Church Hurt: What It Is, Why It Happens, and How It Impacts Faith (Part I)

Healing from Church Hurt: A Journey to Restoration (Part 2)

Church hurt can leave deep emotional and spiritual wounds, causing some people to question their faith, withdraw from community, or struggle to trust again. In Part II of our special series on church hurt, Dr. Tamara Henry welcomes back Minister Eugene Howie of First Baptist Church of Glenarden for a thoughtful conversation about healing, restoration, and hope. Together, they explore the realities of pain within faith communities, the role of misunderstanding and miscommunication, and why church hurt often cuts so deeply. Minister Howie explains how healing begins with acknowledging the wound, understanding the impact on the soul, and creating safe spaces where people can be heard without judgment. The discussion also examines trust, shame, forgiveness, and the responsibilities of church leaders in caring for wounded believers. Listeners will be encouraged to separate God's character from human failures, reconnect with their identity in Christ, and embrace the possibility of restoration. Whether you are carrying wounds from a recent church experience or pain that has lingered for years, this episode offers biblical wisdom, practical insight, and hope for the journey toward healing. Be sure to listen to Part I, 'Church HurtWhat It Is,' where we explore the causes, characteristics, and impact of church hurt. In This Episode * Why church hurt is a deeply personal and often subjective experience * How misunderstandings and miscommunication can contribute to pain * The importance of vulnerability in authentic Christian community * Why anger can be a signal that something important needs attention * Understanding the soul's role in emotional and spiritual healing * The difference between simply passing time and true healing * How safe spaces promote restoration and healthy dialogue * Rebuilding trust after betrayal or disappointment * The impact of shame on worship and spiritual growth * Distinguishing God's faithfulness from human failure * The role of pastors and church leaders in caring for wounded believers * Why forgiveness and healing are often community processes, not solitary ones Key Takeaways Healing Begins with Acknowledgment You cannot heal what you refuse to acknowledge. Recognizing the injury is often the first step toward restoration. Trust Takes Time to Rebuild Trust is far easier to break than to restore. Healing requires patience, consistency, and intentional effort from all involved. Safe Spaces Matter People heal best when they are heard, valued, and allowed to express their pain without fear of dismissal or judgment. Your Identity Is Not Defined by Your Hurt Church hurt may be part of your story, but it does not have to become your identity. God invites believers to find their worth in Him. God Is Not the Same as Human Failure Disappointment with people should not be confused with disappointment in God. His faithfulness remains constant even when people fall short. No One Heals Alone Healthy relationships, wise counsel, and supportive communities play an important role in the healing process. Memorable Quotes "Hurt isn't just a trendy phrase." "The deeper you go in, the deeper the hurt." "You cannot heal what you do not acknowledge." "Anger is an alarm system for us." "Creating a safe environment is essential for healing." "A safe space is where a person can be heard." "Time doesn't just heal all wounds." "You don't have to do this alone." "Believe what God believes about you." "Shame is a man-made thing." "Trust is not as easily restored as it is broken." "You are not in ownership. You're in stewardship." "Don't let the hurt be the final chapter of the story." About Our Guest Minister Eugene Howie serves in multiple leadership capacities at First Baptist Church of Glenarden. He is also host of The Second Shift, a podcast that offers biblical encouragement and practical guidance to state, local, and federal government employees navigating layoffs, workplace uncertainty, and career transitions during a challenging political climate. Minister Howie is a familiar voice to Emunah listeners and has previously appeared on: Forgiveness with Brother Domonic and Minister Eugene Howie (April 18, 2025) Forgiveness Reframed: Clearing Up the Confusion (July 9, 2025) The Awakening (May 5, 2023) Join the Conversation Have you experienced church hurt? What helped you begin the journey toward healing? We would love to hear your thoughts and experiences. Email: wordconsultingllc@gmail.com [wordconsultingllc@gmail.com] Website: https://wordconsultingllc.com [https://wordconsultingllc.com] If this episode encouraged you, please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with someone who may need hope and healing today.

Church Hurt: What It Is, Why It Happens, and How It Impacts Faith (Part I)

