This Silence is Deafening

This Silence is Deafening

After going no contact and being betrayed by our undercover agent, we finally had some space from Dragonfly's lies and drama. We maintained a friendship and moved on with our lives... but with time comes reflection, and things started to look a little different with some space. Conversations about a serious incident let to some sleuthing... and what came next shocked.... no one. #truecrime #conartist #romancescam #storytime #whotfdidimarry #australia Disclaimer: The views shared in this podcast are our opinions and interpretations of events, not statements of fact. Descriptions of behaviours and characteristics refer to observed patterns, rather than diagnoses or criminal allegations. This podcast is about Nicholas Firefly AKA Nicholas Davis of QLD Australia Contact us at catchthedragonfly@protonmail.com [catchthedragonfly@protonmail.com] Music: Follow Me Into The Dark by Nihilore Logo: freeimages.com [http://freeimages.com]

Saving the Villain

We had trusted Sophie to help us warn a woman who was being conned by Dragonfly. But it seemed that she wasn’t as immune to narcissistic charm as she had insisted. Sophie had started to give #PickMe energy, but nothing could have prepared us for the reasoning behind her ideology. As Jules’ last conversation with her spirals, Sophie reveals a startling family secret that explains everything. The study that is referenced in this episode is called Tolerance of Sexual Harassment: An Examination of Gender Differences, Ambivalent Sexism, Social Dominance, and Gender Roles, and it can be found at this link: https://link.springer.com/article/10.1023/B:SERS.0000023075.32252.fd [https://link.springer.com/article/10.1023/B:SERS.0000023075.32252.fd] #truecrime #conartist #romancescam #storytime #whotfdidimarry #australia Disclaimer: The views shared in this podcast are our opinions and interpretations of events, not statements of fact. Descriptions of behaviours and characteristics refer to observed patterns, rather than diagnoses or criminal allegations. This podcast is about Nicholas Firefly AKA Nicholas Davis of QLD Australia Contact us at catchthedragonfly@protonmail.com [catchthedragonfly@protonmail.com] Music: Follow Me Into The Dark by Nihilore Logo: freeimages.com [http://freeimages.com]

URGENT APPEAL: Help us identify and warn Dragonfly's new victim

URGENT APPEAL: help us warn his new victim This is another episode that you’ll want to watch on YouTube. When Kiki tries to reach out to Dragonfly (Nicholas Firefly) to give him an opportunity to share his side of the story, a whirlwind of events unfolded, which led to this episode: a PSA, an appeal for help to locate his new victim. In this episode we will share footage of the attempt to contact Nicholas and the immediate aftermath, and explain how we came to have a photo of his new victim. This episode is an urgent appeal. PLEASE share this, especially if you know anyone in the Brisbane area. This woman deserves to know the truth, and she deserves to make INFORMED consent about the ‘relationship’ she is in.

Unconvetional Espionage

Sophie was already connected to Dragonfly from a Facebook group friendship. She recognised him from a PSA and offered to help us investigate whether he was conning Belinda, the woman he met on the ferry. But as the weeks go on, the signs start piling up. Pick-me logic. Excusing harmful behaviour. Blaming women. And then… flirting with Dragonfly??? What was meant to be surveillance becomes something far messier, and by the end of the episode we reach a critical conversation with Sophie. We don’t tell you what happens yet, because this one becomes an entire episode of its own. Trust no one. Especially not someone who insists they’re “just being fair” to an abuser. #truecrime #conartist #romancescam #storytime #whotfdidimarry #australia Disclaimer: The views shared in this podcast are our opinions and interpretations of events, not statements of fact. Descriptions of behaviours and characteristics refer to observed patterns, rather than diagnoses or criminal allegations. This podcast is about Nicholas Firefly of QLD Australia Contact us at catchthedragonfly@protonmail.com [catchthedragonfly@protonmail.com] Music: Follow Me Into The Dark by Nihilore Logo: freeimages.com [http://freeimages.com]

Spiralling Toward September (Screenshot edition)

If you’re listening on audio only, trust us: this is the one you’ll want to watch on YouTube. The video version is packed with 37 receipts: screenshots, photos, message threads, and evidence that turns this episode into an absolute forensic deep-dive into Dragonfly’s tangled web. Kiki’s reading from a psychic turns from a funny aside into a genuinely jaw-dropping plot point. Meanwhile, Dragonfly resurfaces with his attempt at a redemption tour. There are new schemes, ‘jobs,’ and stories about his mysterious ‘friends.’ We begin comparing notes, screenshots and timelines that reveal just how deep the deception goes. What we didn’t expect at this point was to receive new admissions from Dragonfly that reshaped the entire landscape of the story. By the time we piece it all together, the focus shifts to someone we’ve mentioned before. Belinda, the woman who he met on the ferry, may be at far more risk than we first realised. With new information at hand, we make a decision that ends in a phone call that NONE of us were expecting. #truecrime #conartist #romancescam #storytime #whotfdidimarry #australia Disclaimer: The views shared in this podcast are our opinions and interpretations of events, not statements of fact. Descriptions of behaviours and characteristics refer to observed patterns, rather than diagnoses or criminal allegations. This podcast is about Nicholas Firefly of QLD Australia Contact us at catchthedragonfly@protonmail.com [catchthedragonfly@protonmail.com] Music: Follow Me Into The Dark by Nihilore Logo: freeimages.com [http://freeimages.com]