burn unit to restore her body * The spiritual significance of being “wrapped in warm blankets” * Her miraculous healing from herpes * How God turned her deepest pain into a global healing ministry * The birth of her wellness program and healing journey community ✨ About Today’s Guest: Dr. Patrice J. Carter, BCC, CHHC Dr. Patrice Carter is a Board‑Certified Life Coach, Certified Holistic Health Coach, Ordained Prophet, author, speaker, and CEO of Breakpoint Coaching Collective, where she trains and certifies Christian Life Coaches worldwide. She brings 41 years of experience across entrepreneurship, military service, and healthcare, and holds a: * PhD in Organization & Management * MBA * MSA in Healthcare Management * BS in Management She resides in North Carolina with her husband, Dalton, a retired Army Veteran, and is a proud bonus mom and grandmother. Her mission is to help God’s people heal emotionally, physically, and spiritually — and to walk boldly in identity and purpose. ✨ Connect with Dr. Patrice Carter Website: https://drpatricecarter.com/ [https://drpatricecarter.com/?utm_source=copilot.com] Social Media: * Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/patrice.s.carter/ [https://www.facebook.com/patrice.s.carter/?utm_source=copilot.com] * LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/drpatricecarter [https://www.linkedin.com/in/drpatricecarter?utm_source=copilot.com] * Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drpatricecarter/?hl=en [https://www.instagram.com/drpatricecarter/?hl=en&utm_source=copilot.com] * TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@patricejcarter [https://www.tiktok.com/@patricejcarter?utm_source=copilot.com] * YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@DrPatriceJCarter [https://www.youtube.com/@DrPatriceJCarter?utm_source=copilot.com] ✨ Books by Dr. Patrice Carter SUPERb Woman: From Bad Girl to God’s Girl https://shop.ingramspark.com/b/084?params=oUNKlT4iAp2T1A2ini67Rh08qHb2aPwjrQbGgzOpvFW [https://shop.ingramspark.com/b/084?params=oUNKlT4iAp2T1A2ini67Rh08qHb2aPwjrQbGgzOpvFW&utm_source=copilot.com] Rainbows in Dark Places https://www.amazon.com/Rainbows-Dark-Places-Patrice-Carter/dp/B0FRWYMG4P [https://www.amazon.com/Rainbows-Dark-Places-Patrice-Carter/dp/B0FRWYMG4P?utm_source=copilot.com] ✨ Additional Resources Mentioned * Healing Journey with Dr. Patrice — free community for those healing from HSV1/HSV2 * Herpes‑to‑the‑Curb Course (4‑phase healing process) * Holistic wellness coaching * Prayer, prophetic ministry, and emotional restoration support ✨ Call to Action (CTA) If this episode moved you, please: * Subscribe to the podcast * Leave a review to help more women find this healing space * Share this episode with someone who needs hope today And if you’re ready to begin your own healing and identity restoration journey, connect with Beverly at Nine Crowns of Grace™ — where high‑achieving women heal, rise, and walk boldly in who God created them to be.