Episode 109: No Expectations

Episode 110: Zero Fu@ks

Starting over really sucks, but it’s never too late to start. When the probability of getting divorced is over 50% it’s time to hedge your losing bet and change the odds! Finding Her is an inspiring, light-hearted podcast that targets both women and men experiencing the same agonizing WT(ACTUAL)F crossroad and tasked with an unwavering need to discover their value during a moment of personal crisis and perpetuated disruption. Despite their initial life path being vastly different, women and men of different ages are finding themselves at the exact same agonizing crossroad. Finding Her will expose a series of hardships caused by challenging relationships and questionable decisions; leaving folks on the brink of despair. Each episode will be anchored by Christy Bareijsza, who is not a therapist, life coach or a psychologist, but rather a catalyst. Christy learned the hard way how to deal with personal rejection, disappointment and utter dismay through accountability, determination and creativity in order to rebuild her confidence and reclaim her autonomy. Christy’s uncanny ability to see problems clearly and uncover realistic solutions in a non-judgmental but entertaining manner, has made her the go-to source for motivation. In the last episode, Christy discussed how to have “No Expectations” in order to allow hidden opportunities to present themselves in ways we never expected. In the Season One Finale, Christy tackles the art of giving “Zero Fu@ks” which is achieved when all lessons are learned and applied. Understanding how to truly love, accept and choose yourself in an authentic and genuine manner is tough, but it’s also the key to having a healthy mindset and living your best life. Let’s dive into how to keep up the daily fight, your future self will thank you.

Episode 109: No Expectations

Starting over really sucks, but it’s never too late to start. When the probability of getting divorced is over 50% it’s time to hedge your losing bet and change the odds! Finding Her is an inspiring, light-hearted podcast that targets both women and men experiencing the same agonizing WT(ACTUAL)F crossroad and tasked with an unwavering need to discover their value during a moment of personal crisis and perpetuated disruption. Despite their initial life path being vastly different, women and men of different ages are finding themselves at the exact same agonizing crossroad. Finding Her will expose a series of hardships caused by challenging relationships and questionable decisions; leaving folks on the brink of despair. Each episode will be anchored by Christy Bareijsza, who is not a therapist, life coach or a psychologist, but rather a catalyst. Christy learned the hard way how to deal with personal rejection, disappointment and utter dismay through accountability, determination and creativity in order to rebuild her confidence and reclaim her autonomy. Christy’s uncanny ability to see problems clearly and uncover realistic solutions in a non-judgmental but entertaining manner, has made her the go-to source for motivation. In the last episode, Christy discussed how to “Silence the Noise” of people who will judge and criticise you. In today’s episode, Christy discusses how you should choose to have “No Expectations” when dating. Learning how to date without preconceived notions will relieve the pressure on yourself and the other person, while allowing the relationship to take the course it’s meant to. It’s important to treat every new encounter as an opportunity in your life, not just for love.

Episode 108: Silence the Noise

Starting over really sucks, but it’s never too late to start. When the probability of getting divorced is over 50% it’s time to hedge your losing bet and change the odds! Finding Her is an inspiring, light-hearted podcast that targets both women and men experiencing the same agonizing WT(ACTUAL)F crossroad and tasked with an unwavering need to discover their value during a moment of personal crisis and perpetuated disruption. Despite their initial life path being vastly different, women and men of different ages are finding themselves at the exact same agonizing crossroad. Finding Her will expose a series of hardships caused by challenging relationships and questionable decisions; leaving folks on the brink of despair. Each episode will be anchored by Christy Bareijsza, who is not a therapist, life coach or a psychologist, but rather a catalyst. Christy learned the hard way how to deal with personal rejection, disappointment and utter dismay through accountability, determination and creativity in order to rebuild her confidence and reclaim her autonomy. Christy’s uncanny ability to see problems clearly and uncover realistic solutions in a non-judgmental but entertaining manner, has made her the go-to source for motivation. In the last episode, Christy discussed supporting your growth through “Expansion” by leveraging your network and focusing directly on a path to achieve your goals. In today’s episode, Christy discusses how to “Silence the Noise” of judgement and criticism. These critiques can be from frenemies, family members, or even yourself and cause overwhelming setbacks. Christy further elaborates on how to set boundaries so you can remain focused on your goals while eliminating the bad habits and influences along the way.

Episode 107: Expansion

Starting over really sucks, but it’s never too late to start. When the probability of getting divorced is over 50% it’s time to hedge your losing bet and change the odds! Finding Her is an inspiring, light-hearted podcast that targets both women and men experiencing the same agonizing WT(ACTUAL)F crossroad and tasked with an unwavering need to discover their value during a moment of personal crisis and perpetuated disruption. Despite their initial life path being vastly different, women and men of different ages are finding themselves at the exact same agonizing crossroad. Finding Her will expose a series of hardships caused by challenging relationships and questionable decisions; leaving folks on the brink of despair. Each episode will be anchored by Christy Bareijsza, who is not a therapist, life coach or a psychologist, but rather a catalyst. Christy learned the hard way how to deal with personal rejection, disappointment and utter dismay through accountability, determination and creativity in order to rebuild her confidence and reclaim her autonomy. Christy’s uncanny ability to see problems clearly and uncover realistic solutions in a non-judgmental but entertaining manner, has made her the go-to source for motivation. In the last episode, Christy discussed “Branding” and how to develop, refine and embrace your image to support your goals. In today’s episode, Christy examines how to shape “Expansion” both personally and professionally, which often includes having to cut weighted ties. As growth is a journey that starts with three steps forward and often falls two steps back, it is critical to remain focused on the end goal, which includes leveraging your network and making tough decisions to protect and ensure your overall success.

Episode 106: Branding

Starting over really sucks, but it’s never too late to start. When the probability of getting divorced is over 50% it’s time to hedge your losing bet and change the odds! Finding Her is an inspiring, light-hearted podcast that targets both women and men experiencing the same agonizing WT(ACTUAL)F crossroad and tasked with an unwavering need to discover their value during a moment of personal crisis and perpetuated disruption. Despite their initial life path being vastly different, women and men of different ages are finding themselves at the exact same agonizing crossroad. Finding Her will expose a series of hardships caused by challenging relationships and questionable decisions; leaving folks on the brink of despair. Each episode will be anchored by Christy Bareijsza, who is not a therapist, life coach or a psychologist, but rather a catalyst. Christy learned the hard way how to deal with personal rejection, disappointment and utter dismay through accountability, determination and creativity in order to rebuild her confidence and reclaim her autonomy. Christy’s uncanny ability to see problems clearly and uncover realistic solutions in a non-judgmental but entertaining manner, has made her the go-to source for motivation. In the last episode, Christy discussed “Building Wealth” explaining the fundamental knowledge and accountability required to manage money efficiently. In today’s episode, Christy explains the delicate balance of “Branding” and how to define, but more importantly, refine your brand regardless of it being tangible or intangible. By starting with believing in your value, expertise and emotional impact, you will ultimately build towards living your brand daily with a step by step guide on how to initiate and develop it effectively to ensure success.