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There’s So Many Layers To This But To Be Clear, I Am Particularly Speaking Post Trauma, Post Healing / Pre Trauma/Healing Because It Takes Looking At Yourself, Being Honest About Your Experiences And Being Willing To Start Again From The Ground Up. (When You Are In The Midst Of Traumatic Experience(s) Or Acknowledging Such Things, You Need To Give Yourself Permission To Do Whatever Works Without avoiding Yourself)Either Way The Message Is About Recognising Negative Patterns. Post Trauma/Healing, If You Choose To Maintain A Negative Narrative You Will Make Yourself Physically And Mentally Sick. Negativity Shuts The Mind And Body Down Which Is Why It’s Important To Remember Your Thoughts Matter. Loving Yourself Matters But If You Continuously Choose To Be Harmful To Yourself & Expect Others To Hold Your Hand, You Are Not Only Being Unfair But You Are Dragging People Down With You. (If You Are Fortunate, People Will Hold Your Hand Regardless, Which Can Be Healthy Or Unhealthy)Misery Loves Company Is Said For A Reason And If You Aren’t Careful, You Could Find Yourself Around Individuals Who See You Down And Are Happy You Are There, It Makes Them Feel Better For Not Doing The Work Themselves. Loving Yourself Takes Practice And With Practice It Becomes Habit.What Excuse Do You Have To Ignore All That You Have And All That You Are, To Choose To Be Ungreatful And Intentionally Unkind?How Does That Serve you?Grow And Do Better.Grow And Be Better. Focus On Abundance🦋You Never Deserve Bad Things That Happen To You, Especially By People You Trust / Consider Family But You Must Never Allow Other People’s Sickness, To Keep You Down.You Are MIGHTY 🐛🦋You Are WORTHY ⭐️You Are DESERVING 🌹You Are POWERFUL 🌙✨You Are LOVE 💚 And Remember: “To Love Thyself Would Be An Awfully BIG Adventure.” Lahayla Dahlia Lore Get full access to S e l f l o v e l o v e s e l f 3 6 5 at selfloveloveself365.substack.com/subscribe [https://selfloveloveself365.substack.com/subscribe?utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=CTA_4]

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You Are A G, If You Can Lip Read 😅Similar Message, Same Topic It.Where Is Your Focus? I Think Being Underestimated Is Brilliant Because You Don’t Have To Do Much At All To Make People Eat Their Words. People That Pass Judgement And Are Jealous Are Strange To Me, Like You Woke Up And Thought You Were Put Here To Be Average.So Much Energy Is Wasted on Projection, When Actually, If You Tried At Something, Anything For Yourself, Granted You May Not Be Good At It But At Least You Tried. If You Don’t Try How Can You Progress. Wishing To Dim Someone’s Light Makes You Sick, Literally, Mentally And Physically. Before You Let Your Thoughts Or Words Run Away With You, Ask Yourself:Where Is My Focus? And Remember: “To Love Thyself Would Be An Awfully BIG Adventure.” Lahayla Dahlia Lore Get full access to S e l f l o v e l o v e s e l f 3 6 5 at selfloveloveself365.substack.com/subscribe [https://selfloveloveself365.substack.com/subscribe?utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=CTA_4]

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SLLS365: Tend To Your Garden }|{ Abundance Is Your Birthright. You Are Your Ancestors Dream. But If You Can’t Tend To Your Garden Physically &/ Metaphorically, You May Be Actively Choosing To Get In Your Own Way.You Must Have A Strong Sense Of Self In Order To Never Allow Anyone’s Projections Become A Part Of Your Narrative.Like A Plant You Need To Be Nurtured, Day In And Day Out. What Excise Do You Have Not To Pour Into Yourself? What Story Do Uou Telm Yourself That Perhaps, In Ano Th er Lifetime Held A Bit Of Weight But No Longer Serves You. Guilt And Shame Can Frown You, If You Let Them Especially Guilt &/Shame That Isn’t Yours To Carry. Look How Beautiful You Are.Please Tend To Your Garden 🪴🦋✨ And Remember: “To Love Thyself Would Be An Awfully BIG Adventure.” Lahayla Dahlia Lore Get full access to S e l f l o v e l o v e s e l f 3 6 5 at selfloveloveself365.substack.com/subscribe [https://selfloveloveself365.substack.com/subscribe?utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=CTA_4]

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SLLS365: I AM. I AM. I AM }|{ I Am Worthy.I Am Deserving.I Am Precious.I Can Overcome.Great Things Are Happening.And Let Us Not Forget, The Best Is Yet To Come 🌹✨How You Speak To Yourself Matters.How You Show Up For Yourself Matters.Kindness Is Abundance.Goodness Exists In Your Heart. Life Is Always Happening, You Have The Power To Direct Who You Become & How You Deal With Things Sent To Disturb You.Always Remember,You Are Mighty 🐛🦋You Are Powerful ✨You Are Love 💚Choose To Do Better By Yourself Today 💐 And Remember: “To Love Thyself Would Be An Awfully BIG Adventure.” Lahayla Dahlia Lore Get full access to S e l f l o v e l o v e s e l f 3 6 5 at selfloveloveself365.substack.com/subscribe [https://selfloveloveself365.substack.com/subscribe?utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=CTA_4]

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We All Have To Live With The Choices We Make.Sometimes, They Are Well Informed,Sometimes,Our Higher Self Takes Charge Because We Aren’t Ready And Sometimes, Choices Are Made Out Of Sickness And Spite.Sometimes, We Self Sabotage & It Isn’t Clear Why, When Wounded And Operating Without Awareness/To Cause Further Harm To Self.It Takes Real Courage To Continue Showing Up For Yourself, Rebuilding A Foundation And Owning That, Other People’s Harmful Choices Are Not Ours To Hold. You Deserve To Be Cherished And More Importantly, You Deserve To Cherish Yourself. Let People Live With Their Choices And Know, You Too Must Live With Yours.The Hardest Truth And Difference Is, That You Move With Love Never Spite, Never To Intentionally Harm And Above All You Know Love And Through It All, Can Show Up With Love, For Self, For Real. That’s Powerful.You Are Powerful 🦋✨Know That It Is NEVER Your Fault If Someone Chooses To Harm You And Whilst I KNOW Words Don’t Console, You Can Address The Pain And Choose A Life Of Presence By Being Honest With Yourself, About What Happened To You. You Deserved Care & Were Handed Harm, I Promise That’s A Mark On Their Soul Forever… & Forever Never Ends. And Remember: “To Love Thyself Would Be An Awfully BIG Adventure.” Lahayla Dahlia Lore Get full access to S e l f l o v e l o v e s e l f 3 6 5 at selfloveloveself365.substack.com/subscribe [https://selfloveloveself365.substack.com/subscribe?utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=CTA_4]