Ep 46 - God Sent Them, But Not To Be Your Best Friend

Ep 46 - God Sent Them, But Not To Be Your Best Friend

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2535236/fan_mail/new] In this episode of Messy But Motivated, we’re talking about something we don’t discuss enough: not every person God brings into your life is meant to become your best friend. Some people are assignments, some are lessons, and some are simply passing through. I also share why it’s important to pay attention to how certain relationships make you feel. If being around someone constantly leaves you comparing yourself, feeling envious, or questioning your own journey, it may be a sign that you need to create some distance. Protecting your peace isn’t selfish—it’s wisdom. This episode is all about discernment, healthy boundaries, and trusting that the right relationships will draw you closer to God and the person He’s calling you to become. Want to get in touch with me? Email melinda@mrsmotivated.com  Thanks for being a listener, stay blessed friends.  Don’t forget to follow me on social media: TikTok @mrsmotivated2025 Facebook @mrsmotivated2025 Instagram @mrsmotivated2025

Ep 45 - The Unknown Assignment: Trusting God in Florida

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2535236/fan_mail/new] In this episode of Messy But Motivated, we share the real story behind our move from Iowa to Florida. From unexpected challenges like adjusting to new water, upset stomachs, and the emotions that come with leaving everything familiar behind, we’re talking honestly about what it’s been like to start over. We also open up about the loneliness that can come with a major life transition and the questions that arise when God calls you somewhere new. While we don’t know exactly what the future holds, we believe this move is part of a new assignment from God—and we’re learning what it means to trust Him one step at a time. If you’ve ever felt uncomfortable in a season of change, struggled with uncertainty, or wondered what God is doing in your life, this conversation is for you. Join us as we embrace the mess, stay motivated, and follow God’s leading even when the destination isn’t fully clear. Don't forget to subscribe for more real, raw, and motivating faith filled conversations. 💁🏼‍♀️ Want updates on retreats, the podcast, Bible studies and everything in between!? Subscribe to our mailing list! 👇🏼 https://mrsmotivated.myflodesk.com/subscribe [https://mrsmotivated.myflodesk.com/subscribe] Want to send me an email? Contact me at Melinda@mrsmotivated.com Thanks for being a listener, stay blessed friends.  Don’t forget to follow me on social media: TikTok @mrsmotivated2025 Facebook @mrsmotivated2025 Instagram @mrsmotivated2025

Ep 44 - Grief, Growth and Standing Ground

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2535236/fan_mail/new] This week on Messy but Motivated, I’m sharing some raw life updates — the heartbreak of losing our dog after 11 faithful years, where things currently stand with our move, and a much-needed reminder for believers living in a world full of distraction and deception. With so much noise surrounding UFOs, UAPs, fear-driven headlines, and things designed to steal our focus, it’s important to remember this truth: as Christians, we already know who wins. The enemy thrives on confusion, fear, and distraction, but we are called to stand firm, keep our eyes on Christ, and not give attention to what pulls us away from His peace. No matter what’s happening around us, our foundation doesn’t change. This episode is about grief, trusting God through transition, and standing your ground in faith — because when you know the Author of the ending, you don’t have to fear the chaos in the middle. Don't forget to subscribe for more real, raw, and motivating faith filled conversations. 💁🏼‍♀️ Want updates on retreats, the podcast, Bible studies and everything in between!? Subscribe to our mailing list! 👇🏼 https://mrsmotivated.myflodesk.com/subscribe [https://mrsmotivated.myflodesk.com/subscribe] Want to send me an email? Contact me at Melinda@mrsmotivated.com Thanks for being a listener, stay blessed friends.  Don’t forget to follow me on social media: TikTok @mrsmotivated2025 Facebook @mrsmotivated2025 Instagram @mrsmotivated2025

Ep 43 - What Social Media Didn’t Show: The Struggles That Strengthened Us

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2535236/fan_mail/new] This week on Messy But Motivated, my husband Mike joins me for one of our most honest conversations yet. We’re pulling back the curtain on the parts of our story social media never showed—the depression, financial struggles, short sales, uncertainty, and the seasons where life felt heavier than we knew how to carry. From the outside, things can look polished and put together, but behind closed doors we were walking through battles that tested us in ways no post could ever capture. In this episode, we talk about the reality that things aren’t always what they seem online, the pressure of silent struggles, and how we made it through the hard seasons together. Through every setback, every hard conversation, and every storm, one thing never wavered: our marriage. This is a conversation about choosing commitment when life gets messy, leaning on faith when answers don’t come easy, and discovering that sometimes the hardest seasons produce the strongest foundations. If you’ve ever felt like everyone else has it together while you’re barely holding on, this episode is for you. Don't forget to subscribe for more real, raw, and motivating faith filled conversations. 💁🏼‍♀️ Want updates on retreats, the podcast, Bible studies and everything in between!? Subscribe to our mailing list! 👇🏼 https://mrsmotivated.myflodesk.com/subscribe [https://mrsmotivated.myflodesk.com/subscribe] Email us your testimony, your story can change the outcome of someone future. 📧 Email your story to: Comeasyouare@mrsmotivated.com Or leave us a voicemail 📲 (641) 505-1558 Want to send me an email? Contact me at Melinda@mrsmotivated.com Thanks for being a listener, stay blessed friends.  Don’t forget to follow me on social media: TikTok @mrsmotivated2025 Facebook @mrsmotivated2025 Instagram @mrsmotivated2025

Ep 42 - Stop Setting Yourself Up For Failure

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2535236/fan_mail/new] This week on Messy but Motivated, I’m getting honest about something a lot of us don’t want to admit… sometimes we are the reason we feel like we’re failing. We set goals that look good, sound good, and might even work for someone else—but deep down, we know they don’t actually fit us. Then when we don’t follow through, we beat ourselves up like we lacked discipline… when really, we lacked alignment. Not everyone is called to the same rhythms. Some people thrive journaling every single day. Some don’t. Some people wake up at 5am ready to go. Some connect with God in the quiet moments later in the day. And that doesn’t make one better than the other. God didn’t create a copy-and-paste version of you. He created you on purpose, with intention. So why are we trying to force ourselves into someone else’s routine? In this episode, we’re talking about giving yourself permission to grow in a way that actually works for you—without guilt, without comparison, and without setting unrealistic expectations that lead to burnout. Because maybe the goal isn’t to do it perfectly…  maybe it’s to do it faithfully, in a way that’s sustainable for you. Don't forget to subscribe for more real, raw, and motivating faith filled conversations. 💁🏼‍♀️ Want updates on retreats, the podcast, Bible studies and everything in between!? Subscribe to our mailing list! 👇🏼 https://mrsmotivated.myflodesk.com/subscribe [https://mrsmotivated.myflodesk.com/subscribe] Email us your testimony, your story can change the outcome of someone future. 📧 Email your story to: Comeasyouare@mrsmotivated.com Or leave us a voicemail 📲 (641) 505-1558 Want to send me an email? Contact me at Melinda@mrsmotivated.com Thanks for being a listener, stay blessed friends.  Don’t forget to follow me on social media: TikTok @mrsmotivated2025 Facebook @mrsmotivated2025 Instagram @mrsmotivated2025