#47: The 5 Types of Wealth & Why You’re Chasing the Wrong One | Sahil Bloom

#49: Success, Loneliness, Ambition & Why High Performers Never Feel Enough | David Spinks

David Spinks spent years building one of the most respected communities in Silicon Valley, co-founding CMX, advising top companies on belonging, and helping define an entire industry around community building. But beneath the success, achievement, and ambition, he still felt empty. In this episode with Derek Andersen, David Spinks breaks down the hidden emotional cost of high performance, why so many ambitious people struggle with loneliness, burnout, self-worth, and fulfillment, and why success alone never creates lasting happiness. He explains the dangerous relationship between ambition and identity, the loneliness epidemic affecting modern society, why high achievers often never feel “good enough,” and how startup culture conditions people to tie their worth to achievement, productivity, and external validation. The conversation goes deeper into belonging, emotional safety, purpose, fatherhood, mental health, Silicon Valley culture, spirituality, enoughness, and what it actually means to build a meaningful life without sacrificing your well-being, relationships, and inner peace. Follow David - Instagram: https://x.com/DavidSpinks [https://x.com/DavidSpinks] Follow Derek - X (Twitter): https://twitter.com/derekjandersen [https://twitter.com/derekjandersen] Episode Partners: Google for Startups Grab the new Google for Startups Future of AI report at https://goo.gle/futureofgenmedia [https://goo.gle/futureofgenmedia] Timestamps: 03:11 — What Community & Belonging Really Mean 04:34 — The Loneliness Epidemic & Social Media Addiction 06:40 — What It Truly Means to Feel Like You Belong 12:33 — Can Businesses Ever Replace Real Community? 15:39 — How Communities Mirror Human Nature & Leadership 19:40 — Silicon Valley, Success & the Need to Prove Yourself 23:51 — Why Success Never Makes You Feel “Enough” 24:19 — The False Tradeoff Between Ambition & Happiness 28:00 — Elon Musk, Steve Jobs & the Price of Greatness 31:37 — Is Making a Dent in the Universe Worth the Cost? 36:20 — Why “Saving the World” Often Starts at Home 41:04 — The Hardest Lesson: You Are Already Enough 44:22 — The One Idea David Wishes Everyone Believed 45:19 — Best Advice for Overcoming Fear & Hard Things 46:03 — Fatherhood, Presence & What Really Matters 47:27 — Why Measuring Your Life Can Be Dangerous Follow Divot: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Divotpod [https://www.youtube.com/@Divotpod] X (Twitter): https://twitter.com/divotdotorg [https://twitter.com/divotdotorg] Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/divotpod [https://www.instagram.com/divotpod] TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@divotpod [https://www.tiktok.com/@divotpod] LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/divotdotorg [https://www.linkedin.com/company/divotdotorg] Hashtags: #successmindset #highachievers #selfworth #ambition #loneliness #mentalhealth #personalgrowth #burnout #foundermindset #divotpodcast

#48: Wiz, Datadog & The Mindset Behind Billion Dollar Companies | Shardul Shah Index Ventures

Shardul Shah has backed some of the most important technology companies of the last decade. From Datadog to Wiz, his investments have helped shape the future of cybersecurity, cloud infrastructure, artificial intelligence, and enterprise software. In this episode, Derek Andersen, Shardul Shah, partner at Index Ventures, breaks down the mindset behind billion-dollar startups, how elite founders think about AI, venture capital, acquisitions, intuition, ambition, and building category-defining companies. He explains why most startup founders misunderstand venture capital, why imagination matters as much as execution, and the two questions every entrepreneur must answer before selling their company. The conversation goes deeper into trust, relationships, founder psychology, ego, and purpose, why the best investors study people more than markets, how intuition shapes billion-dollar decisions, and what separates iconic founders from short-term operators. Plus, the untold stories behind Wiz’s $32 billion acquisition, Datadog’s early days, Michael Jordan’s influence on competition, Nas, Dave Chappelle, and the investing philosophy behind some of the most successful startup outcomes of the last decade. Follow Sahil - Instagram: https://x.com/shardul_shah [https://x.com/shardul_shah] Follow Derek - X (Twitter): https://twitter.com/derekjandersen [https://twitter.com/derekjandersen] Episode Partners: Google for Startups Grab the new Google for Startups Future of AI report at https://goo.gle/futureofgenmedia [https://goo.gle/futureofgenmedia] Timestamps: 02:43 — How a Random Encounter Changed His Entire Life 05:16 — Why Great Startup Founders Can Come From Anywhere 08:06 — Why Shardul Refuses to Invest Over Zoom 13:32 — Why Engineers Are Being Measured By Token Usage 14:39 — The Trait Every Billion Dollar Founder Shares 20:09 — The Brutal Truth About Boardroom Disagreements 24:03 — How Building Communities Led To Billion Dollar Companies 27:11 — Why Datadog Looked Like a Terrible Investment 29:03 — The Mindset Required To Invest Before Everyone Else 33:29 — Inside Wiz’s Historic $32 Billion Acquisition 35:40 — The 2 Questions Every Founder Must Answer 36:24 — If You Can 10X Your Company, Never Sell 40:17 — The Difference Between Your Heart & Your Mind 42:00 — The Ancient Philosophy That Changed How He Thinks 49:34 — Why Michael Jordan Obsessed Him With Competition 52:23 — Dave Chappelle, Nas & The Best Night of His Life 54:00 — The Truth About Intuition & Great Decisions Follow Divot: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Divotpod [https://www.youtube.com/@Divotpod] X (Twitter): https://twitter.com/divotdotorg [https://twitter.com/divotdotorg] Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/divotpod [https://www.instagram.com/divotpod] TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@divotpod [https://www.tiktok.com/@divotpod] LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/divotdotorg [https://www.linkedin.com/company/divotdotorg] Hashtags: #shardulshah #wiz #datadog #venturecapital #startupfounders #artificialintelligence #cybersecurity #foundermindset #entrepreneurmindset #divotpodcast

