#114 - David Homan: It’s Not Who You Know. It’s How You Show Up

#114 - David Homan: It’s Not Who You Know. It’s How You Show Up

David Homan believes that relationships are the foundation of every opportunity, and this conversation is a masterclass in what that actually means. David, the CEO of Orchestrated Connecting, joins us to share how a career that began in music and the arts eventually led him to build a global community centered on authentic connection. From unexpected opportunities that started with something as simple as lending a friend a vacuum cleaner, to helping connect people across industries, David explains why generosity and trust consistently outperform transactional networking. We also dive into the role of consent in networking, the difference between meaningful relationship-building and cold outreach, and why David believes the future of AI should strengthen authentic human connections rather than replace them. Along the way, we talk about Broadway, community building, social media, creative careers, and the idea that success often comes not from who can help you, but from helping someone who can help someone else. If you've ever wondered how opportunities seem to find certain people, this episode offers a fresh perspective on creating your own "structured serendipity." Connect with David: 🌐 David Homan: DavidHoman.com Connect With Us: * 📩 Email us at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠wasitchancepodcast@gmail.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ * 🎧 Follow Was It Chance? on your favorite podcast platform * 📱 Connect with us on ⁠TikTok⁠ and ⁠LinkedIn⁠ * ✨ More about Heather at her ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://vickeryandco.com]⁠⁠, ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠subscribe to her Substack⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠LinkedIn⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.linkedin.com/in/heather-vickery]⁠⁠, ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.youtube.com/@HeatherVickery]⁠⁠, and more⁠⁠ * ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Visit Heather's Bookshop⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://bookshop.org/shop/HeatherVickery] * Visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Reading Well⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://thereadingwell.substack.com/] EPISODE TAKEAWAYS * Relationships create opportunities long before you realize you need them. * The best networking is not transactional. It is rooted in curiosity, generosity, and trust. * Help people because they need help, not because you expect something in return. * A meaningful introduction should always include consent from everyone involved. * Authentic relationships are built over years, not through quick online connections. * Social media can provide information, but trust is still built person to person. * The strongest communities are built around giving value before asking for it. * Small acts of generosity can lead to life-changing opportunities years later. * AI can enhance relationship-building, but it cannot replace genuine human connection. * Success often comes from helping someone who can help someone else, not just helping yourself. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices [https://megaphone.fm/adchoices]

#113 - Tiffany Crum: This Story Might Save Your Life: A Podcast Episode

Author Tiffany Crum joins Alan and Heather to talk about the twenty-year journey behind her breakout debut novel, This Story Might Save Your Life. From growing up on a dairy farm next to a maximum-security prison to working in the film industry, getting fired from Warner Bros. after accidentally insulting her boss over company chat, and writing multiple novels that never sold, Tiffany opens up about the long road to becoming a published author and eventual New York Times bestseller. The conversation dives into the persistence required to survive the publishing industry, how motherhood reshaped Tiffany’s priorities, and why she finally gave herself permission to write the book she actually wanted to read: a genre-bending thriller and love story inspired in part by true crime podcasts like My Favorite Murder. She also shares the emotional story of her son writing a college essay about watching her chase her dreams for nearly two decades and how that became one of the proudest moments of her life. Plus, Tiffany breaks down her unusual writing process of drafting entire scenes through voice memos while walking her dogs, the collaborative process behind creating the audiobook with narrators Julia Whelan and Sean Patrick Hopkins, and the surreal moment she found out she’d become a New York Times bestseller after assuming it would never happen. Connect With Us: * 📩 Email us at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠wasitchancepodcast@gmail.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ * 🎧 Follow Was It Chance? on your favorite podcast platform * 📱 Connect with us on ⁠TikTok⁠ and ⁠LinkedIn⁠ * ✨ More about Heather at her ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://vickeryandco.com]⁠⁠, ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠subscribe to her Substack⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠LinkedIn⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.linkedin.com/in/heather-vickery]⁠⁠, ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.youtube.com/@HeatherVickery]⁠⁠, and more⁠⁠ * ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Visit Heather's Bookshop⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://bookshop.org/shop/HeatherVickery] * Visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Reading Well⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://thereadingwell.substack.com/] EPISODE TAKEAWAYS * Sometimes the creative breakthrough comes when you stop trying to fit into a market and finally write the thing you genuinely want to read. * Persistence matters more than speed. Tiffany spent nearly twenty years writing, revising, failing, and starting over before publishing her debut novel. * Creative dreams often require public accountability. Declaring “I’m going to be a writer” changed Tiffany’s relationship to the goal. * Failure is not wasted work. The unpublished novels helped Tiffany become the writer capable of creating the book that finally sold. * Children learn from watching how adults pursue meaning, not just from what adults say. * A supportive creative community can make rejection survivable. * Drafting creatively does not have to look traditional. Tiffany built much of her writing process around voice memos and long walks. * Publishing success can arrive suddenly after years of invisible work. * Audiobooks are becoming a major part of how readers experience stories and can meaningfully expand the emotional world of a book. * The “overnight success” story is usually decades in the making. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices [https://megaphone.fm/adchoices]

