032: Human Design Heart/Ego Center Explained

032: Human Design Heart/Ego Center Explained

Do you constantly feel the need to prove yourself? In this episode of Finding True North, Kelly-Anne and Jacqueline continue their Human Design Centers series with a deep dive into the Ego Center, also known as the Heart Center. This powerful center is connected to willpower, desire, commitment, self-worth, and the stories we tell ourselves about our value. Together, they explore the differences between having a defined or undefined Heart Center and how each expression can shape our relationship with achievement, productivity, promises, and self-worth. The conversation uncovers why so many people struggle with overcommitting, burnout, people-pleasing, and tying their value to what they accomplish rather than who they are. Whether you have a defined or undefined Heart Center, this episode offers valuable insights into understanding your motivations, recognizing conditioning patterns, and remembering that your worth is not something you have to earn. Pre-order your copy of Every Body Holds a Story Volume 2 Here [https://buy.stripe.com/6oU3cw61e91abbg2Qm3AY03?fbclid=IwY2xjawSDwo1leHRuA2FlbQIxMABicmlkETFxVzFqR3k4dTAxMmJ0VXZHc3J0YwZhcHBfaWQQMjIyMDM5MTc4ODIwMDg5MgABHqsoz4qhMXrbA0BHJooNTYyFjXLromRPwdKG8J9zfIoGIMCJzt_WaUv-AgPT_aem_jqw6LncvKfEE0h9DyVE1mw] 10 Minute Human Design & Mindset Starter Kit: https://kellyanneappleton.myflodesk.com/starterkit [https://kellyanneappleton.myflodesk.com/starterkit] Discover your Human Design: https://humandesignblueprint.com/ [https://humandesignblueprint.com/] Connect with Kelly-Anne: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/appletonkellyanne/ [https://www.instagram.com/appletonkellyanne/] Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kellyanne.appleton [https://www.facebook.com/kellyanne.appleton] Connect with Jacqueline: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jacqueline_sch [https://www.instagram.com/jacqueline_sch]

031: Our Stories - Becoming Co-Authors

In this episode of Finding True North, Jacqueline and Kelly-Anne share the deeply personal journey of becoming co-authors in Every Body Holds a Story Volume 2. They open up about the fears, limiting beliefs, healing moments, and unexpected breakthroughs that came with writing their chapters. From voice-noting raw emotions to rewriting old beliefs, this conversation explores the transformative power of storytelling and the courage it takes to be seen. The sisters also give a preview of their individual chapters, Wherever You Go, There You Are and Crowned, and reflect on how vulnerability can become a bridge for connection and healing. If you have ever questioned whether your story matters, this episode is your reminder that it does. In this episode, we discuss: * Why both Jacqueline and Kelly-Anne decided to become published authors * The limiting beliefs that surfaced during the writing process * How storytelling can be healing and cathartic * The surprising process of using voice notes to write a chapter * Midlife transformation, identity shifts, and self-discovery * Why vulnerability creates connection * The belief that somebody, somewhere, needs the story you carry Pre-order your copy of Every Body Holds a Story Volume 2 Here [https://buy.stripe.com/6oU3cw61e91abbg2Qm3AY03?fbclid=IwY2xjawSDwo1leHRuA2FlbQIxMABicmlkETFxVzFqR3k4dTAxMmJ0VXZHc3J0YwZhcHBfaWQQMjIyMDM5MTc4ODIwMDg5MgABHqsoz4qhMXrbA0BHJooNTYyFjXLromRPwdKG8J9zfIoGIMCJzt_WaUv-AgPT_aem_jqw6LncvKfEE0h9DyVE1mw] 10 Minute Human Design & Mindset Starter Kit: https://kellyanneappleton.myflodesk.com/starterkit [https://kellyanneappleton.myflodesk.com/starterkit] Discover your Human Design: https://humandesignblueprint.com/ [https://humandesignblueprint.com/] Connect with Kelly-Anne: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/appletonkellyanne/ [https://www.instagram.com/appletonkellyanne/] Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kellyanne.appleton [https://www.facebook.com/kellyanne.appleton] Connect with Jacqueline: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jacqueline_sch [https://www.instagram.com/jacqueline_sch]

