Foster Youth EP 9 - Adaptation, Loss, and Strength: Aubrey Carballo’s Story

Foster Youth EP 9 - Adaptation, Loss, and Strength: Aubrey Carballo’s Story

In this episode, Athena Cordero sits down with Aubrey Carballo, Service Specialist at Desert Mountain Children’s Center and a former foster youth, to share her powerful and deeply personal story. Aubrey reflects on entering the foster care system at a young age, navigating multiple placements, and adapting to constantly changing environments, beliefs, and family dynamics. She shares what it was like to experience separation from her siblings, reunification with her mother, and the realities that followed challenging the expectations she once held onto as a child in the system. Through her journey, Aubrey opens up about early motherhood, loss, resilience, and the strength it took to keep moving forward. She speaks candidly about identity, belonging, and what it means to rebuild yourself after years of instability and change. Now a mother, professional, and advocate for children and families, Aubrey highlights the importance of breaking generational cycles and creating a different path forward. This episode offers an authentic, hopeful perspective on growth, healing, and the lasting impact of every experience along the way. Highlights * Aubrey shares her lived experience growing up in the foster care system. * Insight into constant transitions between placements, beliefs, and environments. * Honest reflection on reunification and unmet expectations. * Discussion of early motherhood and generational patterns. * The impact of both positive and negative foster care experiences. * How her journey shaped her role working with children today. Key Takeaways * Foster youth often adapt to survive, which can impact identity and belonging. * Every placement, positive or negative, leaves a lasting impact. * Reunification can be complex and may not match expectations. * Generational cycles can be broken with awareness and intentional choices. * Resilience is built through experience, support, and perspective. * It is possible to rebuild, grow, and create a different future. Thanks for listening! Follow us on Facebook [https://www.facebook.com/jpa.cahelp] and Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/cahelp_jpa/] | www.cahelp.org [https://www.cahelp.org] | podcast@cahelp.org [podcast@cahelp.org]

Foster Youth EP 8 - Supporting Foster Youth Through Trauma and Transition

In this episode of Fostering Futures with CAHELP, Athena Cordero sits down with Mark Todhunter, Behavioral Health Counselor Supervisor at Desert Mountain Children’s Center, to explore the mental health realities of foster youth. Mark shares his decades of experience working with children in foster care, offering powerful insight into how removal, placement changes, and ongoing uncertainty deeply impact a child’s identity, sense of safety, and ability to form connections. He explains how foster youth often experience both trauma and ongoing grief and loss losing not only their families, but also their homes, schools, routines, and sense of belonging. The conversation dives into how these experiences show up as behavioral and emotional challenges, and why those behaviors are often forms of communication rather than defiance. Mark also emphasizes the critical role of consistent, caring adults in helping foster youth begin to rebuild trust, develop coping skills, and form healthy attachments over time. This episode highlights the importance of patience, consistency, and understanding for foster parents and caregivers, while offering a new perspective on what it truly takes to support the mental health and long-term success of children in foster care. Highlights * Mark explains how removal from home impacts identity, stability, and belonging. * Insight into grief and loss as ongoing experiences for foster youth. * How trauma shows up as behavioral and emotional responses. * Overview of mental health supports, including counseling and behavioral services. * The importance of consistent, caring adults in a child’s life. * Real perspective on what foster parenting requires beyond good intentions. Key Takeaways * Foster youth experience trauma, grief, and loss simultaneously and continuously. * Behaviors are often communication, not defiance. * Identity and belonging are major challenges for children in foster care. * Consistency from adults is critical to developing trust and attachment. * Foster parenting requires new skills, patience, and emotional regulation. * Even short-term placements can create lasting, positive impact. Thanks for listening! Follow us on Facebook [https://www.facebook.com/jpa.cahelp] and Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/cahelp_jpa/] | www.cahelp.org [https://www.cahelp.org] | podcast@cahelp.org [podcast@cahelp.org]

Foster Youth EP 7 - Helping Students Show Up: Child Welfare and Attendance in Action

