Our Favorite Proverbs: Proverbs 19:5,9

Our Favorite Proverbs: Proverbs 19:5,9

by David Chadwick "A false witness will not go unpunished, and he who breathes out lies will not escape… A false witness will not go unpunished, and he who breathes out lies will perish." Proverbs 19:5,9 Today, I want to look at two verses from Proverbs 19 that are very similarly worded and carry the same message. Verse 5 says, "A false witness will not go unpunished, and he who breathes out lies will not escape." Then, almost to make sure we get this truth solidified in our heads, Solomon essentially repeats it verbatim in verse 9, which says, "A false witness will not go unpunished, and he who breathes out lies will perish." One of my friends, who has a PhD in theology, once said, "If God tells you something once in his Word, take it seriously. If he says it twice, you'd better pay attention and obey it! It's very important to God!" In these two verses, God says the same thing twice with only a few verses separating the two! So we had better pay attention! So what is God trying to say here? Someone who lies, who bears false witness, will not go unpunished. Someone who breathes out lies will not escape God's judgment but will perish. We live in a culture where lies are rampant. Deception is commonplace. In fact, I would say it is more common to twist and deceive than to be truthful. People love themselves and pandering to the crowd more than they love the truth. Every judicial system in the world is dependent on the truth and on truth-tellers. It is heavily reliant on strong witnesses and accurate recollection of TRUTH. God, as the supreme judge and jury, is no different. He places a very high value in Scripture on accurate witnesses and on the truth! It hurts when lies are told against us and are seemingly never corrected. But don't become discouraged. God will deal with every idle word (Matthew 12:36-37) and every lie raised against us! Every lie stated by someone will one day be held accountable before a holy God. May we always be people who speak truth. Let your yes be yes and your no be no (Matthew 5:37). Jesus said, "If you abide in my word, you are truly my disciples, and you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free" (John 8:31-32).

Our Favorite Proverbs: Proverbs 18:24

by David Chadwick "A man of many companions may come to ruin, but there's a friend who sticks closer than a brother." Proverbs 18:24 Today, we are going to look at Proverbs 18:24, which says, "A man of many companions may come to ruin, but there's a friend who sticks closer than a brother." There is a significant difference between acquaintances and a true friend. Most everyone has many acquaintances: neighbors, co-workers, people you bump into at your children's schools or sporting events, and so forth. You interact with these people. You talk. You may even say hello. But there is little depth. In fact, people may have many acquaintances, or companions, but are severely lacking when it comes to experiencing the kinds of blessings that only true friends can bring. A true friend is someone who sticks even closer than a brother or sister in your immediate family. These are the kinds of people who are there in your toughest times. When life stinks. When others have deserted you. These are the ones who remain. They are present with you immediately in a time of need. They are always just a text or phone call away. Unlike Job's three friends who came to him in his distress and pontificated about God's "why" he was going through all his tragedy and pain, even suggesting it was because of some sin he had committed, a true friend is a master of what many refer to as "the ministry of presence." Seldom saying a word. With a hand on your shoulder. Holding your hand. Rejoicing with you in joys and weeping with you in sorrows (Romans 12:15). Do you have this kind of friend? If so, at some time today, call, text, email, or write a letter to that person and simply thank him or her for being a friend who sticks closer than a brother or sister. These people are what some call "forever friends." They are more valuable than all of the money in the world.

Our Favorite Proverbs: Proverbs 18:21

by David Chadwick "Death and life are in the power of the tongue, and those who love it will eat its fruits." Proverbs 18:21 Did you know that our words are powerful? The Bible says the tongue is a small, yet powerful, part of the body and that we should keep a tight rein on it. It is powerful enough to even corrupt the whole body and set the whole course of one's life on fire (James 3:1-12). Proverbs 18:21 says, "Death and life are in the power of the tongue, and those who love it will eat its fruit." Death and life are certainly two extremes. It should sober all of us that something as small as the tongue in our mouths has the ability to bring about two diametrically different end results. Solomon knew the importance of words and regularly addressed the significance of the tongue, including the power and the danger of our words. In today's proverb, Solomon was emphasizing that words can either lift up or tear down. They can either drive toward despair or give eternal hope. They can cause lifelong scars or they can bind broken hearts. They can push toward depression or lift weary souls. They can win or lose games in sports or success in business. They truly do bring either death or life. As my mom used to say, "If you can't say anything good, don't say anything at all." We all must learn the power of the tongue and use it to speak life and to encourage others… especially to the next generation. Children desperately need to hear words of life from their parents, teachers, coaches, and other leaders. They are so eager to be encouraged and edified. They want to hear that you are proud of them. When we ingest food, it enters into our bodies and affects it. The same is true with words. Whether it's words we speak or hear, and whether good or bad, we internalize words and reap the effects of whatever we ingest. And sometimes they go deep within us and rummage around for a lifetime. So how should you apply this truth to your everyday life? First, guard your words. Be aware of what you are saying and use discretion. Secondly, speak positive words. Use your words to give life and motivate you and others. After all, death and life are in the power of the tongue.

