Redefining Us

45: Should We Have Another Baby? My Honest Journey to Baby Number Two (Season II finale)

19 min · 11. Juni 2026
Episode 45: Should We Have Another Baby? My Honest Journey to Baby Number Two (Season II finale) Cover

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Should we have another baby? It's a question many parents wrestle with, and the answer isn't always clear. In this deeply personal solo episode, Stephanie shares her journey from being firmly "one and done" to ultimately deciding to grow her family. Along the way, she opens up about the fears that made the decision so difficult: concerns about mental health, finances, identity, marriage, career, and whether she could show up for two children the way she wanted to. Whether you're longing for another child, feeling unsure, or grieving that the answer may be no, this conversation offers an honest look at the reality that expanding a family is rarely a simple decision. Even when the answer becomes yes, it often comes with uncertainty, sacrifice, and the willingness to step into a new season without knowing exactly what lies ahead. If you've ever wondered whether your family is complete or felt pressure to have an answer before you're ready, this episode is for you. This episode completes Season II of the Redefining Us podcast. We will be back at the start of 2027 and look forward to being with you all again then! For now, I’m going to go enjoy some newborn snuggles with our second.  Please leave us a review or rating! These help get the show out to more women like you wanting to have these conversations. Would you like to chat more about this episode's topic? I would love to continue our conversation over on Instagram! @wellmindedcounseling I wrote a book! Becoming Mommy: Aligning with yourself and finding your voice during pregnancy and motherhood, available at all major retailers - https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0DZT9P3RB?ref=cm_sw_r_ffobk_cp_ud_dp_KFT90ZBDS48FDGG6DH5X&ref_=cm_sw_r_ffobk_cp_ud_dp_KFT90ZBDS48FDGG6DH5X&social_share=cm_sw_r_ffobk_cp_ud_dp_KFT90ZBDS48FDGG6DH5X&bestFormat=true Where to find more from Redefining Us: Website: wellmindedcounseling.com/redefining-us-pod [https://wellmindedcounseling.com/redefining-us-pod] Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/wellmindedcounseling Instagram: @wellmindedcounseling If you want to support the show so we can continue sharing this content with others like you, you may do so here at, Buy Me A Coffee [https://www.buymeacoffee.com/redefininguspod]. From the bottom of our hearts, thank you!

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Episode 45: Should We Have Another Baby? My Honest Journey to Baby Number Two (Season II finale) Cover

45: Should We Have Another Baby? My Honest Journey to Baby Number Two (Season II finale)

Should we have another baby? It's a question many parents wrestle with, and the answer isn't always clear. In this deeply personal solo episode, Stephanie shares her journey from being firmly "one and done" to ultimately deciding to grow her family. Along the way, she opens up about the fears that made the decision so difficult: concerns about mental health, finances, identity, marriage, career, and whether she could show up for two children the way she wanted to. Whether you're longing for another child, feeling unsure, or grieving that the answer may be no, this conversation offers an honest look at the reality that expanding a family is rarely a simple decision. Even when the answer becomes yes, it often comes with uncertainty, sacrifice, and the willingness to step into a new season without knowing exactly what lies ahead. If you've ever wondered whether your family is complete or felt pressure to have an answer before you're ready, this episode is for you. This episode completes Season II of the Redefining Us podcast. We will be back at the start of 2027 and look forward to being with you all again then! For now, I’m going to go enjoy some newborn snuggles with our second.  Please leave us a review or rating! These help get the show out to more women like you wanting to have these conversations. Would you like to chat more about this episode's topic? I would love to continue our conversation over on Instagram! @wellmindedcounseling I wrote a book! Becoming Mommy: Aligning with yourself and finding your voice during pregnancy and motherhood, available at all major retailers - https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0DZT9P3RB?ref=cm_sw_r_ffobk_cp_ud_dp_KFT90ZBDS48FDGG6DH5X&ref_=cm_sw_r_ffobk_cp_ud_dp_KFT90ZBDS48FDGG6DH5X&social_share=cm_sw_r_ffobk_cp_ud_dp_KFT90ZBDS48FDGG6DH5X&bestFormat=true Where to find more from Redefining Us: Website: wellmindedcounseling.com/redefining-us-pod [https://wellmindedcounseling.com/redefining-us-pod] Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/wellmindedcounseling Instagram: @wellmindedcounseling If you want to support the show so we can continue sharing this content with others like you, you may do so here at, Buy Me A Coffee [https://www.buymeacoffee.com/redefininguspod]. From the bottom of our hearts, thank you!