In this episode of Fostering Futures with CAHELP, Athena Cordero sits down with Renee Castillo, Director of Child Welfare and Attendance at Apple Valley Unified School District, to explore how attendance, stability, and student well‑being are deeply connected. Renee shares her experience across nearly three decades in education, including lessons learned from her time in Vermont and how those insights shaped her work supporting students today. The conversation breaks down the true role of child welfare and attendance moving beyond compliance to focus on connection, trust, and removing barriers that prevent students from accessing school. Athena and Renee discuss the unique challenges foster youth face, including placement changes, mandated appointments, and trauma that impacts both physical and emotional attendance. They also explore how schools and districts support families through interventions, home visits, and collaborative efforts with community partners before ever reaching formal processes like School Attendance Review Boards (SARB). This episode highlights the importance of relationships, communication, and empathy in supporting students and families, while offering real examples of how schools can create stability, build trust, and ensure every child has access to learning. Highlights * Renee explains the full scope of Child Welfare and Attendance (CWA) beyond compliance. * Insight into how trauma impacts both physical and emotional attendance. * Real examples of supporting families through homelessness and crisis. * Breakdown of interventions used before formal processes like SARB. * Emphasis on building trust with families through communication and relationships. * Discussion of challenges schools face in supporting attendance today. Key Takeaways * Attendance challenges are often driven by barriers, not neglect. * Emotional disengagement can impact learning just as much as physical absence. * Building trust with families is essential for long-term success. * Early intervention and communication prevent escalation to punitive actions. * Foster youth need consistency, stability, and strong relationships to succeed. * Schools, families, and agencies must work together to support student outcomes. Thanks for listening! Follow us on Facebook [https://www.facebook.com/jpa.cahelp] and Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/cahelp_jpa/] | www.cahelp.org [https://www.cahelp.org] | podcast@cahelp.org [podcast@cahelp.org]

Episode 18 - What Happens to Speech Services at Age Three?

In this episode, Pam Bender fills in as host and is joined by Iván Campos, Program Specialist at CAHELP, for an in‑depth conversation about speech and language services from an educational lens. Iván brings his experience as a bilingual speech‑language pathologist and early intervention specialist to break down how families can navigate speech and language supports across systems. The conversation explores the differences between medical and school‑based eligibility, how early intervention services transition at age three, and what parents need to know when requesting school assessments and participating in IEP meetings. Pam and Iván also discuss multilingual language development, how to distinguish language difference versus language disorder, and why families should continue speaking their home language. Listeners gain practical strategies for supporting language development at home, advocating during IEP meetings, and understanding parent rights throughout the special education process. This episode offers parents, educators, and service providers clear guidance, reassurance, and tools for supporting children through speech and language services, while keeping the focus on empowerment, connection, and doing what works best for each child. Highlights * Iván explains the differences between medical and school‑based speech services. * Clear guidance on early intervention and the transition process at age three. * Insight into multilingual language development and evaluation. * Practical tips for parents entering IEP meetings. * Strategies families can use at home to support language growth. * Emphasis on cultural identity, access, and parent empowerment. Key Takeaways * Medical and educational speech services serve different purposes and use different eligibility criteria. * Parents must initiate school assessments; services do not transfer automatically. * Multilingualism does not cause language delays. * Parents have the right to interpreters and to ask questions during IEPs. * Consistent interaction matters more than technology for language development. * Understanding the process empowers families to advocate effectively. Thanks for listening! Follow us on Facebook [https://www.facebook.com/jpa.cahelp] and Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/cahelp_jpa/] | www.cahelp.org [https://www.cahelp.org] | podcast@cahelp.org [podcast@cahelp.org]

Foster Youth EP 6 - Supporting Foster Families Beyond Placement with Tawnie Rice From On the Rise

In this episode of Fostering Futures with CAHELP, Athena Cordero speaks with Tawnie Rice, Administrator at On the Rise Foster Agency in Barstow, California. Tawnie shares her unique perspective as both a former foster youth and a social work professional who has worked her way up through nearly every role within the agency. Tawnie walks listeners through what foster family agencies do, how they differ from county placements, and why additional layers of support, such as trained visitation monitoring, advocacy, and trauma‑informed services can make a critical difference for foster children and families. She explains intensive services foster care, extended foster care for young adults, and the realities of supporting children who have experienced trauma. Throughout the conversation, Tawnie emphasizes the importance of patience, hope, consistency, and presence. She offers honest insight into common misconceptions about foster youth, what it truly takes to become a foster parent, and why attachment is not something to fear, but something children deeply need. This episode highlights how lived experience, compassion, and community‑based support can change outcomes for foster youth and the families who care for them. Highlights * Tawnie shares her lived experience as a former foster youth and her journey to becoming an agency administrator. * Insight into how foster family agencies differ from county placements in support and advocacy. * Explanation of visitation monitoring and why trained supervision matters for children. * Walkthrough of what it takes to become a foster parent and the importance of “checking your heart.” * Discussion of trauma‑informed care, hope, and consistency in supporting foster youth. * Real‑world examples of how agencies advocate for children’s mental health and behavioral needs. Key Takeaways * There are no bad kids, only children responding to trauma. * Foster parents must be open to learning new skills and disciplinarian approaches. * Attachment is not a risk; it is essential to healing and development. * Hope is built through consistency, follow‑through, and showing up. * Foster youth often deeply miss and love their biological families. * Agencies provide critical guidance that helps foster parents navigate complex situations. Thanks for listening! Follow us on Facebook [https://www.facebook.com/jpa.cahelp] and Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/cahelp_jpa/] | www.cahelp.org [https://www.cahelp.org] | podcast@cahelp.org [podcast@cahelp.org]