Church hurt is one of the most painful and misunderstood experiences within the Christian community. In this first installment of a two-part series, Emunah host Dr. Tamara Henry sits down with Minister Eugene Howie of First Baptist Church of Glenarden International to explore what church hurt is, what causes it, and why it can have such a profound impact on a person's faith journey. Together, they unpack the difference between ordinary conflict and genuine church hurt, examine the role of pride, jealousy, insecurity, and unmet expectations, and discuss how wounds inflicted within the church can affect relationships with both God and others. Through biblical examples and practical insights, this conversation lays the foundation for understanding church hurt and preparing for the healing process discussed in Part II. Key Topics Discussed * What church hurt isand what it is not * Common causes of church hurt, including pride, jealousy, and insecurity * The difference between church hurt and everyday church conflict * How church hurt affects faith, trust, and relationships * Biblical examples of conflict, reconciliation, and healing within God's people Memorable Quotes "Church hurt is deeply personal." "Home is where the heart is." "Church hurt can shake faith." About Minister Eugene Howie Minister Eugene Howie serves in multiple leadership capacities at First Baptist Church of Glenarden International in Upper Marlboro, Maryland. He is also the host of The Second Shift, a podcast that offers encouragement, practical wisdom, and faith-based guidance for state, local, and federal government employees navigating layoffs, job uncertainty, and workplace challenges during a turbulent political season. A familiar voice to Emunah listeners, Minister Howie has previously appeared on: * Forgiveness with Brother Domonic and Minister Eugene Howie (April 18, 2025) https://open.spotify.com/episode/5WqQjc2Cer4uGaq8sRqSZH?si=E3avIgPPR9eQBb1uNJo_3A [https://open.spotify.com/episode/5WqQjc2Cer4uGaq8sRqSZH?si=E3avIgPPR9eQBb1uNJo_3A] * Forgiveness Reframed: Clearing Up the Confusion (July 9, 2025) https://open.spotify.com/episode/36pkz6TTLsu2dBzpO49yCy?si=18QkIwiyTSOfjHacF4YMxw [https://open.spotify.com/episode/36pkz6TTLsu2dBzpO49yCy?si=18QkIwiyTSOfjHacF4YMxw] * The Awakening (May 5, 2023) https://open.spotify.com/episode/1UydBDURQAyXjMXC3GxHzR?si=7g_MdILMQNa37TTfRu98Qw [https://open.spotify.com/episode/1UydBDURQAyXjMXC3GxHzR?si=7g_MdILMQNa37TTfRu98Qw]   Continue the Conversation Emunah wants to hear from you. Share your thoughts, questions, or experiences with church hurt and healing. Email: wordconsultingllc@gmail.com [wordconsultingllc@gmail.com] Website: https://wordconsultingllc.com [https://wordconsultingllc.com/]

Introducing Jesus to Family!

PASTOR RONNIE D. SIMMONS AND THE ABCS OF SALVATION Originally aired May 10, 2024 | Updated and re-released May 15, 2026 How do you share the message of Jesus Christ with the people closest to you? In this powerful episode of Emunah, host Dr. Tamara Henry welcomes Pastor Ronnie D. Simmons of House of Faith Christian Center in Smyrna. Pastor Simmons offers a practical and biblically grounded approach to introducing Jesus to family members using the simple yet life-changing ABCs of Salvation. Drawing from his book, 3 Bs That Do Not Sting! The 3-Step Process to Christian Discipleship, Pastor Simmons explains that witnessing to our families is not primarily the churchs responsibilityit is our personal responsibility as believers. > Its important, and we have to do it. It is not the churchs responsibility to witness to the family; its the familys responsibility to witness to the family. This updated episode provides clear guidance for Christians who want to share their faith with loved ones in a truthful, loving, and effective way. ---------------------------------------- THE ABCS OF SALVATION Pastor Simmons presents the gospel in three straightforward steps: A ADMIT Admit that you are a sinner and deserving of the penalty of sin. > You are a sinner not because you sin; you sin because you are a sinner. B BELIEVE Believe that Jesus Christ died on the cross for your sins and repent. C CONFESS Confess Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior. These foundational steps offer a simple framework for explaining salvation to family members and friends who may not yet know Christ. ---------------------------------------- THREE COMMON ROADBLOCKS TO SHARING JESUS WITH FAMILY Pastor Simmons identifies three obstacles that often prevent believers from effectively witnessing to loved ones: 1. Avoidance Some people do not want to discuss spiritual matters and quickly change the subject. 2. Incorrect Information Others share opinions, feelings, or hearsay rather than biblical truth. 3. Incomplete Information Important parts of the gospel are omitted, leaving listeners confused or discouraged. ---------------------------------------- KNOW JESUS BEFORE YOU SHARE JESUS Pastor Simmons emphasizes that effective evangelism begins with a personal understanding of who Jesus is. By reading the Bible and studying what Jesus taught, commanded, and promised, believers gain clarity and confidence. > When Jesus says something in the Bible, thats His faith. Every time He speaks, Hes speaking His faith. When I say what Jesus says, now it becomes my faith. When we come to Jesus, listen to His words, and obey His teachings, our lives are transformed and our paths become clear. ---------------------------------------- KEY SCRIPTURES MENTIONED * Gospel of John 1:17 * Gospel of John 14:49 * Gospel of John 17:2526 * Gospel of Matthew 11:2728 * Epistle to the Colossians 1:15 * Acts of the Apostles 10 * Epistle to the Romans 10:910, 17 * Book of Hosea 4:6 ---------------------------------------- IN THIS EPISODE, YOU WILL LEARN * How to explain the gospel using the ABCs of Salvation * Why sharing Jesus with family is a personal responsibility * Common mistakes Christians make when witnessing * How to build confidence through biblical knowledge * Why repeating the words of Jesus strengthens your faith ---------------------------------------- RESOURCES * Pastor Simmons book: 3 Bs That Do Not Sting! The 3-Step Process to Christian Discipleship * House of Faith Christian Center [https://houseoffaithchristiancenter.org?utm_source=chatgpt.com] * Women of the Word [https://wordconsultingllc.com?utm_source=chatgpt.com] * Email feedback: wordconsultingllc@gmail.com ---------------------------------------- LISTEN AND SHARE If you have ever wondered how to talk to your family about Jesus Christ, this episode offers a clear and compassionate biblical roadmap. Share this episode with someone who wants to grow in faith and become more confident in sharing the Good News of salvation through Jesus Christ.

