The Dr. Gerry Fishkin Show

20. Attachment Disorder in Adults

There are 4 types of attachment disorder in adults. These are Secure attachment, anxious-ambivalent attachment style, avoidant attachment style, and disorganized attachment style. It's important to understand these attachment disorders in adults and where they come from. They often can come from trauma wounds we experience as children. Particularly adults with avoidant personality disorders can impact and create intimacy issues within relationships. ~~~Watch this entire discussion between Dr. Gerald Fishkin and Sophia Amargi, MFT Here: https://youtu.be/idWrG3jqQnk [https://youtu.be/idWrG3jqQnk] ~~~Find Dr. Gerry Fishkin's book on better understanding shame here: http://bit.ly/scienceofshame [http://bit.ly/scienceofshame] Have you been impacted by trauma at all? If you feel comfortable, we would love to hear your story. For more psychology videos related to , please visit: http://therapycable.com [http://therapycable.com]

19. What is Betrayal Trauma?

Betrayal trauma as children can greatly impact our ability as adults to connect and bond with others. When we talk about betrayal and abandonment, it can be as small as you tell your mother a precious secret to you and you make her promise not to tell anyone, and later you find out she told your father. This psychologically can be determined as a huge betrayal and abandonment that can stick with us. Sophia Amargi, MFT and Dr. Gerald Fishkin discuss in depth how the trauma from betrayal can alter our mental growth patte ~~~Watch this entire discussion between Dr. Gerald Fishkin and Sophia Amargi, MFT Here: https://youtu.be/idWrG3jqQnk [https://youtu.be/idWrG3jqQnk] ~~~Find Dr. Gerry Fishkin's book on better understanding shame here: http://bit.ly/scienceofshame [http://bit.ly/scienceofshame] Have you been impacted by trauma at all? If you feel comfortable, we would love to hear your story. For more psychology videos related to , please visit: http://therapycable.com [http://therapycable.com]

18. The Common Themes in Childhood Trauma Symptoms

Unfortunately, there are several themes that are expressed in childhood trauma symptoms. Some of these symptoms can come from not having core consistencies in your life. Imagine staring into a broken mirror every day. You are not getting an accurate picture of your true self. And day by day this can wear you down. Find Dr. Gerry Fishkin's book on better understanding shame here: http://bit.ly/scienceofshame Between ages 0-5 Children should have these things in place. If they are not consistent, this leads to a common occurrence in childhood trauma. - Empathy - Idealizing - Mirroring and Affective attunement In her practice, Sophia Amargi, MFT works in the pattern of trauma, story, belief. This is essential to understanding the effects of childhood trauma on adulthood ~~~Watch this entire discussion between Dr. Gerald Fishkin and Sophia Amargi, MFT Here: https://youtu.be/idWrG3jqQnk [https://youtu.be/idWrG3jqQnk] ~~~Find Dr. Gerry Fishkin's book on better understanding shame here: http://bit.ly/scienceofshame [http://bit.ly/scienceofshame] Have you been impacted by trauma at all? If you feel comfortable, we would love to hear your story. For more psychology videos related to , please visit: http://therapycable.com [http://therapycable.com]

17. What is Toxic Shame in Trauma? And What to do!

Toxic shame is the direct result of unresolved trauma. Toxic shame completely consumes your identity. We can form and grow this toxic #shame within ourselves by setting unrealistic expectations, failing, and using those failures as "concrete evidence" that we ourselves are shame. ~~~Watch this entire discussion between Dr. Gerald Fishkin and Sophia Amargi, MFT Here: https://youtu.be/idWrG3jqQnk [https://youtu.be/idWrG3jqQnk] ~~~Find Dr. Gerry Fishkin's book on better understanding shame here: http://bit.ly/scienceofshame [http://bit.ly/scienceofshame] Have you been impacted by trauma at all? If you feel comfortable, we would love to hear your story. For more psychology videos related to , please visit: http://therapycable.com [http://therapycable.com]

16. How to Form New Habits in Your Brain

There's a fairly simple concept to imagine in how to groove new neural pattern pathways or develop new habits into your brain. Imagine this scenario, your house backs up to a somewhat overgrown field, and your school is on the other side. Every day you walk outside through the back and through the field to your school. Every day you walk to and from following this same path. Over time that path becomes very distinct. One day you are told or experience that this pathway is no good for you but you don't know how or where to groove a new pathway. With the help of therapists and psychologists, they can help show and guide you how to create and form new habits or pathways in this scenario. ~~~Watch this entire discussion between Dr. Gerald Fishkin and Sophia Amargi, MFT Here: https://youtu.be/idWrG3jqQnk [https://youtu.be/idWrG3jqQnk] ~~~Find Dr. Gerry Fishkin's book on better understanding shame here: http://bit.ly/scienceofshame [http://bit.ly/scienceofshame] Have you been impacted by trauma at all? If you feel comfortable, we would love to hear your story. For more psychology videos related to , please visit: http://therapycable.com [http://therapycable.com]