11. Juni 202619 min
Episode 44: Life Transitions | You’re Not Lost — You’re Becoming Cover

44: Life Transitions | You’re Not Lost — You’re Becoming

Have you ever felt stuck in the “in-between” version of yourself? Stephanie dives into the emotional realities of life transitions, burnout, motherhood, marriage dynamics, and career changes — and why growth can often feel confusing before it feels clear.  We explore the emotional realities many women silently carry: * The identity loss and nervous system overwhelm that can happen in motherhood * Feeling emotionally disconnected or outgrown within marriage * Realizing a career no longer aligns with who you are becoming * The fear, grief, confusion, and uncertainty that come with personal evolution Stephanie provides practical tools for navigating the “in-between,” so you don't leave feeling lost but rather supported. Please leave us a review or rating! These help get the show out to more women like you wanting to have these conversations. Would you like to chat more about this episode's topic? I would love to continue our conversation over on Instagram! @wellmindedcounseling I wrote a book! Becoming Mommy: Aligning with yourself and finding your voice during pregnancy and motherhood, available at all major retailers - https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0DZT9P3RB?ref=cm_sw_r_ffobk_cp_ud_dp_KFT90ZBDS48FDGG6DH5X&ref_=cm_sw_r_ffobk_cp_ud_dp_KFT90ZBDS48FDGG6DH5X&social_share=cm_sw_r_ffobk_cp_ud_dp_KFT90ZBDS48FDGG6DH5X&bestFormat=true Where to find more from Redefining Us: Website: wellmindedcounseling.com/redefining-us-pod [https://wellmindedcounseling.com/redefining-us-pod] Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/wellmindedcounseling Instagram: @wellmindedcounseling If you want to support the show so we can continue sharing this content with others like you, you may do so here at, Buy Me A Coffee [https://www.buymeacoffee.com/redefininguspod]. From the bottom of our hearts, thank you!

28. Mai 202620 min
Episode 43: She Built a Business While Navigating Postpartum and Burnout with Sydney Clare Cover

43: She Built a Business While Navigating Postpartum and Burnout with Sydney Clare

From working 60-hour weeks postpartum to building a thriving business from home, Sydney Clare shares the emotional and practical realities of reinventing your life after burnout from being a special education teacher to building a thriving business as an entrepreneur and mother. We talk about postpartum life, identity shifts, burnout, community, and what it really takes to create a life that supports both motherhood and ambition. Connect with Sydney: Website - https://www.sydneyclaresolutions.com/ LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/sydney-clare/ Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sydneyclare.solutions/ Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61571726156122" About Sydney: I’m Sydney Clare! Course development expert and virtual assistant for ambitious business owners who are ready to get their expertise out of their brain and into the hands of the people who need it most. Please leave us a review or rating! These help get the show out to more women like you wanting to have these conversations. Would you like to chat more about this episode's topic? I would love to continue our conversation over on Instagram! @wellmindedcounseling I wrote a book! Becoming Mommy: Aligning with yourself and finding your voice during pregnancy and motherhood, available at all major retailers - https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0DZT9P3RB?ref=cm_sw_r_ffobk_cp_ud_dp_KFT90ZBDS48FDGG6DH5X&ref_=cm_sw_r_ffobk_cp_ud_dp_KFT90ZBDS48FDGG6DH5X&social_share=cm_sw_r_ffobk_cp_ud_dp_KFT90ZBDS48FDGG6DH5X&bestFormat=true Where to find more from Redefining Us: Website: wellmindedcounseling.com/redefining-us-pod [https://wellmindedcounseling.com/redefining-us-pod] Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/wellmindedcounseling Instagram: @wellmindedcounseling If you want to support the show so we can continue sharing this content with others like you, you may do so here at, Buy Me A Coffee [https://www.buymeacoffee.com/redefininguspod]. From the bottom of our hearts, thank you!

