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What I Learned From My Mistakes Living in Tokyo

22 min · 25. nov. 2025
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In this episode, I’m breaking down all the little mistakes I made living in Tokyo — the chopstick taboos, the wedding etiquette I didn’t know, the ramen “eat and bounce” rule, the last-piece awkwardness, and all the quiet cultural expectations you only learn after messing up in front of somebody’s grandma. These are the things I learned the hard way so you don’t have to, with some stories and a little guidance for anyone visiting or living in Japan.Official Website: https://www.xqsumimasen.com [https://www.xqsumimasen.com ]Follow Us: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/xqs_podcast [https://www.instagram.com/xqs_podcast ]Threads: https://www.threads.net/@xqs_podcast [https://www.threads.net/@xqs_podcast ]Listen on Other Platforms: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/channel/the-xq-sumimasen-podcast/id6480508928 [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/channel/the-xq-sumimasen-podcast/id6480508928]---🎧 Support the podcast (via Stripe secure checkout): https://buy.stripe.com/14AdR8dC08dbaPZdkQ1RC0c [https://buy.stripe.com/14AdR8dC08dbaPZdkQ1RC0c]Independent show. No sponsors. No affiliate links (…yet).Until next time—excuse-me-massen, and... See ya!

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