Don't Just Ask God to Remove It. You Have to Kill It.

Embracing Suffering... Wait, Seriously?

Nobody signs up for suffering. But Peter says don't be surprised when it comes -- and then tells you to rejoice in it. That's either the most absurd thing you've ever heard, or the most freeing. In this episode, James, Dan, and Jake walk through the second half of 1 Peter 4 and ask the question every honest man has thought: what do you actually do with the hard stuff? The argument with your wife at midnight. The kid who's struggling. The conversation you've been putting off for three weeks. They get into why God tests but never tempts, why going numb to avoid the pain also cuts you off from the joy, and what it looks like to find real rejoicing in the middle of a trial -- not after it. If you've ever wondered whether your suffering has a point, this one's for you.

Devil Can't Make You Bad? He'll Make You Busy

Jake, Dan, and guest James Sullivan open 1 Peter 4 -- but the real conversation starts around the family dinner table no one is sitting at anymore. Three kids in sports. Choir. Youth group. FCA. A wife trying to figure out who she is again now that the kids don't need her every minute. And somewhere buried in all of it, the question no one is asking: where does the Holy Spirit have space to work? "If the devil can't make you bad, he'll make you busy." That line hits in the middle of a raw conversation about sports schedules, pendulum swings, and an old farmer who took a nap every day from 12:30 to 1:00 -- not because he was lazy, but because his life had a rhythm that left room for something beyond the task list. The sundial. The iPhone. Same war, different weapon. 1 Peter 4:1 -- 11. Arm yourself with the same way of thinking as Christ -- or let the calendar do it for you.

Don't Just Ask God to Remove It. You Have to Kill It.

Bobby Turner has a binder. Inside it are decades of prayers, notes, and Scripture -- rewritten with her own name in it. Not platitudes. Weapons.In this episode, Bobbie shares what it looked like when God stopped being a concept and started speaking directly to her, and how she learned to write it down, declare it out loud, and hold on to it when everything else was falling apart. Most of us beg God to remove the hard thing. But the Bible doesn't promise removal. It promises transformation -- if you're willing to go to war with what's inside you instead of waiting for it to leave on its own. You have to kill it.

Vulnerability without alcohol?

Dan has an admission: for years on date nights, he'd knock back a whiskey or two before he could open up to his wife. Not because he had a drinking problem. Because he had a vulnerability problem. That one confession opens up everything in this episode. Jake, Dan, and returning guest Dan Connors work through 1 Peter 4 and land on a question every man eventually has to answer -- what sits on the throne of your heart? Because it's not always alcohol. Sometimes it's competition. Performance. Food. Work. Winning. Anything you reach for when you need to feel something, or stop feeling something. So ask yourself, what would it look like to stop numbing yourself and actually hear from God?

Becoming a Protector with Guest Mike McFadden - Episode 13

Mikes' story starts in a Texas church at age 7 -- walking a church aisle alone because his mom was wise enough to make him own his faith. It runs through a home with an alcoholic father, a teenager who eventually told his own dad this ends now, and a young man who joined the military not out of patriotism, but because his family needed him to. Hard things don't have to break you. Sometimes they build you into exactly who someone else needs.