#112 - Kern Carter: Read Between the Grind

This week on Was It Chance?, we sit down with author Kern Carter for a conversation that starts with collective grief, simulations, and angry Brooklyn cab drivers, then unfolds into one of the most honest discussions we’ve had about creativity, anxiety, ambition, and what it really takes to build a life as an artist. Kern shares how writing became both an emotional outlet and a survival tool while growing up as a quiet, anxious kid who hid his love of books behind a basketball identity. From self-publishing his early work as practice, to getting rejected by dozens of literary agents, to eventually landing deals with Penguin Random House and Scholastic, Kern walks us through the years of strategy, persistence, and emotional resilience that shaped his career. Along the way, he opens up about imposter syndrome, fear of failure, hyping himself up before literary events, and why writers deserve to see themselves as superstars. We also dive into the realities of the publishing industry, Canadian arts funding, learning in public, creative rejection, and the difference between loving writing and choosing the life of an author. Plus, Heather invites herself to guest lecture in Kern’s college writing class, Alan pitches yet another accidental business idea, and everyone agrees the world could use a little more kindness and a lot less judgment. Connect with Kern: * Kern Carter Official Website * Writers Are Superstars on Substack [https://writersaresuperstars.substack.com?utm_source=chatgpt.com] Connect With Us: * 📩 Email us at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠wasitchancepodcast@gmail.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ * 🎧 Follow Was It Chance? on your favorite podcast platform * 📱 Connect with us on ⁠TikTok⁠ and ⁠LinkedIn⁠ * ✨ More about Heather at her ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://vickeryandco.com]⁠⁠, ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠subscribe to her Substack⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠LinkedIn⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.linkedin.com/in/heather-vickery]⁠⁠, ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.youtube.com/@HeatherVickery]⁠⁠, and more⁠⁠ * ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Visit Heather's Bookshop⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://bookshop.org/shop/HeatherVickery] * Visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Reading Well⁠⁠⁠ [https://thereadingwell.substack.com/] EPISODE TAKEAWAYS * Writing can be both an artistic pursuit and an emotional survival tool. * You do not have to love failure in order to learn from it. * Confidence is often built through repetition, not natural fearlessness. * There is a difference between loving writing and pursuing authorship as a career. * Creative careers require strategy, promotion, and resilience alongside talent. * Sometimes the bravest thing an artist can do is stop hiding who they are. * The stories we tell ourselves about ourselves become self-fulfilling. * Learning in public can be uncomfortable, but it accelerates growth. * Being emotionally open in your art can feel terrifying and necessary at the same time. * Artists deserve to see themselves as valuable, powerful, and worthy of recognition. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices [https://megaphone.fm/adchoices]

