What I Got Wrong About Loneliness

What I Got Wrong About Loneliness

I did a Substack Live with Claudia M. Zedda [https://substack.com/profile/106319709-claudia-m-zedda], who writes The Brave Leap [https://claudiamzedda.substack.com/]. It was different from what I normally post here. We didn’t talk about multiple income streams, the 9-5 job or present a framework for success. Instead, we had a deep, yet challenging conversation about the part of building something outside a 9–5 that people seem to forget. THE INNER WORK / PERSONAL TRANSFORMATION Join the Nine To Five Club to take your personal transformation journey to the next level. Claudia M. Zedda [https://substack.com/profile/106319709-claudia-m-zedda] opened with her definition of inner growth: “Inner growth starts with being able to look at yourself and be honest about what you’re doing, who you are, what you like about yourself, and what you don’t. If honesty is the starting point, the question becomes: Honest about what, exactly? For me, it comes down to your mindset, your health, your values, and your finances. Neglect one and the others get harder to develop. Admit what you actually want before you try to change anything. That’s the whole starting point of my book, You’re More Than Your 9–5. It’s not about quitting your job tomorrow. It’s about using it as a tool while you build the small, brave choices that get you somewhere else, one at a time. Grab a copy here. [https://amzn.to/49UnTU1] Get full access to Nine To Five Club at ninetofiveclub.substack.com/subscribe [https://ninetofiveclub.substack.com/subscribe?utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=CTA_4]

The Lie We’ve All Been Sold About Success

We live in a world where everyone looks successful, but almost no one feels successful. And the reason is simple: We’ve confused self‑improvement with success. This is ruining people’s lives. Here’s the difference: Self‑improvement is inward.Success is outward. One changes who you are.The other changes how you’re seen. And when society cares more about the outward, the inward gets lost and confused, so let’s fix that. Self‑improvement and success often appear side‑by‑side, but they’re not the same. I first came across this idea in The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F\ [https://amzn.to/43XdcfA]ck* [https://amzn.to/43XdcfA], and it stuck with me because it exposes something most people simply ignore. Self‑improvement happens behind closed doors, through the people around you, the books you read, mentors, failures, and the lessons that reshape your values and mindset. Success, on the other hand, even though you can feel it, is measured externally, by metrics, milestones, and the scoreboard society hands you. Get full access to Nine To Five Club at ninetofiveclub.substack.com/subscribe [https://ninetofiveclub.substack.com/subscribe?utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=CTA_4]

How to Build Multiple Income Streams

Mick [https://substack.com/profile/396948285-mick] and I went live. This conversation was about: * My story (Portugal to the UK). * Why I’ve always cared about independence. * What I learned from getting scammed young. * Why multiple income streams matter. * Cashflow is king. * Property as an asset and why mentorship matters. Join the Nine To Five Club if you work a 9-5 but know you’re meant for more. 👇🏽 If you’re working a 9–5 and you know there’s more in you, don’t wait for the perfect time. Start building with what you’ve got. My book, You’re More Than Your 9–5 [https://amzn.to/4uvTC4J], is the full framework behind this mindset. It’s for people who want to use their job as a tool, build in the background, and stop letting “fine” become their future. GET YOUR BOOK HERE [https://amzn.to/4uvTC4J] You don’t need to “quit your job” tomorrow. You need a strategy. Use the 9–5 as a tool in this period of your life. Build assets. Build skills. Build income streams. Protect your cashflow. Get around people who know what they’re doing. David Oliveira Get full access to Nine To Five Club at ninetofiveclub.substack.com/subscribe [https://ninetofiveclub.substack.com/subscribe?utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=CTA_4]

You can get paid to do what you love.

A quick conversation at work reminded me of something we all forget when we’re tired, bored, and just trying to get through the day. Whatever it is that you love, you should find a way to work closer to it. What is it that you could do to work closer to the stuff you’re passionate about? If you’ve had a similar experience, leave a comment or reach out. Let’s talk about it. David Oliveira Author of “You’re More Than Your 9-5” Get full access to Nine To Five Club at ninetofiveclub.substack.com/subscribe [https://ninetofiveclub.substack.com/subscribe?utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=CTA_4]

Multiple Income Streams: A Practical Guide to Building Wealth While Working a 9–5

What if the real goal of “multiple income streams” isn’t more money, but more options? In this conversation, David Oliveira sits down with Shalini to talk about what it actually takes to build financial freedom while still working a 9–5. They cover the mindset shift that changes everything, the difference between active income and assets, and why your environment can sabotage your ambition. You’ll hear: The moment David realised a 9–5 wouldn’t give the freedom he wanted. Property as a system (not a second job), and what “passive” really looks like in practice. Affiliate marketing and why “write once, get paid repeatedly” is so powerful. Investing basics. Long-term thinking, emotional discipline, and what David avoids (day trading, crypto, forex). Royalties and digital products. Some content disappears, and some generates income for years. Leverage done properly (people, skills, capital), without taking advantage. The “right rooms” principle. Why like-minded environments change your life faster than motivation ever will. A realistic way to think about your “freedom number” (and why comparison is a trap). Get full access to Nine To Five Club at ninetofiveclub.substack.com/subscribe [https://ninetofiveclub.substack.com/subscribe?utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=CTA_4]