EP16: The Navy SEAL Doctor on Sleep, Testosterone, Relationships, and Psychedelics | Dr. Kirk Parsley

Episode 18: Protein, Fiber, and Nutrition for Midlife Men | Meridan Zerner

Every month brings a new diet and a new wall of supplements. For a midlife man who just wants to feel good and stay strong, the noise is deafening. Meridan Zerner has spent 30 years cutting through it. A registered dietitian, sports nutrition specialist, and 25-year veteran of Dallas’s Cooper Clinic, she joins us to aim that experience straight at the midlife man and give him an honest place to start. In this episode, you’ll learn: •      What actually changes in a man’s body after 40, and why food becomes a bigger lever than it was at 25 •      The Thoughtful 30, her simple framework for building a foundation that lasts •      Why you need more protein as you age, not less, and how much per meal actually does the work •      How much fiber most men are missing, and the easiest ways to close the gap •      Where intermittent fasting helps, and where it quietly fights your number one job •      Which supplements are worth the money, and which are just marketing Find Meridan at meridanzernernutrition.com, on Instagram @meridanzerner, and on LinkedIn at /in/meridan-zerner. Her forthcoming book is The Thoughtful 30: A 30-Day Reset for Midlife and Beyond. Against the Fade. Don’t fade. Chapters (estimates, verify against Descript before publish) 0:00 Open 3:18 What actually changes in a man’s body in midlife 5:13 Anabolic resistance, and why muscle is your metabolic engine 6:25 Where to start: insulin resistance and carb quality 8:15 Know your numbers, then fuel the body 12:27 The Thoughtful 30, and the half Ironman that started it 15:21 The ten pillars, from morning sunlight to gratitude 19:26 Fiber, your gut, and the sponge effect 24:14 Protein after 40: why you need more, not less 26:17 Intermittent fasting: the cutoff that actually helps 29:38 How muscle controls your blood sugar 30:55 Supplements worth your money, and the noise 35:05 The one thing to start tomorrow 36:39 The book, and where to find Meridan Against the Fade — For Men Who Refuse to Fade in Midlife New episodes every Tuesday. Newsletter & resources: https://againstthefade.com [https://againstthefade.com]  Instagram: https://instagram.com/againstthefadepodcast [https://instagram.com/againstthefadepodcast]  TikTok: https://tiktok.com/@againstthefadepodcast [https://tiktok.com/@againstthefadepodcast]  X/Twitter: https://x.com/dontfadepodcast [https://x.com/dontfadepodcast]  YouTube: https://youtube.com/@againstthefadepodcast [https://youtube.com/@againstthefadepodcast] A Second Summit Podcast.

Episode 17: Train the Patterns, Not the Trends | Straight Sets

You have seen the video. The one exercise everybody should be doing, the move you are secretly missing. We all feel that pull. Here is the truth underneath it: the thing you are missing is almost never an exercise. It is a pattern. In this Straight Set you will learn: * The six movement patterns that cover everything your body has to do to stay strong and independent in midlife: squat, hinge, lunge, push, pull, and core, plus the power you earn on top * Why a midlife body pays a steeper price for novelty than it used to, and where gym injuries actually come from * Why power is the first quality you lose with age, and why protecting it matters more than you think * A two-minute audit to find the pattern you have been quietly skipping, and how to put it back this week Referenced in this episode: strength coach Dan John (danjohn.net) and James FitzGerald of OPEX Fitness (opexfit.com). Against the Fade. Don’t fade. Chapters 0:00 Open 0:30 The System Is Already Complete 1:00 Six Patterns: Squat, Lunge, Hinge 1:40 Push, Pull, and the Shoulders Problem 2:00 The Core: Transfer Force and Resist Force 3:00 Power, Grip, and the Whole Map in One Workout 4:10 It’s Not the Pull, It’s the Price 5:20 The BOSU Ball and How Men Actually Get Hurt 6:00 The First Thing You Lose Is Power 7:00 Where This Comes From: Dan John and OPEX 7:25 The Line You’ve Heard Backwards 8:30 Motion Without a Foundation 9:05 Your Audit This Week 10:00 Close Against the Fade — For Men Who Refuse to Fade in Midlife New episodes every Tuesday. Newsletter & resources: https://againstthefade.com [https://againstthefade.com]  Instagram: https://instagram.com/againstthefadepodcast [https://instagram.com/againstthefadepodcast]  TikTok: https://tiktok.com/@againstthefadepodcast [https://tiktok.com/@againstthefadepodcast]  X/Twitter: https://x.com/dontfadepodcast [https://x.com/dontfadepodcast]  YouTube: https://youtube.com/@againstthefadepodcast [https://youtube.com/@againstthefadepodcast] A Second Summit Podcast.

EP16: The Navy SEAL Doctor on Sleep, Testosterone, Relationships, and Psychedelics | Dr. Kirk Parsley