#111 - Chris Dattoli: Betting on Yourself in a Feast or Famine Career

Alan and Heather sit down with New Jersey–based voice actor and coach Chris Dattoli to unpack the winding, risk-filled path that led him from a corporate marketing job he despised to a thriving career behind the mic. Chris shares how a mix of early creative instincts, a pivotal audiobook opportunity, and one bold decision to quit his job forced him to bet on himself in a big way. What followed was a crash course in resilience, self-marketing, and navigating the unpredictable “feast or famine” reality of voiceover work. The conversation dives into the craft itself, from audition strategies and emotional connection to the importance of standing out in a sea of submissions. Chris pulls back the curtain on what it really takes to succeed in voice acting today, including how he approaches risk in performance, why failure is essential to growth, and how he balances creative fulfillment with the less glamorous but more lucrative parts of the industry. He also opens up about imposter syndrome, the impact of AI on narration, and the mindset shifts that helped him stay grounded through both wins and setbacks. Ultimately, this episode is about trusting your instincts, embracing uncertainty, and redefining success on your own terms. Chris’s story is a reminder that intentional risk isn’t just about making bold moves, it’s about sustaining belief in yourself long after the leap. Connect With Us: * 📩 Email us at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠wasitchancepodcast@gmail.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ * 🎧 Follow Was It Chance? on your favorite podcast platform * 📱 Connect with us on ⁠TikTok⁠ and ⁠LinkedIn⁠ * ✨ More about Heather at her ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://vickeryandco.com]⁠⁠, ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠subscribe to her Substack⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠LinkedIn⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.linkedin.com/in/heather-vickery]⁠⁠, ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.youtube.com/@HeatherVickery]⁠⁠, and more⁠⁠ * ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Visit Heather's Bookshop⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://bookshop.org/shop/HeatherVickery] * Visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Reading Well⁠⁠ [https://thereadingwell.substack.com/] EPISODE TAKEAWAYS * Intentional risk often starts with walking away from something stable that makes you unhappy, even without a clear safety net. * You can build a creative career by stacking small opportunities and treating each one like it matters. * The audition is the job, and consistency over time matters more than any single booking. * Standing out is less about being perfect and more about making bold, specific choices. * Imposter syndrome never fully goes away, but you can learn to manage it and keep moving forward anyway. * Creative success requires both artistry and business skills, especially marketing yourself effectively. * Failure is necessary feedback, not a final verdict on your ability or potential. * Financial discipline can buy you the time and freedom to take bigger creative risks. * Not every opportunity is about passion, sometimes the less glamorous work funds the dream. * Authenticity and emotional connection are what separate human performance from automation and AI. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices [https://megaphone.fm/adchoices]

#110 - Katy Scoggin: What Happens When You Document Your Own Divide?

We sit down with documentary filmmaker Katy Scoggin to unpack the decade-long journey behind her deeply personal film Flood. What begins as a curiosity about science, faith, and her upbringing as a young earth creationist evolves into a profound exploration of family, identity, and the limits of belief. Katy shares how a chance opportunity to work in documentary filmmaking, along with a simple ask to a mentor, set her on a path that would ultimately lead her back home with a camera, confronting the most complicated relationship in her life, the one with her father. As Katy traces her evolution from art student to award-winning filmmaker, we explore the risks she took both professionally and personally. She embedded herself in her family’s world, documented their dynamics, and wrestled with the tension between love and ideological divide. The conversation dives into her experience working alongside acclaimed documentarian Laura Poitras, the challenges of sustaining a creative career, and the emotional toll of turning the lens on your own life. At its core, this episode is about connection in the face of difference. Katy opens up about coming out later in life, the shifting dynamics with her deeply religious father, and the surprising ways filmmaking became a bridge between them. Through Flood, she asks a powerful question. Even when we fundamentally disagree, is it still possible to find moments of understanding and even love? Connect with Katy and learn more about Flood: * IG: @flooddoc Connect With Us: * 📩 Email us at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠wasitchancepodcast@gmail.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ * 🎧 Follow Was It Chance? on your favorite podcast platform * 📱 Connect with us on ⁠TikTok⁠ and ⁠LinkedIn⁠ * ✨ More about Heather at her ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://vickeryandco.com]⁠⁠, ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠subscribe to her Substack⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠LinkedIn⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.linkedin.com/in/heather-vickery]⁠⁠, ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://www.youtube.com/@HeatherVickery]⁠⁠, and more⁠⁠ * ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Visit Heather's Bookshop⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [https://bookshop.org/shop/HeatherVickery] * Visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Reading Well⁠⁠ [https://thereadingwell.substack.com/] EPISODE TAKEAWAYS * Creative breakthroughs often come from discomfort and dissatisfaction, not clarity * Asking for help at the right moment can completely change your career trajectory * The stories closest to home are often the hardest but most meaningful to tell * Documentary filmmaking can become a tool for connection, not just observation * You do not need someone’s approval to live authentically or tell your truth * It is possible to maintain some level of connection with people you fundamentally disagree with * Long-term creative projects require choosing stories that will stay meaningful for years * Collaboration and trusted creative relationships are essential in filmmaking * Letting go of expectations can reduce disappointment in complicated family relationships * Failure is a necessary and valuable part of growth and creative development Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices [https://megaphone.fm/adchoices]