Episode 16: The "Not Enough" Belief That's Creating a Wedge Between You and God

It's Your Plan, Too!

EPISODE DESCRIPTION In this episode of the Energy Aligned Woman Podcast, spiritual alignment coach Cynthia Burkman tackles one of the most paralyzing limiting beliefs women of faith carry — the belief that there is one right plan and it belongs to God alone. If you have ever felt stuck waiting for a sign, wondering if your desires are aligned with God's will, or resigned yourself to the idea that what you want simply isn't meant for you, this episode will shift everything. Cynthia explores the connection between spiritual alignment, energy frequency, and co-creation with God — teaching women how to stop waiting for permission and start moving with confidence as intentional creators. Through personal stories, the baking analogy for co-creation, and the powerful truth that your spirit and God are already on the same frequency, this episode helps Christian women, women of faith, and spiritually minded women break free from passive faith and step into the abundant, purposeful life their spirit came here to create. If you are searching for how to align your energy with God, manifest your desires through faith, or understand what it means to be a co-creator with the divine — this episode is your starting point. WHAT YOU WILL GET FROM THIS EPISODE * The vision of what life looks like when you move with confidence as a co-creator * The trailhead moment — what paralysis actually looks like and why we stay stuck * The dating coach question that shifted everything: “You believe God said… except you?” * What the mind does when it removes you from the equation entirely * The truth about your spirit’s partnership with God — and what kahoots actually means * The Little Soul and the Sun — a story by Neale Donald Walsch about contrast, expansion, and what our souls came here to experience * The baking analogy — what you put in the bowl matters, and God is the oven * How to identify the feeling underneath your desire — and why that feeling is the frequency * How to become an intentional co-creator starting this week LET THIS LAND God is not standing at the top of the trail judging which path you picked. He is right there with you on whatever path you chose — your biggest fan, your greatest support, the wind behind every step you take. Your desires are yours to have. And together — you make them happen. RESOURCES MENTIONED * The Little Soul and the Sun — Neale Donald Walsch * The Universe Reflects Who You Are — Good Vibes (song) * Email Cynthia: Cynthia@eneralign.com [Cynthia@eneralign.com] QUESTION TO SIT WITH THIS WEEK What are you putting in the bowl? Not what you wish you were putting in — what are you actually mixing together right now? What beliefs, what stories, what emotions are you handing over and expecting something different to come out? Because when you know what is in the bowl, you can change the recipe. LINKS & RESOURCES * Join the Wedge Weekly Newsletter: https://eneralign.kit.com/f1fb8cdad4 [https://eneralign.kit.com/f1fb8cdad4] * Subscribe to the Energy Aligned Woman Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-energy-aligned-woman/id1886494934 [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-energy-aligned-woman/id1886494934] CONNECT WITH ME Instagram: @EnerAlign — https://www.instagram.com/eneralign/ [https://www.instagram.com/eneralign/] Facebook: EnerAlign — Cynthia Burkman — https://www.facebook.com/EnerAlign [https://www.facebook.com/EnerAlign] Website: EnerAlign.com [http://eneralign.com] If this episode resonated, share it with a woman who needs to hear it.

