S18E4 Striving wo Strife Pt 4: How to Disagree Like a Christian

S18E4 Striving wo Strife Pt 4: How to Disagree Like a Christian

S18E4 Striving Without Strife – Part 4: How to Disagree Like a Christian [https://linktr.ee/Sogreatsalvation] Growth requires division. That may sound like a contradiction, but it is one of the remarkable designs found in God's creation. Every healthy human body grows because its cells divide. From infancy to adulthood, cells multiply, allowing the body to develop, heal, and mature. Yet healthy cells reveal something important: they divide without destroying. They do not attack one another, compete for control, or tear apart the body they belong to. Their division is orderly, purposeful, and serves the life of the whole. The church can learn from that picture. Disagreement among Christians is inevitable. We come from different backgrounds, experiences, and levels of spiritual maturity. We study difficult passages, ask questions, and challenge one another's understanding of Scripture. When handled properly, these conversations can sharpen our faith and help us grow. The problem is not that Christians disagree. The problem is how we disagree. Too often, conversations that should lead to greater understanding produce resentment instead. Questions become attacks. Correction becomes condemnation. Brothers and sisters in Christ begin treating one another like enemies instead of members of the same body. The apostle Paul reminds us that the body of Christ grows as every part works properly. A healthy body does not grow because one part dominates another, but because each member contributes to the strength and maturity of the whole. The same principle applies to our discussions about truth. Scripture calls believers to contend for the faith. False teaching must be confronted, and truth must be defended. But even when correction is necessary, the spirit and manner of that correction matter. We are commanded to speak the truth in love. We are told that "the servant of the Lord must not strive; but be gentle unto all men, apt to teach, patient." We are instructed to restore those who have fallen into error with meekness, remembering that we ourselves depend on the grace of God. Biblical conviction and Christian love are not opposites. They belong together. The goal of disagreement should not be victory over another person, but a clearer understanding of God's truth. Not humiliation, but restoration. Not proving ourselves superior, but helping one another grow. Healthy cells divide so that the body may grow. Cancerous cells divide without regard for the health of the body they inhabit. The difference is not simply division—it is whether that division produces life or destruction. Our disagreements can do the same. Will our conversations strengthen the body of Christ or weaken it? Will they promote maturity or deepen division? Will they reflect the wisdom that is "first pure, then peaceable, gentle, and easy to be intreated," or the spirit of this age that measures success by winning arguments? In this episode of Striving Without Strife, we will explore what it means to disagree as followers of Jesus Christ. We will discover that conviction does not require cruelty, that truth does not need anger to defend it, and that some of the strongest defenders of the faith have also been examples of humility and grace. Because Christian maturity is measured not only by what we believe, but by how we treat one another while seeking the truth together. Growth requires division. But it never requires tearing the body apart.

S18E2 Striving Without Strife Pt 2 How to Disagree Like a Christian

S18E2 Striving Without Strife Pt 2 How to Disagree Like a ChristianIn a world that rewards outrage, celebrates verbal victories, and measures success by who "wins" the debate, Christians are called to something radically different.In this opening episode of Striving Without Strife, we explore what Scripture teaches about disagreeing without becoming disagreeable. The Bible never tells believers to avoid difficult conversations—in fact, it commands us to "earnestly contend for the faith" (Jude 3). Yet it also reminds us that "the servant of the Lord must not strive; but be gentle unto all men, apt to teach, patient" (2 Timothy 2:24, KJV).How do we hold both truths together?We'll examine the difference between contending for truth and contending with people, why humility is a greater virtue than rhetorical skill, and why our goal should never be to defeat an opponent but to help one another draw nearer to Christ. Debate techniques, clever arguments, and persuasive speaking may impress an audience, but they do not determine what is true. Truth is established by God's Word—not by who argues it best.Whether discussing theology, church practice, or Christian living, our objective should always be the same: to sharpen one another as "iron sharpeneth iron" (Proverbs 27:17), growing together in grace, wisdom, and a deeper understanding of Scripture.Join us as we learn how to disagree like Christians—speaking the truth in love, listening with humility, and striving not for victory over one another, but for faithfulness to the truth.

S18E3 Striving wo Strife Pt 3 Unity or Separation?

S18E3 Striving wo Strife Pt 3 Unity or Separation? [https://linktr.ee/Sogreatsalvation] One of the most unforgettable courtroom scenes in Scripture is found during the reign of King Solomon. Two women stand before the king, each claiming the same infant as her own. With no witnesses and no clear evidence, Solomon proposes a shocking solution: bring a sword, divide the living child in two, and give half to each woman. The reaction reveals everything. One woman is willing to accept the compromise. If she cannot have the child, neither can the other. Winning the dispute matters more than the child's life. The other woman responds very differently. She would rather lose the argument than lose the child. She pleads with Solomon to give the baby to the other woman if it means the child's life will be spared. She was willing to surrender her claim because love mattered more than victory. That moment reaches far beyond a custody dispute. It exposes a principle that applies to disagreements within the body of Christ. When conflict arises, are we trying to preserve what God values, or are we simply trying to win? Too often, Christians approach doctrinal disagreements like opposing attorneys or rival debaters. Every conversation becomes a contest. Every disagreement has winners and losers. But the New Testament calls believers to something higher. Unity is not built by sacrificing truth, nor is truth defended by sacrificing love. There are times when separation is necessary. Scripture warns against false teachers, persistent immorality, and doctrines that corrupt the gospel. Unity without truth is compromise. Yet there is another danger: separating where God has not commanded separation. Dividing over personalities, preferences, secondary doctrines, or personal offenses has fractured churches, ministries, friendships, and families for generations. The question is not simply, "Am I right?" but, "What am I trying to protect?" Am I protecting God's truth—or my pride? Am I defending the faith—or defending my reputation? Am I seeking restoration—or merely vindication? Like the two women before Solomon, our response to conflict reveals what we truly love. The false mother could not bear to see someone else receive the child. The true mother could bear losing the argument because her love was greater than her desire to be proven right. This episode explores the balance between unity and separation. When does faithfulness require us to stand apart? When should we bear with one another in love? How do we contend earnestly for the faith without becoming contentious people? The wisdom of Solomon exposed the true mother by revealing what she loved most. In the same way, our conflicts reveal our hearts. Are we willing to divide the child just to win the case? Or are we willing to lay down our pride and our desire to be vindicated for the sake of preserving what Christ loves—His truth, His church, and His people? Join us as we continue Striving Without Strife and discover that sometimes the strongest defense of truth is not found in winning an argument, but in demonstrating the selfless love that reflects the heart of Christ.

