Episode 23: Boundaries Are Not Selfish: How to Stop People-Pleasing, Resentment & Emotional Exhaustion

Episode 25: Why Strong Women Struggle to Ask for Help | Building the Village Every Mom Needs

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2589225/fan_mail/new] When was the last time you let someone help you? For many women, asking for help feels harder than doing everything ourselves. In this week's episode, Dr. Jamie Erwin and Dr. Mary Kathryn Nader sit down with pediatrician and pediatric hospitalist Dr. Erin Eastman for an honest conversation about motherhood, medicine, perfectionism, community, and learning to receive help. Whether you're preparing for your first baby, balancing career and family, or simply feeling overwhelmed trying to hold everything together, this episode is a reminder that strength isn't found in doing everything alone. Together they discuss: • Why high-achieving women struggle to ask for help • Building your village before you desperately need it • Practical ways friends and family can actually support new parents • Colic, breastfeeding, formula and the pressure of being a "perfect" mom • Balancing career, marriage and motherhood • Finding yourself again through movement, friendship and faith This conversation is full of wisdom, encouragement and practical advice for women in every season. Support the show [https://www.buymeacoffee.com/jointhejourney]

Episode 24: Breastfeeding Without the Pressure-What Every New Mom Needs to Know

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2589225/fan_mail/new] Should breastfeeding hurt? Is formula really "failing"? What actually matters most during those overwhelming first days with a newborn? In this episode of A Journey to Whole Woman Health, Dr. Jamie Erwin and Dr. Mary Kathryn Nader welcome board-certified pediatrician and newborn hospitalist Dr. Erin Eastman for an honest, compassionate conversation every new parent needs to hear. Together, they unpack what really happens during the first 48 hours after birth—from the "Golden Hour" to cluster feeding—and explain why so many mothers feel intense pressure to breastfeed perfectly. More importantly, they challenge the idea that successful motherhood is measured in ounces of milk. This episode explores: • What happens during the Golden Hour after delivery • Why skin-to-skin contact benefits both babies and fathers • The normal newborn feeding timeline • Cluster feeding explained • Common breastfeeding challenges • Risk factors for low milk supply • When supplementation may actually be the healthiest choice • How birth expectations affect postpartum mental health • Why bonding matters more than perfection • How to recognize postpartum struggles in both mothers and fathers Whether you're expecting your first baby, supporting someone who is, or simply want evidence-based reassurance, this episode offers practical guidance, grace, and freedom. Because healthy families aren't built on perfection. They're built on connection. Support the show [https://www.buymeacoffee.com/jointhejourney]

Episode 23: Boundaries Are Not Selfish: How to Stop People-Pleasing, Resentment & Emotional Exhaustion

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2589225/fan_mail/new] Why do so many women feel exhausted, overwhelmed, resentful, and emotionally drained—and still say yes to one more thing? In this episode of A Journey to Whole Woman Health, Dr. Jamie Erwin and Dr. Mary Kathryn Nader unpack one of the most common struggles women face: boundaries. We explore why saying no can feel physically uncomfortable, why women often confuse being needed with being valued, and how people-pleasing, perfectionism, anxiety, trauma history, caregiving identities, and fear of rejection can make healthy boundaries feel almost impossible. You’ll learn: • What boundaries actually are—and what they are not • Why “clear is kind” • How people-pleasing leads to resentment and burnout • Why being needed is not the same as being valued • How your nervous system may react when you begin setting boundaries • Why resentment can be a signal that a boundary is missing • Practical time, emotional, relational, and digital boundaries • Simple scripts for saying no without over-explaining • How boundaries show up in motherhood and marriage • Why healthy boundaries model emotional maturity for our children • What faith teaches us about rest, solitude, and protecting our capacity You do not have to earn rest. You do not have to prove your worth through exhaustion. And you are allowed to protect the life, health, peace, and relationships that matter most. If this episode encouraged you, share it with a woman who needs permission to stop disappearing in the service of everyone else. Subscribe to A Journey to Whole Woman Health for weekly conversations where science, mental health, and faith come together to educate, empower, and encourage women in every season of life. Disclaimer: The information shared in this podcast is for educational purposes only and is not intended as medical or mental health advice. Listening does not establish a doctor-patient or therapist-client relationship. Always consult your own qualified healthcare provider regarding medical or mental health concerns. Support the show [https://www.buymeacoffee.com/jointhejourney]

Episode 22: Why Women Wake Up at 3 A.M. | Sleep, Hormones, Cortisol & What Every Woman Should Know

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2589225/fan_mail/new] Have you ever woken up at 2 or 3 a.m., wide awake with your mind racing, wondering if it's stress, hormones, anxiety, blood sugar, or something else? You're not alone—and you're not imagining it. In this episode of A Journey to Whole Woman Health, board-certified OB-GYN Dr. Jamie Erwin and licensed professional counselor Dr. Mary Kathryn Nader explore the science behind women's sleep and why so many women struggle with middle-of-the-night awakenings, especially during perimenopause and midlife. You'll learn what happens inside your body while you sleep, why you may consistently wake between 2 and 3 a.m., and how hormones, cortisol, blood sugar, stress, and anxiety all work together to disrupt restorative sleep. We also discuss practical strategies to improve sleep, the evidence behind Cognitive Behavioral Therapy for Insomnia (CBT-I), common sleep medications, wearable sleep trackers, and when it may be time to talk with your healthcare provider about a sleep study. If you've been telling yourself, "I should be able to sleep," this conversation is for you. In this episode you'll learn: • Why women commonly wake between 2–3 a.m. • The role of cortisol, estrogen, progesterone, and blood sugar in sleep • What actually happens during REM and non-REM sleep • How stress and anxiety affect your sleep cycle • What sleep hygiene really means—and what actually works • Why CBT-I is considered the first-line treatment for chronic insomnia • Pros and cons of common sleep medications like Ambien, Benadryl, Unisom, and trazodone • How accurate wearables like Garmin and Oura Ring really are • Signs you may need a sleep study for sleep apnea or another sleep disorder • Simple habits that can improve the quality of your sleep starting tonight Key Takeaway Sleep isn't a luxury. It's one of the most powerful tools your body has for healing, hormone regulation, memory, immune function, and emotional health. If you're waking up every night exhausted, you deserve answers—and there is help. If this episode encouraged you, please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with a friend who could use a better night's sleep. Follow us for more evidence-based conversations where science, mental health, and faith come together to educate, empower, and encourage women in every season of life. Support the show [https://www.buymeacoffee.com/jointhejourney]

Episode 21: Trauma Explained: How It Shapes Your Mind, Body, Relationships, and Healing

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2589225/fan_mail/new] Trauma is a word we hear often, but what does it actually mean? In this episode of A Journey to Whole Woman Health, Dr. Jamie Erwin and Dr. Mary Kathryn Nader explore how trauma affects the brain, nervous system, body, relationships, and sense of self. Together they discuss: • What qualifies as trauma • Acute vs. chronic trauma • Childhood trauma and relational trauma • Birth trauma, miscarriage, and medical trauma • PTSD and complex PTSD • Why certain sounds, smells, or situations trigger strong reactions • How trauma impacts anxiety, sleep, hormones, and relationships • EMDR therapy and other evidence-based treatments • Practical tools for healing and nervous system regulation Whether your trauma was loud and obvious or quiet and invisible, healing is possible. You are not broken. You are not alone. And your story is not over. Subscribe for weekly conversations where science, mental health, and faith come together to educate, empower, and encourage women in every season of life. Support the show [https://www.buymeacoffee.com/jointhejourney]