You Keep Attracting the Wrong Person — The Attachment Explanation | ft. Eli Hardwood HTS #487

Sleep Less and Feel Better — The Sleep Fix Nobody Told You | ft. Dr. Michael Breus HTS #491

→ Santa Barbara Chocolate | CocoaDynamics available at https://SantaBarbaraChocolate.com [https://santabarbarachocolate.com]. Use code DRG20 for 20% off. → Air Doctor | Head to https://AirDoctorPro.com [https://airdoctorpro.com] and use promo code DRG to get $250 off select AirDoctor air purifiers, including the 3500, 4000, and 5500 models. Plus, you’ll receive a free 3 year warranty, an $84 value, and AirDoctor’s 30-day money back guarantee. → Puori | Go to https://puori.com/DRG [https://puori.com/DRG] and use the code DRG at checkout to get 32% off your first Puori Creatine+ subscription order. Episode Description You might be sleeping the right number of hours and still waking up exhausted. The problem isn't how much you sleep. It's when. Dr. Michael Breus is a clinical psychologist, board certified sleep specialist, and the world's leading authority on chronotypes — your genetic sleep schedule that governs not just when you sleep, but when you should eat, exercise, have sex, drink coffee, ask your boss for a raise, and do your best creative work. Over 3.5 million people have taken his chronotype quiz. The results have changed lives, saved jobs, and transformed relationships. This is his second time on Heal Thy Self and Dr. G says it was worth the wait. In this episode, you'll discover:  • Why the 5am club and mouth taping are two of the worst ideas in sleep, and what the research actually says about both  • The thermoregulation secret behind why you wake up at 3am, why you sweat in bed, and the frozen water bottle hack that works better than most expensive sleep gadgets  • Why dreams are emotional metabolism, how recurrent nightmares are linked to a 100% increase in suicidality, and the daytime therapy Dr. Breus is developing to help veterans process trauma through their dreams Take the chronotype quiz and find out if you're a lion, bear, wolf, or dolphin before you listen. Find Dr. Breus: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesleepdoctor/ [https://www.instagram.com/thesleepdoctor/] Website: https://www.thesleepdoctor.com [https://www.thesleepdoctor.com]  Chronotype Quiz: https://www.chronoquiz.com [https://www.chronoquiz.com]  Book: Sleep. Drink. Breathe. Wellness is Too Complicated — https://www.amazon.com/Sleep-Drink-Breathe-Profound-Long-Term/dp/0316576417 [https://www.amazon.com/Sleep-Drink-Breathe-Profound-Long-Term/dp/0316576417] Timestamps: 0:00 - Intro 3:18 - Why mouth taping is dangerous and has caused deaths 5:37 - What a chronotype actually is and why it is a cheat code for life 9:38 - The patient on the verge of being fired who changed everything 18:15 - Why entrepreneurs wake up at 2am and what to do about it 24:48 - The best time to have sex based on your chronotype and hormones 38:41 - The Napa latte: Dr. Breus's emergency sleep hack 44:46 - Dreams are emotional metabolism 46:09 - Nightmares and the 100% increase in suicidality 1:04:22 - Why women's sleep apnea is chronically underdiagnosed Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices [https://megaphone.fm/adchoices]

I Tested My Fish Oil at Home (45% Chance Yours Is Already Rancid) | Heal Thy Self w/ Dr. G #490

There is a 45% chance the fish oil sitting in your cabinet right now is already oxidized. And rancid omega-3s do not just fail to help you. Research shows they generate pro-inflammatory byproducts that work against everything you are taking fish oil for. Dr. G breaks down exactly how this happens, how to test what is in your cabinet tonight with zero equipment, and what to actually look for before you buy another bottle. In this episode, you will learn:  • The two oxidation markers most brands count on you never knowing about, the peroxide value and the anisidin value, and the total oxidation score that tells you whether your fish oil is actually fresh  • Why the number on the front of your fish oil bottle is not the amount of omega-3s you are getting, and the simple math that reveals whether you have been underdosing for years  • The at-home test you can do right now with one capsule, a pin, and 30 seconds that will tell you immediately whether to keep your fish oil or throw it away Plus the specific brands that passed Dr. G's independent investigation for certificate of analysis standards, packaging, storage, meaningful EPA and DHA doses, and proper oxidation scores. Timestamps: 0:00 - Intro 1:00 - The George Washington University Study That Exposed What's on Shelves  1:46 - Peroxide Value, Anisidine Value & the TOTOX Score Explained  2:18 - Why Fish Oil Is One of the Most Chemically Fragile Supplements You Can Buy  3:10 - What Legitimate Brands Do to Protect Their Oil (And What to Look For)  3:39 - The Label Scam: 1,000mg of Fish Oil Is Not 1,000mg of Omega-3s  4:24 - What a Clinically Meaningful Dose of EPA and DHA Actually Looks Like  5:09 - Three Questions to Ask Any Fish Oil Brand Before You Buy  7:00 - How to Test the Fish Oil in Your Cabinet Right Now  8:08 - The Brands That Passed Dr. G's Investigation Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices [https://megaphone.fm/adchoices]