#47: The 5 Types of Wealth & Why You’re Chasing the Wrong One | Sahil Bloom

Sahil Bloom grew up with one scoreboard: money. He worked his way into top private equity firms, built a career most would envy, and still felt hollow, until he started questioning what wealth actually means. In this episode with Derek Andersen, Sahil Bloom, NYT bestselling author of The Five Types of Wealth, breaks down the framework redefining how millions think about success, time wealth, social wealth, mental wealth, physical wealth, and financial wealth. He explains the arrival fallacy that traps high achievers, why ambition without direction destroys more lives than failure ever could, and how building a "margin of freedom" early determines whether you'll ever actually escape the golden cage. The episode goes deeper into identity, purpose, and what a good life actually looks like, why your quest matters more than your goals, how to stop living by someone else's design, and the one conversation with his wife that changed everything. Follow Sahil - Instagram: https://x.com/SahilBloom [https://x.com/SahilBloom] Follow Derek - X (Twitter): https://twitter.com/derekjandersen [https://twitter.com/derekjandersen] Episode Partners: Google for Startups Grab the new Google for Startups Future of AI report at https://g.co/futureofgenmedia [https://g.co/futureofgenmedia] Timestamps: 01:05 — The 5 Types of Wealth That Actually Matter 02:09 — Why Chasing Money Leads You Off a Cliff 05:16 — Why Success Feels Empty After You Achieve It 07:16 — You’ll Always Want More Money (Here’s Why) 11:40 — Humans Need a Quest to Feel Alive 16:19 — Ambition Without Direction Is Miserable 18:21 — Direction not Speed (The Life Rule That Matters) 20:15 — Why People Stay Stuck in “Good Enough” Lives 27:27 — How to Actually Change Your Life 28:25 — The Danger of Winning the Wrong Game 50:16 — What Real Confidence Actually Means 58:35 — The Best Advice for Doing Hard Things Follow Divot: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Divotpod [https://www.youtube.com/@Divotpod] X (Twitter): https://twitter.com/divotdotorg [https://twitter.com/divotdotorg] Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/divotpod [https://www.instagram.com/divotpod] TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@divotpod [https://www.tiktok.com/@divotpod] LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/divotdotorg [https://www.linkedin.com/company/divotdotorg] Hashtags: #5typesofwealth #sahilbloom #wealthmindset #founderjourney #entrepreneurmindset #purposedriven #timewealth #buildingmeaningfullife #personalgrowth #divotpodcast

#46: Elder Neil L. Andersen (Faith Conversation with a Latter-day Saint Apostle, My Dad)

