Have you ravished someone today … yet? 😉 Stop over-giving, care-taking and people-pleasing in bed.

Have you ravished someone today … yet? 😉 Stop over-giving, care-taking and people-pleasing in bed.

“Darling, may I have you?” I asked the question. “May I have my way with you until this timer goes off?” He said yes. That’s when time stopped. The past dropped away. The future dropped away. And I entered the eternal now. That primal place where I can hear my soul. The sensory universe. Where all that exists is delicious sensory input. Skin warm against my hand. Hair tickling my wrist. Tingles rippling through my body. The sound of the birds. Our breathe.  … My partner became my feast. In this episode, I share about my recent experience feasting on a client. And about his experience being feasted upon … in his own words. “The key take away is how sexy it was to be an object of desire. To be taken. … If I dive into that deeper, it doesn’t feel like I’ve been seen before.” Join us as we explore how to ravish. And how to safely be ravished. Because there is one MOST important part that makes it safe for the one being ravished. Do not skip this part! … It’s the key to success. Some common challenges. Some not-so-common solutions. Common myths like the other person won’t enjoy it as much. And theories about how our culture got so backward. 🤓 For it is not always better to give than to receive. Sometimes it’s better to fully receive the open-hearted gift that is given. To relish it.  To cherish it.  To get lost in the feast. … Followed, of course, by “thank you.” 🤠🥰🧚🏼‍♀️ Hi, I'm your host River! I'm an erotic life-force coach, surrogate partner, and touch workshop facilitator, providing safe and confidential space for erotic awareness.  Join us in Austin at the next Weekend Workshop with River Roaring on July 24-26!  We have a list of great nearby places to stay. If you are considering working with me privately 1:1, the workshop is a great way for us to get to know one another first. Wanna talk about it? Apply here for a free call, I'd love to chat with you. At least treat yourself to joining my email list and stay in the loop for all things luminious! 🤸🏼‍♀️ Oh, and ... my gift to you darling, I hope you enjoy ❤️  ✨ The Lost Art of Sexual Fantasy ~ Become an Artist of your own Spirit ✨

Why can’t I find my desire? Relax, you’re not broken! 💃🏼🔥🕺🏽

That empty feeling after sex. That empty feeling after self pleasure. … That empty feeling that’s starting to apply to more and more of life. You’re not broken. … This culture is broken and you grew up in it. We are taught to follow other people’s desires, rather than to find our own. We are mostly taught that our own desires are bad and shameful. So we do things that we don’t really desire to do. … And we wonder why we’re bored or depressed or distracted. The good news is: YOU are naturally perfect. Let’s remember who we are underneath all the BS we don’t agree with. LET’S RETRAIN ourselves to hear our deepest desires. … Our soul’s desire. In this episode, we look at 3 simple, not easy, steps to finding your deepest desire. Energy flows where there is space. Learn how to give your body and your being space so the energy of your soul’s desire can flow through you. … If you choose to pursue this path, I hope find your soul’s deepest desires and enjoy each one of them to their fullest. Hi, I'm your host River! I'm an erotic life-force coach, surrogate partner, and touch workshop facilitator, providing safe and confidential space for erotic awareness.  🤸🏼‍♀️ My gift to you darling, I hope you enjoy ❤️  ✨ The Lost Art of Sexual Fantasy ~ Become an Artist of your own Spirit ✨

Boner Shame Harms Us All: Let's talk about the beautiful male erection 🍆😢💪🏽🌈🦴

In this episode, learn about the far-away land where blonde people don’t get to raise their arms in the air. Nobody knows exactly how it started or why it is, but every time a blonde person raises one or both of their arms in the air, bad things happen.   First, everyone snickers, then busts out laughing, mocking, gossiping and ridiculing. It’s deeply shaming. So after hundreds of years and generation after generation following along without questioning  … Blonde people seem to be dumber (they never raise their hand in class), less emotionally regulated, more easily upset and aggressive, and less physically flexible or athletic (they never participate in most sports) than everyone else. Find out what happens in this far-away land! Thankfully, we would never be that misguided. 🤣🤣🤣 Let’s talk about boner shame.  One half of our population doesn’t get to move their body naturally.  … The part that is most related to joy, exuberance, ecstasy … arousal.  Hmmmmmmm …. might that impact our entire culture? I can hardly wait for you to check out this episode and send me your comments and emails - I want to hear from you on this one!  Hi, I'm your host River! I'm an erotic life-force coach, surrogate partner, and touch workshop facilitator, providing safe and confidential space for erotic awareness.  🤸🏼‍♀️ My gift to you darling, I hope you enjoy ❤️  ✨ The Lost Art of Sexual Fantasy ~ Become an Artist of your own Spirit ✨

Celebrating our Differences Sexually: Able-bodied, disabled, differently-abled, neurodivergent, on the spectrum and more! 🕊️🌸🍃

If you have a beating human heart, you have full capacity for glorious, nourishing, blissful sexual experiences. Each of us has a unique brand of sexual desire and expression. Each one of us different from the other. Like a totally unique puzzle piece, your sexual capacities and desires can fit together with your partner’s unique puzzle piece to make a divine piece of art! Unpartnered or partnered, your personal brand of sexual desire and expression is perfect. Did you know that a person who is paralyzed from the neck down has the capacity for multiple, rolling, full-body energetic orgasms? Heights of bliss that most “able-bodied” humans never take the time to learn. Heights of bliss that are absent from the cookie-cutter soul-squashing scenes we are fed on mainstream porn. In this episode, we talk about sexuality for all kinds of people including: - Able bodied - Disabled - Differently abled - Neuro divergent - Neuro spicy - On the spectrum -  and more No matter what type of body or mind you have, imagine the possibilities if you were able to find the highest form of your sexual expression. And imagine what will happen when you find a perfect puzzle piece that fits with your puzzle piece? 🥰 Tune in for ideas and inspiration. Hi, I'm your host River! I'm an erotic life-force coach, surrogate partner, and touch workshop facilitator, providing safe and confidential space for erotic awareness.  🤸🏼‍♀️ My gift to you darling, I hope you enjoy ❤️  ✨ The Lost Art of Sexual Fantasy ~ Become an Artist of your own Spirit ✨

Sovereignty and Connection: Resolving the seemingly endless push/pull of attachment style in intimate sexual relationships 🕊️🌸🍃

Our childhood emotional environment set us up for how we will relate emotionally with our partners. From the springboard of our youth, some of us will be on a life journey to seek sovereignty, among other quests. Others will be on a journey to curate connection at higher levels, among our other life purposes. Many people call these our emotional attachment styles. The two classic styles are played out in our culture over and over. Mysteriously, each person tends to select the opposite type of emotional style in their partners. Then we wonder what went wrong. … When in reality, we are set up for everything to go right! We choose the partner who is different from ourself for a really great reason - so we can learn! Together we can learn to balance and harmonize our styles. And come into union - what many call Divine Union. A lifelong process, I am here to share ways to navigate the wild and wonderful journey to this union.  Hi, I'm your host River! I'm an erotic life-force coach, surrogate partner, and touch workshop facilitator, providing safe and confidential space for erotic awareness.  🤸🏼‍♀️ My gift to you darling, I hope you enjoy ❤️  ✨ The Lost Art of Sexual Fantasy ~ Become an Artist of your own Spirit ✨