I Ditched Neosporin for This — Here Is What Happened | ft. Justin Gardner HTS w/ Dr. G #489

→ Active Skin Repair | Head to https://www.activeskinrepair.comhttps://activeskinrepair.com [https://activeskinrepair.com] and use code DRG at checkout for 25% off all Active Skin Repair products. (Discount returns to standard rate after June 8th) Episode Description You've been using alcohol, hydrogen peroxide, and Neosporin your whole life. And none of them are actually helping you heal faster. In fact, they may be slowing you down. Justin Gardner is the founder of Active Skin Repair, a medical grade hypochlorous acid product that was originally developed for hospital use in burn units, wound care centers, and neonatal ICUs before he licensed it and brought it to the public. Dr. G has been using it since 2019, including once when he cut his finger open deep in the mountains of Tanga and used it instead of stitches. Eight days later it was nearly sealed. Three weeks later, no scar. In this episode, you'll discover:  • What hypochlorous acid actually is, why your white blood cells already produce it, and why it kills 99.9% of bacteria, fungi, and viruses within 15 seconds with the same safety profile as saline solution  • Why alcohol and hydrogen peroxide kill the healthy growth factors your body produces to heal itself, and how hypochlorous acid cleans the wound without impairing the repair process  • How parents, kids, pets, athletes, and anyone dealing with acne, eczema, sunburns, diaper rash, or chronic wounds can use one bottle for almost everything This is the Windex of skin care. In the best possible way. Find Active Skin Repair:  • Website: https://activeskinrepair.com [https://activeskinrepair.com]  • Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/activeskinrepair [https://www.instagram.com/activeskinrepair] Timestamps: 0:00 - Intro 0:34 - Dr. G's Story: A Deep Finger Cut, No Stitches, No Scar  1:37 - Why People Still Reach for Alcohol and Hydrogen Peroxide (And Why They Shouldn't) 2:43 - The Problem With Neosporin (Especially for Kids)  3:42 - How the Technology Was Discovered in Hospital Wound Care  5:57 - Same Medical-Grade Formula as What's Used in Hospitals and ICUs  8:08 - How Active Skin Repair Got to Market (Starting With Surfers and Pro Athletes)  10:32 - Does It Reduce Inflammation Too, or Just Kill Bacteria?  11:06 - Using It on Your Kids from Day One: Diaper Rash, Hand-Foot-Mouth & More  14:41 - Spray vs. Gel: Which One to Use and When  16:32 - Does It Help Rebuild Tissue and Speed Up Healing?  19:00 - Safe for Pets (and If They Lick It — Still Fine)  22:25 - Acne, Eczema, Aesthetics & the Growing Cosmetic Use Case  23:33 - Does It Target Bad Bacteria Without Disrupting the Skin Microbiome?  27:17 - Bacteria, Fungus, and Viral Infections: What the Research Shows  29:02 - Why Moms Are the Biggest Customers  34:14 - Where to Get It and How to Save 25% Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices [https://megaphone.fm/adchoices]

These 3 Things Together Reduce Cancer Risk by 61% | Heal Thy Self w/ Dr. G #488

→ Get My Brand Masterlist: ⁠⁠https://drchristiangonzalez.com/best-brands-form-2-2/⁠⁠ [https://drchristiangonzalez.com/best-brands-form-2-2/] Episode Description In 2025, researchers published what may be the most important longevity study of the decade. Three years. Over 2,000 participants. A randomized controlled trial. And the results stopped the researchers themselves. A 61% reduction in invasive cancer risk. A 39% reduction in becoming physically frail. And measurable slowing of biological aging, verified by epigenetic clocks, the most sophisticated tool science has for measuring how fast your cells are actually aging. These were not elite athletes. They were regular older adults. And the three things that produced these results are inexpensive, accessible, and available at any supplement store. Most people are either missing them entirely or doing them in a way that produces almost no benefit. Dr. G breaks down exactly what the study found and what you need to do with it. In this episode, you'll learn:  • Why omega-3 deficiency carries a mortality risk comparable to smoking, and the specific EPA and DHA dose that the research shows actually slows biological aging at the cellular level  • Why vitamin D is not optional if you exercise, and why low vitamin D means the training you are already doing is producing a fraction of the benefit it should  • Why the combination of all three produces results that are not additive but multiplicative, and what that means for anyone over 40 who wants to change their biological trajectory The window that matters most is not when you are 60. It is now. Timestamps: 0:00 - Intro 1:38 - Why This Study Deserves Your Attention (And Why No One Is Talking About It)  3:02 - Who This Episode Is For: Men Over 40 and the People Who Love Them  4:45 - The Deficiency Crisis: Most People Are Missing All Three Interventions  6:29 - Thing #1: Why Low Levels Are as Dangerous as Smoking  8:44 - Thing #2: The Pro-Hormone Your Muscles and Immune System Are Waiting For  10:37 - Thing #3: The One Thing That Is Not Optional for Healthy Aging 13:22 - What Happens When You Do All Three Together (The Numbers Are Dramatic)  14:48 - Exactly What to Take, How Much & How Often Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices [https://megaphone.fm/adchoices]