Show Notes Most of us in midlife reach for the fix last and sacrifice sleep first. Dr. Kirk Parsley spent a career proving we have it backwards. Kirk earned his trident as a Navy SEAL at 19, left the teams, and came back years later as their doctor. What he found treating the fittest men on the planet is that almost everything they complained about, the fog, the short fuse, the body that would not respond, traced back to the one thing none of them mentioned. They were not sleeping, and most were leaning on Ambien to get through the night. This is the honest conversation about sleep, testosterone, and recovery in midlife. We get into why you build muscle while you sleep and not in the gym, why deep sleep is the recovery lever you actually control after 40, and the near one-to-one link Kirk’s team documented between a man’s testosterone and his time in bed. On testosterone he holds a credible middle ground: fix the foundation first, understand the real ceiling that comes with age, and know that a “normal” lab range mostly means you’re average in a country that isn’t healthy. Then we move it out of the gym. Kirk lays out what a bad night does to a man’s threat perception, why a tired version of you hears an attack in an ordinary comment from your wife, and the simple, honest move he uses at home: when he wakes up off, he says so before the day starts. We close on the brain, including what psychedelics may be doing for neuroplasticity and trauma, and his point that the medicine opens a window. But the change comes from the work you do afterward. A couple of notes for the record. The book Kirk references on LSD and creativity is Michael Pollan’s How to Change Your Mind. And the Alzheimer’s recovery he mentions is a single published case report (Frontiers in Neuroscience, 2026): one patient given psilocybin mushrooms, not a clinical trial, so read it as a striking anecdote, not settled science. Find Doc Parsley at docparsley.com [https://docparsley.com/] and sleepremedy.com [https://docparsley.com/get-sleep-now/]. Against the Fade. Don’t fade. Chapters 1:00 SEAL at 19, then walking away from the teams 4:00 Becoming a doctor and coming back to the SEALs 9:00 Building the SEAL clinic and the Ambien discovery 17:00 You build muscle in your sleep, not the gym 20:00 Sleep Remedy, built as the anti-Ambien 24:00 Sleep as the foundation under the other pillars 29:00 Repair, prepare, and why aging is unfinished recovery 32:00 The 80/20 rule for handling life’s stressors 36:00 The hard truth about building muscle after 40 44:00 Testosterone: lifestyle first, and the real ceiling 48:00 What “normal range” actually means 54:00 The near one-to-one link between testosterone and sleep 59:00 Sleep, threat perception, and marriage communication 1:08:00 “If I seem off today, don’t take it personally” 1:09:00 Psychedelics, the brain, and an Alzheimer’s case report 1:19:00 Neuroplasticity, and why the work comes after 1:26:00 LSD, Michael Pollan, and the cycle of fear 1:28:00 Where to find Doc Against the Fade — For Men Who Refuse to Fade in Midlife New episodes every Tuesday. Newsletter & resources: https://againstthefade.com [https://againstthefade.com]  Instagram: https://instagram.com/againstthefadepodcast [https://instagram.com/againstthefadepodcast]  TikTok: https://tiktok.com/@againstthefadepodcast [https://tiktok.com/@againstthefadepodcast]  X/Twitter: https://x.com/dontfadepodcast [https://x.com/dontfadepodcast]  YouTube: https://youtube.com/@againstthefadepodcast [https://youtube.com/@againstthefadepodcast] A Second Summit Podcast.

EP15: Setting the Standard

You learned how to be a man by watching one, and quietly copying him. Somewhere along the line the camera turned around. Now we’re the men younger guys are watching, whether we signed up for it or not. This solo episode makes the case that the work we do in midlife on our health, our marriages, and our character never stays private, and that we’re all setting a standard for the men coming up behind us. The only question is how high. What we get into: •       Why character takes all three valleys, not just the body •       Generativity, the midlife pull to pour ourselves into what comes after us •       The role model gap facing young men today, and what fills it •       A simple weekly audit to start raising your standard this week Referenced in this episode: Richard Reeves, Of Boys and Men. Against the Fade. Don’t fade.  Against the Fade — For Men Who Refuse to Fade in Midlife New episodes every Tuesday. Newsletter & resources: https://againstthefade.com [https://againstthefade.com]  Instagram: https://instagram.com/againstthefadepodcast [https://instagram.com/againstthefadepodcast]  TikTok: https://tiktok.com/@againstthefadepodcast [https://tiktok.com/@againstthefadepodcast]  X/Twitter: https://x.com/dontfadepodcast [https://x.com/dontfadepodcast]  YouTube: https://youtube.com/@againstthefadepodcast [https://youtube.com/@againstthefadepodcast] A Second Summit Podcast.

EP14: The Finish Line That Keeps Moving | Tripp Lanier

Most of us are waiting for permission. To relax, to take the risk, to finally live the life we keep telling ourselves we’ll get to once we retire, once the kids are grown, once we hit the number. Tripp Lanier calls it the finish line that keeps moving, and he’s spent more than twenty years coaching men who crossed it and found new problems waiting on the other side. Tripp is a men’s coach, host of The New Man Podcast, and author of This Book Will Make You Dangerous. In this conversation we get into why so many of us hit midlife running on a fraction of our power, what we have to let go of to move forward, and the difference between being genuinely burned out and being out of alignment. He also shares the question he asked one client about money and time that left the man in tears. It reframes a bargain a lot of us are making without noticing. This is not the guy yelling at us to dominate, and it’s not the guy asking us to perform our feelings on cue. It’s the ground in between. One note on a moment in the episode: when Tripp lays out the Hunter versus Prey idea, the quick version is that prey animals (deer, rabbits) have eyes on the sides of their heads, built to scan for danger, while hunters (predators) have eyes facing forward, locked on what they want. Most of us move through midlife like prey, playing not to lose. The call is to face forward. Find Tripp at triplanier.com [https://www.tripplanier.com/] and listen to The New Man Podcast at newmanpodcast.com [https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/]. Against the Fade. Don’t fade. Against the Fade — For Men Who Refuse to Fade in Midlife New episodes every Tuesday. Newsletter & resources: https://againstthefade.com [https://againstthefade.com]  Instagram: https://instagram.com/againstthefadepodcast [https://instagram.com/againstthefadepodcast]  TikTok: https://tiktok.com/@againstthefadepodcast [https://tiktok.com/@againstthefadepodcast]  X/Twitter: https://x.com/dontfadepodcast [https://x.com/dontfadepodcast]  YouTube: https://youtube.com/@againstthefadepodcast [https://youtube.com/@againstthefadepodcast] A Second Summit Podcast.