Episode 16: The "Not Enough" Belief That's Creating a Wedge Between You and God

Have you ever felt that pull toward something you deeply desire — and then felt the doubt creep in right behind it? That cycle of excitement followed by uncertainty, of wanting and then wondering why you can’t seem to get there, has a name. It is the “not enough” paradigm. And it may be quietly creating a wedge between you and God and between you and the life your spirit already knows is possible. In this first episode of the Mind the Wedge Series, Cynthia walks through where the “not enough” belief comes from, how it sounds in your everyday life, what it does to your relationship with God, what your brain is actually doing when it runs this story — and the truth that dismantles it completely. IN THIS EPISODE * The cycle of desire, doubt, and the spiral into “not enough” * How this paradigm shows up quietly in everyday life * The two directions it takes you in your relationship with God — performing or resigning * What your brain is actually doing and why it looks for evidence to confirm the belief * The story of the candy — and what one small moment can tell us about ourselves * The truth about worth, love, and your spirit’s unbreakable connection to God * Why awareness is always where alignment begins QUOTES FROM THIS EPISODE “It is a lens. And once it is on — you see everything through it.” “Neither of those is faith. One is performance. The other is survival.” “It was not God telling you that you were not enough. It was your mind trying to make sense of pain.” “You are a masterpiece because you are part of the Master. You are someone because you are some of the One.” — Rabbi Aaron, quoted by Cathy Heller “Awareness is the key to alignment.” QUESTION TO SIT WITH THIS WEEK What is the reason you believe you don’t have what you most desire? Not the surface answer — the real one. And once you have it — is it possible that reason is rooted in a limiting belief? LINKS & RESOURCES * Join the Newsletter — receive your Mind the Wedge ponder questions: NEWSLETTER LINK [https://eneralign.kit.com/f1fb8cdad4] * Cathy Heller — Energy is Everything Podcast * Subscribe to the Energy Aligned Woman Podcast: PODCAST LINK [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-energy-aligned-woman/id1886494934] CONNECT WITH ME Instagram: @EnerAlign [https://www.instagram.com/eneralign/] Facebook: EnerAlign — Cynthia Burkman [https://www.facebook.com/EnerAlign] Website: EnerAlign.com [http://eneralign.com] If this episode resonated, share it with a woman who would love to hear it, too.

Ep. 15: 6 Week Series on How Paradigms May Be the Wedge Between you and God

EPISODE DESCRIPTION Something big is coming — and in this episode, I am finally saying out loud what I have been tiptoeing around. Our limiting beliefs and the stories our ego mind insists are true don’t just block us from creating what we want. They can quietly create a wedge in our relationship with God. In this honest, personal episode, I share what has been coming up in conversations with women just like you — and why I am launching a 6-week series dedicated to identifying and breaking down the beliefs that may be creating distance between you and God and between you and the life you are here to live. The Mind the Wedge Series starts next week. LINKS & RESOURCES • Join the Newsletter. Join the Newsletter! [https://eneralign.kit.com/f1fb8cdad4] CONNECT WITH ME Instagram: @EnerAlign [https://www.instagram.com/eneralign/] Facebook: Eneralign-Cynthia Burkman [https://www.facebook.com/EnerAlign] Website: EnerAlign.com [http://www.eneralign.com/] If this episode resonated, share it with a woman who needs to hear it.

Why Your Blessings Feel Blocked — And How Limiting Beliefs Keep You Stuck

Episode Summary What if the thing you've been waiting for is already on its way — and the only thing standing in the way is a belief you didn't even know you were holding? This episode started with a water aerobics class and turned into something much bigger: a conversation about the rules we make around how good things are allowed to show up in our lives — and what it means to truly co-create with God. What We Cover * The water aerobics class that became an unexpected lesson in connection * How we block what we want most by pre-deciding how it's allowed to arrive * Why the energy we bring into an experience shapes what we find there * The difference between passive faith and active co-creation with God * Practical shifts for money, health, time, and love Key Takeaways * We are so creative with our ceilings. We want the thing — we just won't let it arrive in a form we haven't pre-approved. * Energy precedes experience. The belief you carry into a situation is already doing the work before you take a single action. * God can move mountains. But He can't move a belief we're gripping with both hands. * We are co-creators — and our role is to clear out the limiting beliefs that block our momentum, our clarity, and our capacity to receive. * Gratitude doesn't ignore the gap. It just refuses to let the gap be the only thing you see. Mentioned in This Episode * The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People by Stephen R. Covey — specifically Habit 7: Sharpen the Saw This Week's Question What is one thing you've been waiting on — and what belief might you be holding that's standing in the way of it? Connect & Share If this episode resonated with you, share it with someone who needs to hear it. And if you have a "water aerobics moment" of your own — a time you let go of the plan and found something better — I'd love to hear about it. Connect with Cynthia: 🌐 Website: www.EnerAlign.com [https://www.eneralign.com] 📩 Newsletter: https://eneralign.kit.com/f1fb8cdad4 [https://eneralign.kit.com/f1fb8cdad4] 📸 Instagram: @EnerAlign [https://www.instagram.com/EnerAlign] 👥 Facebook: EnerAlign - Cynthia Burkman [https://www.facebook.com/EnerAlign] Coaching: www.EnerAlign.com/framework Remember: awareness is the key to alignment, and every moment is an opportunity to choose your frequency. Let your energy work with you, not against you.

Ep. 13 Truth About Abundant Living - It's Not What You Think It Is.