Our Favorite Proverbs: Proverbs 18:17

by David Chadwick "The one who states his case first seems right, until the other comes and examines him." Proverbs 18:17 Have you ever heard the phrase, "There are two sides to every story?" Or what about this one, "There are three sides to every story: your side, my side, and the truth." Today's proverb says something similar: "The one who states his case first seems right; until the other comes and examines him" Proverbs 18:17. If you have lived life for any amount of time, you have most likely found yourself in perplexing situations where the truth has been hard to discern. One side says one thing and the other side says something different. More than ever, we are living in times where this seems to be common. We should all be able to easily see how true today's proverb is! You hear one person's perspective on an issue and it seems accurate. This person tells you what he or she has seen and it seems right. In fact, his or her account sounds like the truth in every possible way. You might even nod in approval as you listen to his or her perspective. But then you hear the other side of the story from another person. Until this other perspective is given to you, you would have never thought it existed. Suddenly you realize that there is another side. All of the sudden, things don't feel quite so clear. This proverb's truth often plays out in a court of law. One lawyer asks a witness to give his perspective, and it seems right until the other lawyer has a chance to respond and cross-examine that witness. Many situations require tremendous wisdom in order to accurately come to a wise conclusion. So what does this mean for us today? Always make sure you hear both sides of a case before drawing a conclusion. People often examine an issue from their own perspective and even personal pain. Or, if directly involved in the dispute, people often listen with a bias and may be looking to build their own case. More often than not, there is another side to hear. Make sure you hear both, asking the Holy Spirit to give you wisdom and discernment for where the actual truth lies (1 Corinthians 12:10).

Our Favorite Proverbs: Proverbs 18:10

by David Chadwick "The name of the Lord is a strong tower; the righteous man runs into it and is safe." Proverbs 18:10 The name of the Lord is a strong tower. Just the whisper of his name provides a source of safety and protection for the righteous! What a profound reality this is for the children of God. Under the blood of Jesus, we have been made righteous in spite of our sin. And in that righteousness, according to today's proverb, we are offered safety through the name of the Lord. Under the new covenant, we now know the name of the Lord: his name is Jesus! And there is so much power in his name. The name of Jesus is the name above all other names. At the mere mention of the name of Jesus, every knee will bow and tongue will confess that he is Lord (Philippians 2:10). Therefore, when Satan pursues you, run to Jesus! Cry out to Jesus! Speak the name of Jesus! His name will protect you. His name is like a strong, high, fortified tower. When you run to Jesus, you automatically place yourself on higher ground. From that high place, you look down on the enemy and have every spiritual advantage at your disposal. You know that you sit next to Jesus in the heavenlies. He is at the right hand of the Father and we are at his right hand (Ephesians 2:6). The enemy has no power over you from that place. 2 Corinthians 5:21 says, "God made him who had no sin to be sin for us, so that in him we might become the righteousness of God." Because of the name of Jesus, you are righteous. You are forgiven. You are adopted. You are loved. You are cherished. Dear friends, you must firmly believe that the enemy has no power over you. Death has lost its victory and sting (1 Corinthians 15:55). Because of the name of Jesus, you have been clothed in a garment of praise instead of a spirit of despair (Isaiah 61:3b). Cling firmly to the name of the Lord. Hide yourself under the shadow of the Most High (Psalm 91:1). He truly is your refuge and strength, an ever-present help in time of need (Psalm 46:1). And rise higher than any power of hell that pursues you.