Nurtural Disasters

The Gaslighting of Kathy Bates

51 min · 29. Apr. 2026
Episode The Gaslighting of Kathy Bates Cover

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Kathy Bates might have won the biggest prize in acting but couldn’t win the approval of her mother. For decades, she misremembered not thanking her mom during her Oscars speech. Likewise, Lisa misremembers some of the characters in the hit movie, Titanic. Ken discusses his disdain for bullies and truly believes empathy is the secret in finding satisfaction in everyday life. A lifetime of gaslighting and narcissistic abuse has made Lisa unable to trust her own intuition and often deals with emotional and mental hurdles to function normally in society. Ken holds out hope his “real” parents will come save him one day. Meanwhile, Lisa’s mom is somewhere in the country sporting some botched plastic surgery that makes her as ugly on the outside as she is on the inside. ---------------------------------------- Credits/Thanks: Theme Song: "Clouded" by Megan Morrow. IG: @meganmorrowmusic Sound Editing: Ken & Lisa Cover Art: Ken Thank you to all of our supporters! Follow us on: Instagram: @nurturaldisasters Substack: https://nurturaldisasters.substack.com [https://nurturaldisasters.substack.com] Linktree: https://linktr.ee/nurturaldisasters [https://linktr.ee/nurturaldisasters]

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Episode The Gaslighting of Kathy Bates Cover

The Gaslighting of Kathy Bates

Kathy Bates might have won the biggest prize in acting but couldn’t win the approval of her mother. For decades, she misremembered not thanking her mom during her Oscars speech. Likewise, Lisa misremembers some of the characters in the hit movie, Titanic. Ken discusses his disdain for bullies and truly believes empathy is the secret in finding satisfaction in everyday life. A lifetime of gaslighting and narcissistic abuse has made Lisa unable to trust her own intuition and often deals with emotional and mental hurdles to function normally in society. Ken holds out hope his “real” parents will come save him one day. Meanwhile, Lisa’s mom is somewhere in the country sporting some botched plastic surgery that makes her as ugly on the outside as she is on the inside. ---------------------------------------- Credits/Thanks: Theme Song: "Clouded" by Megan Morrow. IG: @meganmorrowmusic Sound Editing: Ken & Lisa Cover Art: Ken Thank you to all of our supporters! Follow us on: Instagram: @nurturaldisasters Substack: https://nurturaldisasters.substack.com [https://nurturaldisasters.substack.com] Linktree: https://linktr.ee/nurturaldisasters [https://linktr.ee/nurturaldisasters]

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