ON POINT with Atiba Teslim

Losing friends you still love

19 min · 22. Mai 2026
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The grief nobody names. We have funerals for people  who die. We have breakup playlists for lovers who leave. But nobody gave us a ritual for the friend who is still alive, still posting, still existing  in the world just no longer in yours. The guilt of being the one who got busy first. The shame of realizing you didn't fight for it. The confusion of not knowing whose fault it is when nobody did anything wrong. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/on-point-with-atiba-teslim--6746895/support [https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/on-point-with-atiba-teslim--6746895/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss].  I'm Atiba Teslim, and I promise you a conversation that's direct, unfiltered, and always… on point. Subscribe to On Point with Atiba Teslim wherever you get your podcasts. New episodes coming soon.

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The grief nobody names. We have funerals for people  who die. We have breakup playlists for lovers who leave. But nobody gave us a ritual for the friend who is still alive, still posting, still existing  in the world just no longer in yours. The guilt of being the one who got busy first. The shame of realizing you didn't fight for it. The confusion of not knowing whose fault it is when nobody did anything wrong. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/on-point-with-atiba-teslim--6746895/support [https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/on-point-with-atiba-teslim--6746895/support?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=rss].  I'm Atiba Teslim, and I promise you a conversation that's direct, unfiltered, and always… on point. Subscribe to On Point with Atiba Teslim wherever you get your podcasts. New episodes coming soon.

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