Made for More with Susan Deborahs

22: Stop Avoiding It... How to Have Hard Conversations Without Losing Your Friend

Hard conversations are just that — hard. But what if they could actually be the key to deeper, more meaningful friendships?In this episode, I'm sharing practical tips on how to have those difficult conversations with the people you love — without the accusations, the shouting, or the fear. Whether you've been avoiding a conversation out of fear of conflict, not wanting to hurt someone's feelings, or worrying about losing the friendship altogether — this one is for you.✨GET MY BOOK✨If you desire to get closer to God and grow in prayer and the word. Then get my book, Connecting with God: A Guide to Authentic Relationship with Him here: https://amzn.eu/d/008oRhQE [https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqbWRQTVFrYXBHbU5ZZmFVcXZpYWNNZUN0MGFDQXxBQ3Jtc0ttcVl5SGwwMlNmZWxLZEkyN3Z2TGxWTjdLUExZTG9YQ21udGlCc2ZfdTR4VHJ0Wk5NUFA3djFLQUk2enRZQTcwSVFMZVZhb0lwdzZORkF3Yjk0R1ZEaFFvX3d1alZYaFp1dkxQeVNKdWlqTjNNU2JhOA&q=https%3A%2F%2Famzn.eu%2Fd%2F008oRhQE&v=JBhGPLSNJEg]✨ Visit here to shop my recommended reads and inspirational books: https://amzn.to/4801VhF [https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqbEQxeUZwXzR5QTlTVm50ZnBVVkNDOExtbHptZ3xBQ3Jtc0tsWGdTT1FEMk1jZFZ1MHNvbUpLNjF2dE9SUHc4MmoyYXZHalVqVGpZbHpkNEVsUTJiYlZuejNkNHpkUk95YnQtRHgzRzduem9ZUWZuNWRIM3NtZXBTa3NKQWVBWkYxdkRvcWxlUGxXZ05yVEVxQnNRcw&q=https%3A%2F%2Famzn.to%2F4801VhF&v=JBhGPLSNJEg]

21: Why Avoiding Conflict Is Quietly Destroying Your Friendships with Courtney Daniella

Friendship isn’t always easy and conflict doesn’t automatically mean a relationship is toxic.In this episode, we explore how to tell the difference between healthy conflict and unhealthy patterns, when a friendship is worth fighting for, and the signs it may be time to let go. Too often, conversations about friendship become extremes: either tolerate everything or cut people off. But healthy relationships require wisdom, communication, and discernment. Whether you're navigating conflict, grieving a friendship, rebuilding trust, or learning how to steward your relationships well, this conversation will encourage you to approach friendship with both grace and wisdom. ✨MADE FOR MORE LIVE EVENT✨ Join me for a panel conversation on 'How the Right Relationships Can Help You Level Up.' Get your tickets here: madeformorelive.eventbrite.co.uk ✨WORK WITH ME✨ If this episode resonated and you’re ready to move from overthinking into consistent action, you can explore working with me 1:1 for clarity, structure, and support here: https://calendly.com/susandeborahs/fo... [https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqbmdjSGljUEZKSFJYOFc0MVc2MENWTjAyaFdhd3xBQ3Jtc0traENUekFscnVuUnFoSy1pd1d1TmpTeVIyZnNBUDBwUTlpUWgzYmw5VmVvcWxOVG1wYV82dzN1YnQ4ZXhQa0NIOE9famdnNXFMQzlZSWxxTGw4RkNnRDE4Z3hESGhiMk9Xc0pndlpWSXFrNk1Sd2oyTQ&q=https%3A%2F%2Fcalendly.com%2Fsusandeborahs%2Ffollowthroughsession&v=cWsRGJ4b8EI]  ✨GET MY BOOK✨If you desire to get closer to God and grow in prayer and the word. Then get my book, Connecting with God: A Guide to Authentic Relationship with Him here: https://amzn.eu/d/008oRhQE [https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqbGkwTk9wMUtKWkg1R2FZVTMyVFYyTG1kenFhQXxBQ3Jtc0tsTzdzSGJyMElsRkNaMDlwcHlPYUZwLUFGUmlJRkFKLTEwUHNueHpiNTV2WUJvdzhfVnBFVnZfektzbU5xenpUQjJIcDlBVFNlM2tid2hwbDVuLVRCeDZsaHYyeHozNVNqSjdQVkpqTGNZVHZVSlFyYw&q=https%3A%2F%2Famzn.eu%2Fd%2F008oRhQE&v=cWsRGJ4b8EI] ✨ Visit here to shop my recommended reads and inspirational books: https://amzn.to/4801VhF [https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqbnlqbkxZN1gzYkUyNlY0ZHpheHNrc2w5QkFNQXxBQ3Jtc0ttaVJYcERpUnNEZTdXUFVLSGhGWnpmYjNrbHJDdUE2VG00X19oN0thanEtNkdoTzByWHVnNHBTY2dNelhaUmV1NjU3a05sUzRTQnRyRkJHNTFhLU5fOWliQm5EOHVUeDR3YlZuVDRFamJqdUtGYV80aw&q=https%3A%2F%2Famzn.to%2F4801VhF&v=cWsRGJ4b8EI]

