episode 128: the hidden power of saying no

episode 128: the hidden power of saying no

Tired of people-pleasing? Lordevery and Derwin King break down boundaries, self-worth, and saying “no” without guilt. Learn how Black and queer men can protect their peace, manage energy, and build relationships that actually lift them up.

episode 127: no aisle, no audience, just us w/Obio Jones

In this episode, Obio Jones opens up about his recently revealed marriage and the profound impact it has had on his identity and outlook on life. Joined by hosts Lordevery and Derwin King, Obio discusses the journey of finding what he truly needs through prayer and reflection. The conversation explores themes of presence, kindness, and the transformative power of love. Obio shares insights into balancing personal joy with partnership and his aspirations for the future. Be sure to stick around for Obio's prayer!

episode 126: peace up, hookahs down

This week, Lord Devery and Derwin King dive into the chaos and comedy of nightlife etiquette (including the mystery and mess of “bottle wars”). Derwin opens up about navigating sobriety in spaces that do not always make it easy, and what that journey looks like for them. They also unpack the latest drama from The Real Housewives of Salt Lake City (because of course they do). It is a little shade, a little growth, and a whole lot of ThatBlackBoyJoy.

episode 125: Just Us Two: Love, Mental Health & Family Through a Black Queer Lens

In this episode of thatblackboyjoy., Derwin and Lord Devery sit down with filmmaker Tasheem Ingram to discuss his powerful new short film, Just Us Two. Shot entirely on an iPhone and presented in striking black-and-white, the film follows a newly married Black gay couple as they navigate the intersections of love, mental health, and family expectations. Tune in for an episode filled with insight, creativity, and conversation about what it means to love, and be seen, as Black queer men today.

episode 124: all is fair in love & black business w/ MIPBCO

In this episode, your hosts Derwin King and Lord Devery sit down with partners in life and business, Orlando Whigham and Troy Barnes, the co-owners of Mirror Image Photo Booths. Together, they reflect on what it means to build a brand and a relationship rooted in trust, creativity, and authenticity.