Episode Overview What would you wish for if a genie gave you one wish? And what if he bypassed all your indecision and simply said — I gift you with abundance? In this episode Cynthia redefines abundance from the inside out. Not as a destination, a possession, or a number in a bank account — but as a frequency. A capacity. Something already available that most of us are simply not yet aligned to receive. Through a playful genie opener, a vulnerable personal story, and one of her most powerful analogies yet — the weeding analogy — Cynthia walks through what abundant living actually looks and feels like, what blocks it, and how to begin shifting your frequency toward it one weed at a time. What You’ll Learn * Why abundance is a frequency and a capacity — not a possession or a destination * What abundant living actually feels like in your body and your daily life * Why alignment is the gateway to abundance — and what blocks the signal * The weeding analogy — why limiting beliefs grow when left unattended and how to pull them before they take over your garden * A vulnerable personal story about finding God in the middle of authenticity * Why you do not have to take on all your limiting beliefs at once — and how to start with just one Episode Breakdown The Genie Hook Cynthia opens with a playful question — if a genie gave you one wish, what would you ask for? And what if he bypassed your decision paralysis and simply gifted you with abundance? That opening question sets the stage for a completely different definition of what abundance actually means. Defining Abundant Living Abundant living is not about having. It is a frequency and a capacity. Cynthia walks through what it actually looks like: * Consistent synchronicities that remind you the Universe has your back * Clarity that flows — promptings and nudges you trust enough to follow without second guessing * Capacity to receive — joy, love, peace — without deflecting or minimizing * Waking up with purpose, intention, and trust that all is in divine order The definition: Abundant living is not a fixed destination. It is an ever expanding capacity — to receive what is present, to welcome what is coming, and to trust that more is always in motion toward you. Alignment as the Gateway What blocks the frequency of abundance is being out of alignment — when your thoughts, emotions, and actions are not in agreement. Cynthia uses the radio station analogy: the frequency is already broadcasting. You just have to turn the dial to match it. The Personal Story — Up and Out Cynthia shares a vulnerable and powerful story about her own journey into alignment — the moment she laid every limiting belief out in front of her, stopped performing, stopped reaching, and found God right there in the middle of her authenticity. The shift into abundant living was not a one time event. It is a daily practice. The Weeding Analogy Limiting beliefs are like weeds. Caught early — easy to pull. Left for later — they multiply, strengthen, and take more effort to remove. And sometimes we hang ornaments on them and pretend they are decorative plants we chose to have in our garden. The work of alignment is consistent weeding — not a one time overhaul. The Good News You do not have to take on all your limiting beliefs at once. You identify the one paradigm most in the way of what you are creating next. You shift that one. You build the framework. And then you have tools you can apply to any area of your life whenever you are ready. Reflection Questions Choose one and sit with it this week: * If the genie granted you abundance — what would that actually feel like in your body? Can you feel it right now, even for a moment? Ready to Do This Work? Book a Free Discovery Call. If this episode landed for you — if you recognized yourself in the weeding analogy, in the limiting beliefs, in the quiet knowing that something needs to shift — let’s talk. Cynthia works personally with women who are ready to identify the one paradigm most in the way of what they are creating next, shift it, and build a framework they can use for the rest of their lives. It starts with a free, no pressure discovery call. 30 minutes. A real conversation about where you are and where you want to go. 👉 Book your free Discovery Call: EnerAlign.com/call [https://www.eneralign.com/call] The radio station is already broadcasting. Let’s find your frequency together. Resources & Links * Book a free Discovery Call: EnerAlign.com/call [https://www.eneralign.com/call] * Episode 12 referenced — 4 Reasons You Are Still Standing in the Doorway: listen here [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/id1886494934] * Free Chakra Assessment: www.eneralign.com/chakra [https://www.eneralign.com/chakra] * Subscribe to the weekly newsletter: www.eneralign.com [https://www.eneralign.com] Connect with Cynthia * Instagram: @eneralign [https://www.instagram.com/eneralign/] * Facebook: EnerAlign [https://www.facebook.com/EnerAlign] * Website: www.eneralign.com [https://www.eneralign.com] * Apple Podcasts: The Energy Aligned Woman [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/id1886494934] Awareness is the key to alignment, and every moment is an opportunity to choose your frequency. The radio station is always on. You just have to turn the dial.