Jesus Does Exist! A Conversation with Dr. Craig Lantz

Did Jesus really existand what does history actually say? In this compelling episode of Emunah, host Dr. Tamara Henry sits down with Craig Lantz, author of Jesus Does Exist! The Historical Argument for Jesus of Nazareth, to explore one of the most debated questions in history: the historical reality of Jesus Christ. Together, they examine the evidence from ancient sources, the reliability of the New Testament, and why the existence of Jesus is not just a matter of faithbut a conclusion supported by historical reasoning. This conversation moves beyond theory to paint a vivid portrait of Jesus as a real personone who lived, taught, challenged religious systems, and continues to shape lives today. Whether you are strengthening your faith or exploring questions about Jesus for the first time, this episode offers a thoughtful, accessible look at Jesus as both a historical figure and spiritual leader. ---------------------------------------- Key Topics Discussed * Historical evidence for the existence of Jesus Christ * The reliability of the Gospels and eyewitness testimony * Non-Christian sources that reference Jesus * Jesus as a historical figure: teacher, healer, and disruptor * The connection between historical truth and personal faith ---------------------------------------- Key Takeaways * Multiple ancient sourcesboth biblical and non-biblicalsupport the existence of Jesus * Early eyewitness accounts affirm key details of Jesus life, ministry, and death * The New Testament holds strong historical credibility when examined alongside external evidence * Understanding the historical Jesus deepens both faith and personal connection ---------------------------------------- About the Guest: Dr. Craig Lantz Craig Lantz is a theological scholar, religious historian, and Christian apologist dedicated to exploring the intersection of faith, history, and the supernatural. He earned a Master of Arts in Biblical Studies from Trinity Theological Seminary (1994) and a Ph.D. in Religious Studies from International Seminary (1998), specializing in early Christianity and comparative religion. With over 20 years of experience as a university campus evangelist, Dr. Lantz has ministered both in the United States and internationally, including outreach work across Europe and South America. He previously served at Michigan State University as an evangelist and campus pastor. Dr. Lantz is the author of more than 25 books focused on Christian apologetics, theology, and spiritual growth. ---------------------------------------- Featured Book Jesus Does Exist! The Historical Argument for Jesus of Nazareth Available on Amazon ---------------------------------------- Join the Conversation Wed love to hear your thoughts, questions, and reflections on this episode. Email: wordconsultingllc@gmail.com Website: https://wordconsultingllc.com [https://wordconsultingllc.com/] ---------------------------------------- About Emunah Emunah (Hebrew for faith or belief) explores what it means to live a life that honors Jesusthrough honest conversations, biblical insight, and real-world application.

Grace Under Pressure: The story of Moses' wife, Zipporah

Join Emunah host, Dr. Tamara Henry, as she explores the powerful, and often overlooked story of Moses and Zipporah. In this episode, we uncover how grace reveals itself in critical momentsthrough obedience, decisive action, and divine mercy. Discover how Zipporahs swift and courageous response not only preserved Moses life but also protected Gods unfolding purpose. This episode reminds us that grace is not always quiet or gentleit often arrives unexpectedly, urgently, and right on time. ---------------------------------------- Key Topics * The significance of Zipporahs intervention in Moses life * How grace operates within leadership, obedience, and accountability * The role of covenant and identity in shaping biblical narratives ---------------------------------------- Sound Bites * Grace is not always soft and gentle. * Zipporahs quick action saved Moses life. * Grace often arrives in moments of urgency. ---------------------------------------- Scriptures Referenced * Exodus 4:20, 2426 * Genesis 17:14 * Psalm 84:11 * John 1:1617 * Romans 6:1415 * Ephesians 2:58 * 2 Peter 3:18 * Revelation 22:21 ---------------------------------------- Resources & Further Study * Ashby, Godfrey. The Bloody Bridegroom: The Interpretation of Exodus 4:2426. Expository Times 106 (1995): 203205. * Aubry, A. Zipporah: Fulfilling Her Purpose. Women of the Bible for Women of Color. Urban Spirit LLC, 2021. * Got Questions Ministries. Who Were the Midianites? GotQuestions.org * Kingdom, Rev. Dr. Denise. Women of the Bible Study Series: Zipporah Reminds Us Who We Are. Faithward.org * Newman, Stephen A. Why Moses Did Not Circumcise His Son. Jewish Bible Quarterly, Vol. 44, No. 1 (2016) * Szokovski, Miriam. What Does the Name Tzipporah Mean? Chabad.org * Wolf, Emera. Zipporah: Grace Under Pressure. The Blessed Woman, April 15, 2024 ---------------------------------------- Join the Conversation Wed love to hear from you! Share your thoughts, reflections, or personal testimonies: Email: Wordconsultingllc@gmail.com Website: https://wordconsultingllc.com [https://wordconsultingllc.com/]