Misogyny in Punjabi Families

The Extended Punjabi Family

In this episode, we sit down together, not just as in-laws but as two women shaped by the kind of extended Punjabi family that once felt ever-present in our lives. We reflect on what it meant to grow up surrounded by aunties and uncles who weren’t always related by blood but were deeply woven into everyday life, where homes were open, people dropped in without notice, and there was always someone around the table. Alongside the warmth, we also acknowledge the pressure, the opinions, and that constant sense of being watched and talked about. As life has moved on, we share how those same family connections have shifted, now often held together through phone calls and messages rather than regular visits, even when distance isn’t that great. We speak honestly about caring for elders, how responsibility can fall unevenly, and how the reality of modern life has quietly changed the way families show up for one another. Through our conversation, we explore whether the extended Punjabi family we knew has slowly faded, or whether it has simply taken on a different shape altogether.

Love vs Arranged Marriages

In this episode of In-Laws Out Loud, Bee and Baljit share their own very different journeys into marriage. Bee talks about falling in love with the boy next door and choosing her own path, while Baljit opens up about her arranged marriage, having met her husband just once before the wedding. They speak honestly about expectations, family pressure, culture, and what happens after the big day, when real life begins and you’re learning to live with someone, not just marry them. From romance to reality, compromise to conflict, this is a conversation about what marriage really looks like behind closed doors. Because whether it begins with love or arrangement, the real question is… what actually makes it last?

Misogyny in Punjabi Families

In this episode we explore misogyny within Punjabi families and the ways it quietly shapes expectations, relationships and the lives of women across generations. From the pressure to produce sons to the roles daughters, daughters-in-law and mothers are expected to play, we unpack the cultural norms many grew up with but rarely spoke about. Through honest conversation and personal reflections, we ask whether these traditions protect families or hold women back, and how the next generation might change the narrative.

Menopause, Silence & Grandmothers

In this episode of In-Laws Out Loud, we dive into a conversation that many Punjabi families never had out loud - the Menopause. Why didn’t our mothers speak about it? Was it shame, strength, silence or survival? We explore generational expectations, culture, remedies and what it means for women when their reproductive years end - and why that might not be a loss, but a shift in power.