030: Finding Yourself Again Through Feminine Archetypes

What if the changes you’re experiencing in life are not signs that something is wrong, but signs that something deeper is awakening? In today’s episode of Finding True North, Kelly-Anne and Jacqueline take a thoughtful dive into the feminine archetypes and the different seasons women move through throughout life. From the freedom and curiosity of the Maiden to the nurturing energy of the Mother, the awakening of the Queen, and the wisdom of the Crone, this conversation explores how each archetype carries its own gifts, lessons and challenges. The conversation touches on identity, self sacrifice, midlife awakening, intuition, purpose and the powerful shift many women experience when they begin questioning the roles they’ve played for others. Kellyanne shares how learning about these archetypes deeply resonated with her own journey and helped put words to feelings she could not previously explain. This episode is an invitation to reflect on where you are in your own life right now, what energy you may be embodying, and how these archetypes can offer greater understanding, compassion and self awareness. In this episode, we discuss: • The meaning of feminine archetypes • The Maiden, Mother, Queen and Crone energies • Why the Queen archetype often emerges in midlife • How women can move between archetypes throughout life • The connection between archetypes, identity and purpose • Why midlife awakening is often misunderstood • The wisdom and liberation found within the Crone archetype Whether you see yourself clearly in one archetype or feel connected to pieces of all four, this conversation offers a powerful reminder that every season of womanhood carries meaning, wisdom and transformation. 10 Minute Human Design & Mindset Starter Kit: https://kellyanneappleton.myflodesk.com/starterkit [https://kellyanneappleton.myflodesk.com/starterkit] Discover your Human Design: https://humandesignblueprint.com/ [https://humandesignblueprint.com/] Connect with Kelly-Anne: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/appletonkellyanne/ [https://www.instagram.com/appletonkellyanne/] Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kellyanne.appleton [https://www.facebook.com/kellyanne.appleton] Connect with Jacqueline: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jacqueline_sch [https://www.instagram.com/jacqueline_sch]

029: Defined & Undefined Identity Center

In this episode, we continue our Human Design centers series with one of the most personal and emotionally layered centers in the chart: the Identity Center, also known as the G Center. This center is deeply connected to your sense of self, direction, identity, love, and the feeling of being aligned with who you truly are. And for many people, this conversation hits hard in the best possible way. We explore the experience of having a defined identity center, where there tends to be a more stable and consistent sense of self. You may naturally know when something feels right for you and when it doesn’t. Even during big life changes, there is often an underlying steadiness that helps guide your decisions and keeps you connected to who you are. But we also unpack the challenges that can come with that certainty, especially when others around you seem unsure, inconsistent, or constantly changing. It can be difficult to understand why other people cannot “just know” themselves the way you do. On the other side, we dive into the experience of having an undefined identity center, where identity feels more fluid and shaped by environment, relationships, and energy. This can look like feeling like a different version of yourself depending on who you are with or where you are. And while society often tells us that consistency equals authenticity, this episode offers a completely different perspective. For those with an undefined identity, changing is not a flaw. It is part of the design. This conversation brings powerful validation for anyone who has ever questioned themselves for evolving, shifting, or feeling uncertain about who they are. It also highlights the importance of the right environments and relationships, and how much clarity can emerge when you stop forcing yourself to stay the same. At the heart of this episode is a reminder that identity is not one size fits all. Some people are here to anchor into a strong sense of self. Others are here to experience life through flexibility, openness, and transformation. 10 Minute Human Design & Mindset Starter Kit: https://kellyanneappleton.myflodesk.com/starterkit [https://kellyanneappleton.myflodesk.com/starterkit] Discover your Human Design: https://humandesignblueprint.com/ [https://humandesignblueprint.com/] Connect with Kelly-Anne: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/appletonkellyanne/ [https://www.instagram.com/appletonkellyanne/] Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kellyanne.appleton [https://www.facebook.com/kellyanne.appleton] Connect with Jacqueline: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jacqueline_sch [https://www.instagram.com/jacqueline_sch]

028: Defined vs Open Throat - Understanding Your Expression

In today’s episode, we continue with our Human Design centers series with a deep dive into the Throat Center, the hub of communication, expression, and being heard. This is where your inner world meets the outer world. It is how your thoughts, feelings, and ideas are brought to life through your voice. And for something that seems so natural, this is also one of the most conditioned and emotionally charged centers we have. We explore what it means to have a defined throat, where expression tends to feel more consistent and accessible. You may be someone who naturally speaks up, puts words to what others are feeling, or communicates in a way that lands and creates impact. But the challenge here is subtle. It can show up as talking too quickly, filling space without realizing it, or assuming that everyone else should be able to express themselves the same way. We also unpack the experience of an undefined throat, where expression is less predictable and often influenced by the people and environments around you. You might feel pressure to speak just to be seen or heard, only to walk away wondering why you said what you did or why you couldn’t say what you actually meant. At times, you may feel quiet and reserved, and at other times, unexpectedly expressive. What this episode makes clear is that neither way is better. They are simply different ways your voice moves through the world. We also touch on how deeply this center is shaped by conditioning. From classrooms to workplaces to relationships, many of us have been taught that speaking up equals confidence and value. But that belief can create pressure, especially for those whose voice doesn’t work in a consistent or immediate way. At the core of this conversation is a powerful reminder. Expression is not about talking more or saying it perfectly. It is about trusting your timing, your energy, and your truth. Because your voice is not here to perform. It is here to express what is real for you, in the way that is natural for you. 10 Minute Human Design & Mindset Starter Kit: https://kellyanneappleton.myflodesk.com/starterkit [https://kellyanneappleton.myflodesk.com/starterkit] Discover your Human Design: https://humandesignblueprint.com/ [https://humandesignblueprint.com/] Connect with Kelly-Anne: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/appletonkellyanne/ [https://www.instagram.com/appletonkellyanne/] Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kellyanne.appleton [https://www.facebook.com/kellyanne.appleton] Connect with Jacqueline: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jacqueline_sch [https://www.instagram.com/jacqueline_sch]