Before becoming a global spiritual leader, Neil L. Andersen was a farm boy learning discipline, responsibility, and faith long before the world ever knew his name. For Derek Andersen, this isn’t just another interview, it’s a conversation with his father. In this conversation, he shares his journey from building a successful business to serving worldwide as a member of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles, traveling across 50+ countries, and speaking to millions about faith, resilience, and purpose. He explains how faith is built like a muscle, why humility is the foundation of real strength, and how serving others creates a deeper sense of fulfillment than success alone. He also shares lessons on leadership, discipline, and making decisions that align with what truly matters. The episode goes deeper into identity, forgiveness, and meaning, why achievement won’t fix how you feel inside, how to navigate suffering, and what people realize actually matters at the end of life. Follow Neil - Instagram: https://x.com/AndersenNeilL [https://x.com/AndersenNeilL] Follow Derek - X (Twitter): https://twitter.com/derekjandersen [https://twitter.com/derekjandersen] Episode Partners: Google for Startups Everything you need to build and scale AI agents, from tools to expert guidance: https://g.co/startupagentguide [https://g.co/startupagentguide] Timestamps: 01:14 — The Burden Everyone Carries in Life 02:23 — The Real Game of Life: Good vs Evil 08:23 — Growing Up on a Farm 09:31 — The Experience That Expanded His World 11:21 — From Self to Service 12:40 — Why Helping Others Creates Meaning 16:48 — Faith Is a Muscle 23:41 — How to Rebuild Faith When You’ve Lost It 27:19 — Why Humility Is the Source of Real Strength 30:22 — Speaking About Faith in a Modern World 32:54 — What Happens After Death 40:01 — The Danger of Ego and Recognition 45:08 — The Call That Changed His Life 53:04 — Becoming an Apostle 57:13 — His Core Responsibility 01:03:20 — The Hardest Part: Helping People in Pain 01:14:00 — Forgiveness: Why You’re Never Too Far Gone 01:18:13 — The One Idea He Would Teach the World 01:19:08 — How He Measures a Good Life Follow Divot: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Divotpod [https://www.youtube.com/@Divotpod] X (Twitter): https://twitter.com/divotdotorg [https://twitter.com/divotdotorg] Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/divotpod [https://www.instagram.com/divotpod] TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@divotpod [https://www.tiktok.com/@divotpod] LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/divotdotorg [https://www.linkedin.com/company/divotdotorg] Hashtags: #faith #faithjourney #forgiveness #purpose #meaningoflife #lifelessons #personalgrowth #selfimprovement #mindset #humility #service #familyvalues #fatherandson #spiritualgrowth #resilience #leadership #divotpodcast

#45: The Mindset That Builds Champions | BYU Athletic Director Brian Santiago

Brian Santiago is the Athletic Director at BYU, one of the most respected leaders in college sports. Over nearly three decades inside BYU athletics, he rose from the coaching staff to Athletic Director, helping lead one of the most competitive and values-driven programs in the country into the Big 12 and national relevance. But his journey wasn’t just about winning. From losing control as a young competitor to learning how to channel intensity, Brian shares the defining moments that shaped his leadership. From showing up for athletes in their hardest moments to building meaningful relationships across the world, this conversation reveals what it actually takes to lead at the highest level. This episode goes deeper into belief, identity, and what winning really means. Brian breaks down why we are all born to win, why most people never reach their potential, and how to develop a competitive edge without losing yourself. It’s a powerful reminder that success without character is empty, and that the real game is who you become. Follow Brian - Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bsant25 [https://www.instagram.com/bsant25] Follow Derek - X (Twitter): https://twitter.com/derekjandersen [https://twitter.com/derekjandersen] Episode Partners: Google for Startups Everything you need to build and scale AI agents, from tools to expert guidance: https://g.co/startupagentguide [https://g.co/startupagentguide] Timestamps: 00:01:31 — Jimmer Fredette & What Real Greatness Looks Like 00:04:04 — 163 Shots, Almost No Misses (Inside Elite Competitors) 00:06:18 — Why Great Leaders Always Show Up for Their People 00:10:14 — The Power of Relationships (This Changes Everything) 00:12:34 — Why Most People Stop Seeing Others 00:19:57 — The Jacket Story (Real Leadership in Action) 00:25:12 — Turning an Enemy Into a Fan (The “Snake” Story) 00:27:53 — Why BYU Is “One of One” (Faith, Discipline & Focus) 00:31:05 — Why Top Athletes Choose Purpose Over Money 00:41:27 — We Were Born to Win (The Core Philosophy) 00:42:25 — The Lesson That Changed His Life (Control vs Intensity) 00:46:40 — “I Didn’t Come Here to Watch” (Winner Mentality) 00:59:27 — Find a Way. Never Let Up. (Final Message) Follow Divot: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Divotpod [https://www.youtube.com/@Divotpod] X (Twitter): https://twitter.com/divotdotorg [https://twitter.com/divotdotorg] Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/divotpod [https://www.instagram.com/divotpod] TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@divotpod [https://www.tiktok.com/@divotpod] LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/divotdotorg [https://www.linkedin.com/company/divotdotorg] Hashtags: #leadership #highperformance #mindsetshift #personaldevelopment #winningmindset #successprinciples #businessstrategy #divotpodcast