S18E1 Striving wo Strife Pt 1: Why Do Christian's Argue?

S18E1 Striving wo Strife Pt 1: Why Do Christian's Argue? [https://linktr.ee/Sogreatsalvation] There is a tension that has always existed in the Christian world.Believers are called to unity—real unity grounded in truth, humility, and love. Yet church history, and even today’s online spaces, are filled with disagreement, debate, and division among people who all claim the same Lord and the same Scriptures.So the question naturally arises: Why do Christians argue so much?Not just disagree—but argue. Not just discuss—but strive to win.This series, Striving Without Strife, is not about silencing conviction or pretending truth does not matter. It is about something more difficult: recognizing how easily a pursuit of truth can become entangled with pride, ego, and the desire to win.We live in a culture that trains people to debate everything. Social media rewards sharp responses, quick wins, and public victories. Over time, conversations about Scripture, doctrine, and theology can shift from “What is true?” to “How do I defeat this argument?”And that shift matters.Because truth can be handled in two very different ways: it can be spoken in love to build up, or it can be used as a weapon to tear down.Scripture does call believers to contend for the faith. There are moments for correction, clarity, and even strong rebuke. But the New Testament also repeatedly warns against strife, vain disputes, and arguments that produce division rather than edification.That means the issue is not whether Christians should care about truth—they must. The issue is how truth is handled and what spirit drives the conversation.So why do Christians argue?First, because truth matters. If Scripture is God’s Word, then disagreement is not trivial. Many arguments come from genuine concern for doctrine, the gospel, and faithfulness to Christ.Second, because the flesh is still present. Even sincere believers can slip from conviction into pride, from clarity into ego, and from discussion into personal contest.Third, because modern culture rewards conflict. Online spaces amplify sharpness and reduce patience, shaping how believers communicate without them realizing it.And fourth, because identity often becomes tied to interpretation. When a theological position becomes part of personal identity, disagreement can feel like personal threat rather than honest discussion.The result is that even Bible-centered conversations can become emotionally charged battles for validation instead of pathways to understanding.But Scripture presents a different pattern. Christ is bold, yet never driven by ego. The apostles are firm, yet not fleshly. Truth is never separated from love.So the deeper question is not simply why do we argue, but: what kind of people are we becoming in the way we argue?Because it is possible to be right in content and wrong in spirit. It is possible to defend truth while damaging unity. And it is possible to win an argument while losing the very character Christ is forming in His people.This series begins there: not with how to win debates, but with how to recognize the difference between striving for truth and striving against one another.Because the goal is not victory over people.The goal is faithfulness to Christ—speaking truth in a way that actually reflects Him.

S17E4 The Divinity of Christ Pt 4 The Divine Titles Jesus Claimed

S17E4 The Divinity of Christ Pt 4 The Divine Titles Jesus Claimed [https://linktr.ee/Sogreatsalvation]The question of who Jesus claimed to be lies at the very heart of the Christian faith. While many acknowledge Him as a great teacher or prophet, the testimony of Scripture presents something far more astonishing. Throughout His earthly ministry, Jesus deliberately applied to Himself titles that belong to God alone—titles rich with Old Testament significance and unmistakable claims to divine authority.In this episode, we'll examine the names and titles Jesus used to describe Himself, including "I AM," "the First and the Last," "the Lord of the Sabbath," "the Good Shepherd," and others. We'll trace these titles back to their Old Testament foundations and discover that Christ was not merely using poetic language or lofty metaphors. He was revealing His identity as the eternal Son of God—the One who shares the Father's divine nature and glory.These claims were not lost on those who heard Him. Time and again, the religious leaders accused Jesus of blasphemy because they understood exactly what He was saying. They recognized that He was making Himself equal with God. If Jesus were not truly God, these claims would have been either deceptive or delusional. But if they are true, then they demand our worship, our allegiance, and our faith.In this episode, we'll examine the divine titles Christ applied to Himself and compare them with their Old Testament background. We'll see that Jesus wasn't merely borrowing familiar language—He was revealing His identity as the eternal God manifested in the flesh, the One promised throughout the Scriptures, worthy of the same honor, glory, and worship as the Father.Join us as we continue our series on The Divinity of Christ and discover that the names Jesus chose were not accidental. They were intentional revelations of who He truly is—the eternal Son of God, the Creator, the Redeemer, and the King who will one day return to reign.