Should Counsellors Stay Silent? My Massive Facebook Pile-On

Should Counsellors Stay Silent? My Massive Facebook Pile-On

My weekend went completely wild on social media after I shared my unfiltered thoughts regarding public events, safeguarding, and women's rights. Before I knew it, activist groups targeted my page in a coordinated pile-on, demanding that I be reported and denounced to professional bodies like the NCPS. In this video, I’m reading the exact comments left by the bullies and laying it all out. As a counsellor, I keep my personal politics entirely out of the therapy room—my clients always get 100% focused, professional support. But outside of work, I refuse to censor my voice or be intimidated by institutional pressure when it comes to whistleblowing on crucial safeguarding issues and defending sex-based realities. Watch to see the reality of what happened, and let me know your thoughts in the comments: Should professionals keep their mouths shut, or use their voices to speak out? See the original post and conversation here: https://www.facebook.com/Kellyjaneoliverdougall/posts/pfbid01GRWwDFwLj8Ed6C6rqvDCE2pyQkwtQsq4TgiQuCepWRcPUdnWTg4Pq7n1RdE68mXl [https://www.facebook.com/Kellyjaneoliverdougall/posts/pfbid01GRWwDFwLj8Ed6C6rqvDCE2pyQkwtQsq4TgiQuCepWRcPUdnWTg4Pq7n1RdE68mXl]

Arrested for Defending Myself: The Hidden Traumas After the Violence

What happens after you leave an abusive relationship? For successful journalist and PR executive Louise Greene, escaping an attempted murder by her ex-partner was only the beginning of a decades-long cycle of trauma, systemic betrayal, and institutional failure. In this raw and deeply moving conversation, Louise joins host Kelly Oliver Dougall to share her harrowing journey. She reveals how she was wrongfully arrested and criminalized by the police for simply defending her own life—a shocking reality shared by many domestic violence survivors. Louise opens up about the devastating aftermath: losing her home, surviving homelessness, suffering a hypoxic brain injury after a suicide attempt, battling severe alcoholism, and eventually serving seven months in prison for fraud. Now over five years sober, Louise has completely rebuilt her life. She is using her lived experience to advocate for change, writing her memoir From Vogue to Jail, and creating crucial guidebooks to educate young girls and boys on healthy relationships. This episode is a powerful look at the statistics of women in prison, the reality of cyberstalking, and why society needs to trade judgment for deep compassion. > This episode contains detailed discussions of domestic violence, physical assault, cyberstalking, and suicide. Listener discretion is advised. 🔗 CONNECT & SUPPORT * Counselling Services: If you are a woman looking for support, guidance, or counseling through difficult family or relationship dynamics, please visit kellyoliverdougall.co.uk/counselling [http://kellyoliverdougall.co.uk/counselling]. * Crisis Support: If you or someone you know is in immediate danger or affected by domestic violence, support is available 24/7: * UK: Call 101 (non-emergency) or 999 (emergency) / National Domestic Abuse Helpline: 0808 2000 247 * Australia: Call 000 / 1800RESPECT: 1800 737 732

"They Didn't Know How To Help Me" | Michael’s NHS Detransition Story

In this episode, Kelly Oliver Dougall sits down with Michael, a 33-year-old detransitioner from Scotland, to discuss his raw, chaotic, and eye-opening journey through the UK’s gender identity pathway, the systemic failures of the NHS system, and the medical unknown he faces today. 📝 SUMMARY In this conversation, Michael shares his journey through transition and the challenges he faced within the medical system. He discusses the mental health struggles, societal pressures, and the complexities of navigating gender identity. Michael emphasizes the need for better support systems for detransitioners and advocates for awareness and understanding of their experiences. He reflects on the impact of hormonal treatments and the importance of community in the journey of self-discovery and acceptance. 💡 KEY TAKEAWAYS * Michael is a 33-year-old detransitioner from Scotland. * Transitioning can lead to significant mental health challenges. * The medical system often lacks adequate support for detransitioners. * Social pressures can heavily influence one's gender identity journey. * Workplace dynamics can complicate the experience of transitioning individuals. * Accessible spaces are crucial for those navigating gender identity. * Hormonal treatments can have unexpected and distressing effects. * Detransitioning is a complex decision that requires careful consideration. * Legal and medical challenges persist for detransitioners seeking support. * Advocacy for detransitioners is essential for raising awareness and improving support systems. 🔗 CONNECT WITH MICHAEL * X (Twitter): https://x.com/Michaelwk20 [https://x.com/Michaelwk20] * YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@UCQPu3IG782FM9azIZ26ADsg [https://www.youtube.com/@UCQPu3IG782FM9azIZ26ADsg] * TikTok: MichaelWK2 💜 COUNSELLING & SUPPORT SERVICES If this video resonates with you, I help women work through these exact issues in counselling. You do not have to carry the weight of family breakdown, confusion, or silenced grief alone. * Book a free consultation with me: https://kellyoliverdougall.co.uk [https://kellyoliverdougall.co.uk] > #Detransition #SandyfordClinic #NHS #GenderDysphoria #MentalHealth #Scotland #Podcast Interview #KellyOliverDougall

"It Took Me 25 Years to Realise This About Bullies..." | Kimberly Conte

"It took me 25 years to realize that it wasn't anything I did. It was the other person with the issue." In this deeply moving interview, author Kimberly Conte shares her raw, honest journey of surviving childhood bullying, emotional abandonment, a painful ten-year battle for her son, and three years of homelessness during the pandemic. Kimberly opens up about how she navigated a strict upbringing where she felt entirely invisible, how her 25-year marriage survived the hardest of times, and how she ultimately found peace through self-acceptance and forgiveness. Now, she is on a mission to ensure no one else feels completely alone in the dark. 📖 Find Kimberly's Book: Search Who Am I Really Do You Know? by Kimberly Conte on Amazon or Barnes & Noble. ✨ Subscribe for more stories of resilience, healing, and truth. #Resilience #OvercomingBullying #SelfAcceptance #InspirationalStories #AuthorInterview

A Trans Widow’s Bill of Rights: Setting Boundaries After Disclosure

When a spouse discloses a trans identity, women are often expected to rewrite their own reality, preferences, and boundaries overnight. In this video, I share "A Trans Widow’s Bill of Rights," written by Helena Fitzgibbons (2026). This powerful 18-point document outlines the fundamental rights and boundaries you are allowed to set regarding your emotions, finances, sexuality, and parental identity after disclosure. You are not obligated to change who you are, and your grief, anger, and boundaries are entirely valid. 🔗 Read Helena's full Substack here: https://helenafitzgibbons.substack.com/p/a-transwidows-bill-of-rights [https://helenafitzgibbons.substack.com/p/a-transwidows-bill-of-rights] 🧠 About My Practice: If you are navigating the impact of gender ideology in your home and need a therapist who understands, validates your experience, and refuses to pathologize your reality, I am here to help. ✨ Work With Me: I offer a free, 20-minute consultation for women seeking supportive, reality-based therapy. Visit the link in my bio or go to kellyoliverdougall.co.uk to book.