The Chokehold Of Hyper Independence

Takeaways From My 20s

We love Sundays, and we all know what that means, a new episode! Today we cover my 29 takeaways from my 20s and how I will be carrying these lessons into my new decade. I feel like the year before a new decade sets the tone for what's to come on your new lap and I've been extremely intentional about my last trip around the sun of my 20s. I hope this episode encourages the kollectiv to also take some time and stock of their takeaways as they go into a new age.

The Breakthrough Kid.

Another Sunday, another Kollectiv gathering. We will never stop giving gratitude on every chance we get to connect to our kommunity, so thank you for tuning in. On today's episode, we talk about being the generational curse breaker aka The Breakthrough Kid! We touch on being the first of many, fortified grounds, the transformation of isolation to the bliss of solitude, making peace with was, is and still to come, a spiritually orchestrated kommunity, and so much more. Tap in and let us get into it!

S3: Ep1: Burnt Toast Theory and Divine Redirection

We baaaaack! It feels so good to connect again. On today's episode we do a quick recap on the year that was and some special news I get to share with the Kollectiv. I also speak on the Burnt Toast Theory and Divine Redirection in all life's aspects. As always I hope today's episode does a one-up! for your soul. Until the next episode, stay blessed.

The Reality Of Friendship Breakups

Get your tea ready, incense burning, and let's get into it! In today's episode, we look at the realities of friendship breakups. The signs that may lead to the ending of the friendship, When to let go and when to hold on, the restoration of what was to what can be, expectations and responsibilities within your friendships circles, the importance of commitment in friendships and how that may look and feel like and the overall feeling of a healed happy and healthy friendship. We always love to get your feedback, don't forget to rate us, drop a comment and also join the CIB family, until we connect again, a blessed and beautiful season. Asè.

The Chokehold Of Hyper Independence

Hello to our favourite Kollectiv. We know that second Sundays are dedicated to CIB episodes and as the saying goes "better late than never", serves relevance in this case as we went live a few days late than expected. In the same breath, we appreciate the kollectiv patience from our CIB family and would like to believe this episode was worth the wait.  We've broken down the episode coverage for your spirit to resonate and for audio enjoyment. 28:45 - Formal housekeeping, while taking the time to appreciate our audience connecting from all around the world plus we cover an extract from the book "A fire like you" by Upile Chisala as our words/quote of the day. We jumped straight right into the episode's topic by defining  Hyper Independence from trusted sources and unearthing even more from a soul-led perspective the cracks of this infamous chokehold.  28:49 - 56:84 - Signs of Hyper independence in our daily lives and the defensiveness we may be facing in not recognizing this sense of life as a trauma response and how trauma can birth hyper-independence. Another look is the realities of how "HI" can move from being fulfilling in terms of reaching our accomplishment to how its shifts to a negative effect and affect your overall overview in relationships, self-worth, and navigation of living in community with others.  56:85 - 01:27:17 How to navigate and unlearn hyper-independence and form healthy and fulfilling dependence patterns in your every day while honoring the power that comes with maintaining a sense of independence for yourself and those around you.