20: If You Can't Afford Therapy, Read These Books!

God desires to heal you — and healing builds the capacity to win. Whether you're waiting on therapy or looking for something to complement it, these 3 books have personally helped me and I believe they can help you too. 📚 It's Not Always Depression – Hilary Jacobs Hendel - https://amzn.to/4xb7ZOs [https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqazZGWnVmeGJLbUozWkJEazFzbFhjTVlaVFNUZ3xBQ3Jtc0tta29XY0VMU1ltVzV4ZkEtQlptWElkc0FTdm5oRlJCbzYteXpMaXB1YjNKSTVoeU8yeEtDV0dJa095dHE4Y01PZ2lnQjBrTWJ2cjUwelJqek1uZGJiU21fRXhrbWVTRUk3bWZMaGQ4N2lSR1l5QXFmVQ&q=https%3A%2F%2Famzn.to%2F4xb7ZOs&v=8Eg3ob2GBSQ] 📚 Adamant – Lisa Bevere - https://amzn.to/3PGocuo [https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqazBpMllGSXd0VFY2ZUFwZF9hVTZqdExjNzdVZ3xBQ3Jtc0trZERISkZKQUEzOFdfYUFPdG9uMGFmUHF3MTZZaTQwX0hzX1dzVk1FOFlES3JKcjFJd1R3emFNSU9IWmxLbG9sYXFHSk51N0VMYnU0RG5zaVVtZUVVMXhjWE91eFE1elV3QjFwMjRHUlpQWkdGM1lGbw&q=https%3A%2F%2Famzn.to%2F3PGocuo&v=8Eg3ob2GBSQ] 📚 Joyful Journey – Dr. E. Wilder - https://amzn.to/3RTvTxS [https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqbC1ZeG8xakYtNEVwclM0bkhVelZid3JpRjJuQXxBQ3Jtc0trVFl6dkptREVQRmQ1YWRTOVhHcllncVZjVTh6UnRwZ2o0UFdqX3AtWlNJWk9JTENCQlYxRENtbEpGLTMwZG45bUJzcnlYeTM2ZVJvaXJrTkxXdW8yMG5vR1BWVWJhQ3Z6Z09ubWRCWUM1ejNzQ0ZjRQ&q=https%3A%2F%2Famzn.to%2F3RTvTxS&v=8Eg3ob2GBSQ] 📚 Back to life: a 21 day devotional - https://amzn.to/43ByE9T [https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqbjV1VEtsV2E1SkVFMk1veVdvNl9DZXdVd2ZDUXxBQ3Jtc0tsWFoxMnVSMmNiTzdtcVRDZl9zbElxTlZ2Q0QyaDlrSElNd21GWWp0eUJlR3VWVlpleHI0czY4dkw2YzhPYWJBbXFnRnNLZGwwV29LQ3JlTElnRlFfVGp4bW0tenNNTkRwNjBuLXU5LTNCam5ZY0F0SQ&q=https%3A%2F%2Famzn.to%2F43ByE9T&v=8Eg3ob2GBSQ]✨ Visit here to shop my recommended reads and inspirational books: https://amzn.to/4801VhF [https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqazc4TGtWNGlXc1l6SlB3bWYwZktQdHExSnJmZ3xBQ3Jtc0trZ05xclhEaUI1dzQ1R3hOamhCdzl4ZG5Ram1VazVaOGVNVzlRUlVDTXJpajVlTjl6OVEzYlV6VjRiakJ0RjFPR092TnJIQURpUENlLVQ2VEI2d3B4ZkNiMGt0NVQ4WXlnZXNFTGk4eXYtTEhYUnYxUQ&q=https%3A%2F%2Famzn.to%2F4801VhF&v=8Eg3ob2GBSQ]

