A Rambling Love Note To My Father After A Depressing Father's Day

A Rambling Love Note To My Father After A Depressing Father's Day

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2469864/fan_mail/new] I recorded this as a catharsis. I felt so much pain on Father's Day this year like I could not have fathomed. It was my first totally sober Father's Day. And I am no heavy drinker or much of one at all. I get a drink when I go to restaurants and I usually will drink when I venerate my ancestors so three times a year with them and an occasional dinner drink. This past year my GLP1 has made alcohol just absolutely undesirable so for the first time I drank nothing while venerating my father and the pain was crippling. I was depressed most of the day in a way I had not been in a long time. Sometimes I feel like the love has no where to go but it remains so present. All I could do was talk and vent. This episode is me releasing that as best as I could. I hope anyone else grieving the loss of a parent finds something of value here Support the show [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2469864/support]

Raw Reaction To The Film Obsession

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2469864/fan_mail/new] Horror is having such a moment right now and I cannot recommend this film enough. This review has spoilers so please skip this episode if you have not seen the film. This is something I want you to experience first had with little known if you can. If you have seen it definitely listen and tell me your thoughts and reactions to this amazing piece of horror.  Support the show [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2469864/support]

Black Femicide Has To End

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2469864/fan_mail/new] This week I sort of ramble about my feelings about what has been happening to black women at the hands of men and how women have every right to ask for whatever when they are choosing to deal with men because the potential of harm is so great. Join me and tell me what you think. Support the show [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2469864/support]

Eric Swalwell And Why We Do Not Need Undisciplined Men In Leadership And How Black Christians Learned From White Christians How to Cloak Abusive Behavior So They Can Look The Other Way For Their Own Enjoyment

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2469864/fan_mail/new] This week we discuss the mess around the Democratic Party and Eric Swalwell and how we need ethics rules that make being sexually undisciplined disqualifying for public office and how men are allowed to be cheaters but still considered trustworthy because people think lying to a woman is acceptable but you should have different ethics when it comes to men. We also wrap up this discussion talking about how Black people have co opted tactics from their oppressor via the religion foisted upon them by said oppressor to look the other way while they justify giving money to abusive people like Chris Brown and abuse apologists like Usher for their own entertainment. Thank you for your ears Support the show [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2469864/support]

The Propaganda Of What Fatherhood Brings To The Two Parent Household, How My Father's Love Helped Me Become A Feminist In The Long Run And Bad Ass Teenie B's Memoir

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2469864/fan_mail/new] Good day equality lovers. Today we are breaking down how fatherhood's role in the success of childhood outcomes is over simplified to imply that a household without fathers is bad because of the missing of the male aspect rather than the missing of the money, stability and resources that come with two parents contributing to the well being of the child. The intention of this propaganda is to guilt women to bear the brunt of the mistreatment of men for the sake of the better outcome of the children while men themselves do not demonstrate their own belief in their value in the household by being more hands off in child rearing and also not putting the same effort to maintain the relationship into it so that the kids can have the best outcomes. We also discuss how studies show that two parent households period regardless of the gender of the parents have similar outcomes so this dismisses the narrative that men want to draw from this that their presence specifically is required for success. I also discuss my impressions of Tina Knowles memoir Matriarch and the politics of who we choose to have children with while reflecting on how my own relationship with my dad impacted me becoming a feminist in the long run. Support the show [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2469864/support]