14. Mai 202635 min
Episode 42: Feeling Seen Through a Late Autism Diagnosis and it's Reveal During Motherhood with Anahita Lake-Khosravi, PsyD Cover

42: Feeling Seen Through a Late Autism Diagnosis and it's Reveal During Motherhood with Anahita Lake-Khosravi, PsyD

The challenges you’ve always blamed yourself for may actually be your brain asking for support. Psychologist Anahita Lake-Khosravi is on to talk about what neurodivergence—especially autism—really looks like in women. We discuss the reality of masking, the reason so many women go undiagnosed for decades, and the powerful emotional shift that can happen when someone finally receives a diagnosis and feels seen for the first time. We also dive into the intersection of neurodivergence and motherhood, shedding light on why pregnancy and postpartum can intensify sensory overwhelm and bring long-hidden struggles to the surface. This episode offers both validation and clarity, reframing what many women have labeled as personal flaws into something far more compassionate—and empowering. Connect with Anahita: Website: www.empoweredlivingcollective.com Instagram: @empoweredlivingcollective and @dranahitabanoo  About Anahita: Anahita is a licensed psychologist, group practice owner, business coach and mama of 3 kids. She specializes in neuro-affirming testing and therapy, particularly for teens and adult women. She has also loved working with and specializing in the overlap of autistic women and perinatal mental health. She also coaches other therapists on increasing their revenue streams beyond private practice. She loves supporting business owners in their growth so they can live an abundant life while also getting their time back. In her free time, she enjoys working out, playing outside with her kids, and going camping! Please leave us a review or rating! These help get the show out to more women like you wanting to have these conversations. Would you like to chat more about this episode's topic? I would love to continue our conversation over on Instagram! @wellmindedcounseling I wrote a book! Becoming Mommy: Aligning with yourself and finding your voice during pregnancy and motherhood, available at all major retailers - https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0DZT9P3RB?ref=cm_sw_r_ffobk_cp_ud_dp_KFT90ZBDS48FDGG6DH5X&ref_=cm_sw_r_ffobk_cp_ud_dp_KFT90ZBDS48FDGG6DH5X&social_share=cm_sw_r_ffobk_cp_ud_dp_KFT90ZBDS48FDGG6DH5X&bestFormat=true Where to find more from Redefining Us: Website: wellmindedcounseling.com/redefining-us-pod [https://wellmindedcounseling.com/redefining-us-pod] Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/wellmindedcounseling Instagram: @wellmindedcounseling If you want to support the show so we can continue sharing this content with others like you, you may do so here at, Buy Me A Coffee [https://www.buymeacoffee.com/redefininguspod]. From the bottom of our hearts, thank you!

30. Apr. 202636 min
Episode 41: Why “Tight” Isn’t the Goal for Your Pelvic Health (And What Actually Is) with Dr. Paige Rainford Cover

41: Why “Tight” Isn’t the Goal for Your Pelvic Health (And What Actually Is) with Dr. Paige Rainford

Dr. Paige Rainford, pelvic health physical therapist and founder of The Persistence Project, breaks down what most of us were never taught about our bodies. From pelvic floor dysfunction to chronic pain, this episode goes into how disconnection from our bodies impacts everything, from movement to motherhood to mental health. We even touch on pelvic health related to men and children. This episode is filled with tips and facts about the pelvic floor that you can take with you. You’ll learn why “common” symptoms like leakage aren’t actually normal, why Kegels aren’t always the solution, and how reconnecting with your body can be a powerful first step toward healing. Connect with Paige: Website: https://persistenceprojectphysicaltherapy.com/ Instagram @dr.paigerainford  Book Reference: Wild Feminine by Tami Lynn Kent About Paige: Dr. Paige Rainford is an orthopedic and pelvic health physical therapist and founder of The Persistence Project. She earned her Doctorate in Physical Therapy from Husson University in Bangor, Maine, and completed her orthopedic residency at the Cincinnati VA. Dr. Paige helps active individuals move with confidence, build resilience, and persist through every stage of life. Please leave us a review or rating! These help get the show out to more women like you wanting to have these conversations. Would you like to chat more about this episode's topic? I would love to continue our conversation over on Instagram! @wellmindedcounseling I wrote a book! Becoming Mommy: Aligning with yourself and finding your voice during pregnancy and motherhood, available at all major retailers - https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0DZT9P3RB?ref=cm_sw_r_ffobk_cp_ud_dp_KFT90ZBDS48FDGG6DH5X&ref_=cm_sw_r_ffobk_cp_ud_dp_KFT90ZBDS48FDGG6DH5X&social_share=cm_sw_r_ffobk_cp_ud_dp_KFT90ZBDS48FDGG6DH5X&bestFormat=true Where to find more from Redefining Us: Website: wellmindedcounseling.com/redefining-us-pod [https://wellmindedcounseling.com/redefining-us-pod] Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/wellmindedcounseling Instagram: @wellmindedcounseling If you want to support the show so we can continue sharing this content with others like you, you may do so here at, Buy Me A Coffee [https://www.buymeacoffee.com/redefininguspod]. From the bottom of our hearts, thank you!

16. Apr. 202631 min