19: The Hidden Beliefs Behind Your Words

What if the very words you keep speaking are revealing the beliefs that are keeping you stuck? In this episode, I'm unpacking 4 common phrases that often reveal limiting beliefs about ourselves, God, failure, worth, and what's possible. Sometimes our speech exposes the very mindsets that are causing stagnancy in our lives. Together, we'll challenge the beliefs behind these statements and discuss how taking action creates new evidence, which helps build new beliefs.If you've ever felt stuck, held back by fear, overthinking, self-doubt, or limiting beliefs, this episode is for you. ✨WORK WITH ME✨ If this episode resonated and you’re ready to move from overthinking into consistent action, you can explore working with me 1:1 for clarity, structure, and support here:  [https://calendly.com/susandeborahs/followthroughsession]https://calendly.com/susandeborahs/followthroughsession ✨GET MY BOOK✨If you desire to get closer to God and grow in prayer and the word. Then get my book, Connecting with God: A Guide to Authentic Relationship with Him here: https://amzn.eu/d/09wb2fFl [https://amzn.eu/d/008oRhQE] Scriptures referenced:• Ecclesiastes 11:4• Ephesians 5:16• 1 Corinthians 2:12

18: How To Rebuild Your Life After Divorce with Stacy Gacheru

Have you been holding on to something or someone that is slowly destroying you?In this episode, I sit down with Stacy Gacheru. Theological Therapist, Speaker and Founder of Therapy for Church Girls for one of the most honest and necessary conversations we've had on this podcast. Stacy opens up about her own journey of letting go, from navigating a painful divorce and the shame that came with it, to rebuilding her life as a young single mum and finding the courage to want more for her life. ✨GET MY BOOK✨If you desire to get closer to God and grow in prayer and the word. Then get my book, Connecting with God: A Guide to Authentic Relationship with Him here: https://amzn.eu/d/008oRhQE ✨WORK WITH ME✨ If this episode resonated and you’re ready to move from overthinking into consistent action, you can explore working with me 1:1 for clarity, structure, and support here: https://calendly.com/susandeborahs/followthroughsession ✨ Visit here to shop my recommended reads and inspirational books: https://amzn.to/4801VhF 🔔𝐃𝐨𝐧'𝐭 𝐟𝐨𝐫𝐠𝐞𝐭 𝐭𝐨 𝐬𝐮𝐛𝐬𝐜𝐫𝐢𝐛𝐞 𝐭𝐨 𝐦𝐲 𝐜𝐡𝐚𝐧𝐧𝐞𝐥 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐦𝐨𝐫𝐞 𝐮𝐩𝐝𝐚𝐭𝐞𝐬. 🔗 Stay Connected With Me.Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/susandeborahs/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@bysusandeborahs 📩 For business inquiries: hello@susandeborahs.com