You Keep Attracting the Wrong Person — The Attachment Explanation | ft. Eli Hardwood HTS #487

Sponsored By: → Ora Organics | Head to https://ora.organic/pages/drg [https://ora.organic/pages/drg] and use my code HEALTHYSELF30 to enjoy 30% off your first Ora order today. Episode Description The way you show up in relationships today was decided before you even knew how to speak. Eli Harwood is a licensed therapist, the creator of Attachment Nerd, and the author of How to Deal with Your (Anxiety, Anger, Self-Doubt, Insecurity, Trauma) So Your Kids Don't Have To. She spent nearly 20 years sitting with families watching parents who desperately wanted better for their children but had no roadmap for how to actually get there. This conversation goes deep into why 50% of us never experienced secure attachment, what that did to our sense of self, and what it actually takes to break the cycle before it passes to the next generation. In this episode, you'll discover:  • Why chaos can feel more like home than safety, and why the people who confuse you are often more magnetic than the people who make you feel secure  • What happens developmentally when a child grows up in an unpredictable home and how that wound silently shapes every relationship, every breakup, and every parenting moment that follows  • The difference between intellectually knowing this work and actually doing it, and why your kids will find every unhealed part of you no matter what This one is for every parent, every soon to be parent, and every adult who is still trying to figure out why love feels so complicated. Find Eli:   • Website: https://www.attachmentnerd.com [https://www.attachmentnerd.com]   • Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/attachmentnerd [https://www.instagram.com/attachmentnerd]   • TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@attachmentnerd [https://www.tiktok.com/@attachmentnerd]   • YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@attachmentnerd [https://www.youtube.com/@attachmentnerd]   • Book: How to Deal with Your (Anxiety, Anger, Self-Doubt, Insecurity, Trauma) So Your Kids Don't Have To — https://www.amazon.com/Deal-Your-____-Kids-Dont/dp/1632175967 [https://www.amazon.com/Deal-Your-____-Kids-Dont/dp/1632175967] Timestamps: 0:00 - Intro 1:41 - Meet Eli Harwood: Licensed Therapist & Creator of Attachment Nerd  2:34 - Rapid Fire: Familiar vs. Safe, Anxiety vs. Love & Why "Boring" Partners Feel Wrong  8:18 - What Brought Her to This Work (Her Own Insecure Childhood)  10:33 - What Happens to a Child's Sense of Self When Parents Are Unavailable or Chaotic 12:22 - The Upside-Down Parent-Child Relationship: When Kids Take Care of Their Parents 16:27 - Children Know by Age One Whether Their Caregivers Are Reliable 19:32 - The Still-Face Experiment: What Happens When a Parent Goes Emotionally Blank  22:44 - How Kids Cope: Performing, People-Pleasing, Drinking, Managing  25:00 - You Notice Others' Tension Before Your Own (And Why)  27:41 - What Secure Attachment Actually Looks Like in a Family  30:12 - Breaking Generational Patterns: Why Knowledge Alone Isn't Enough  33:43 - How to Apologize to Your Kids the Right Way  38:08 - Fighting in Front of Your Kids: What the Research Actually Says  43:12 - The Moment He Turned the Lens Inward (And Why Relationships Are the Boot Camp) 47:05 - Your Kids Are Heat-Seeking Hovercrafts for Whatever Is Unhealed in You  51:33 - Why This Research Is Now Accessible (And Why It Wasn't Before)  55:22 - What We Bring Into Relationships When We Don't Have a Healthy Sense of Self  59:42 - The Book: A Guidebook for Parents Who Didn't Have Secure Modeling Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices [https://megaphone.fm/adchoices]