1026 | The Stories You Repeat Create Your Identity

1026 | The Stories You Repeat Create Your Identity

This episode explores the powerful connection between the stories we tell ourselves and the identities we create. Marsha explains how the subconscious mind learns through repetition and emotion, turning repeated thoughts and narratives into deeply held beliefs. She shares how these internal stories shape our confidence, decisions, emotions, and behaviours—often influencing our results more than our conscious goals ever could. Listeners are invited to examine the stories they continue to repeat and consider whether those narratives are supporting the life they want to create or keeping them stuck in old patterns. This episode is a reminder that changing your life begins with changing the story you believe about yourself. Marsha Vanwynsberghe — NLP Storytelling Trainer, OUTSPOKEN NLP Coaching Certification, Author, Speaker, and Podcaster OUTSPOKEN August Cohort: https://www.marshavanw.com/nlp [https://www.marshavanw.com/nlp] UNBOTHERED Mastermind: https://www.marshavanw.com/offers/w8WVE3Pa [https://www.marshavanw.com/offers/w8WVE3Pa] Write Your Damn Book Program: https://www.marshavanw.com/writenow [https://www.marshavanw.com/writenow] OUTSPOKEN Publishing: https://www.outspokenpublishing.com [https://www.outspokenpublishing.com] Tickets for Heart-Wired CEO Live https://www.heart-wiredceo.com/live [https://www.heart-wiredceo.com/live] Unbothered Mind Private Podcast https://www.marshavanw.com/unbotheredmindpodcast [https://www.marshavanw.com/unbotheredmindpodcast] Unbothered Entrepreneur Masterclass (for the Podcast Listeners): https://www.marshavanw.com/unbothered-entrepreneur-masterclass-podcast [https://www.marshavanw.com/unbothered-entrepreneur-masterclass-podcast] Download “You Are Supported” Hypnosis and Subliminal Bundle HERE [https://www.marshavanw.com/youaresupportedbundle] Join the next cohort of OUTSPOKEN NLP Coaching Certification (kick-off in January 2026, in person or virtual) HERE [https://www.marshavanw.com/outspokenNLP2025INPERSON] The Stories We Tell Ourselves Digital Program August Promo Save $333 HERE. [https://www.marshavanw.com/offers/RNFetUdr?coupon_code=SWTO333] Tap the “Follow” button never to miss a show, and if you love the show, please feel free to tag me on social media, share it with a friend, or leave me a rating and review. This really helps the show grow! Website: www.marshavanw.com [http://www.marshavanw.com] Connect on IG, click HERE [https://www.instagram.com/marshavanw] Subscribe on YouTube, click HERE [https://youtube.com/@marshavanw?si=TF7_li0ciJRBuycH]

1025 | The Story You Tell Yourself Is Running Your Business

In this episode, Marsha explores the powerful role that personal narratives and subconscious beliefs play in shaping both identity and entrepreneurial success. She discusses how the stories individuals tell themselves influence their confidence, decision-making, visibility, and, ultimately, the results they achieve in their businesses and lives. Through the lens of a transformational client story, Marsha shares how a dramatic shift in self-perception and belief can completely change what someone believes is possible for themselves. She highlights how many entrepreneurs unknowingly operate from limiting internal stories that keep them playing small, questioning their value, or resisting expansion, even when they deeply desire more success and impact. Marsha encourages listeners to become aware of the subconscious narratives running beneath their actions and to examine whether those stories align with the future they are trying to create. She emphasizes that sustainable growth begins internally, through identity shifts, emotional regulation, and expanding the vision of what is truly possible. Ultimately, this episode serves as a reminder that transformation begins the moment individuals stop repeating old stories and begin embodying the identity of the person capable of holding the success they desire. Marsha Vanwynsberghe — NLP Storytelling Trainer, OUTSPOKEN NLP Coaching Certification, Author, Speaker, and Podcaster OUTSPOKEN August Cohort: https://www.marshavanw.com/nlp [https://www.marshavanw.com/nlp] UNBOTHERED Mastermind: https://www.marshavanw.com/offers/w8WVE3Pa [https://www.marshavanw.com/offers/w8WVE3Pa] Write Your Damn Book Program: https://www.marshavanw.com/writenow [https://www.marshavanw.com/writenow] OUTSPOKEN Publishing: https://www.outspokenpublishing.com [https://www.outspokenpublishing.com] Tickets for Heart-Wired CEO Live https://www.heart-wiredceo.com/live [https://www.heart-wiredceo.com/live] Unbothered Mind Private Podcast https://www.marshavanw.com/unbotheredmindpodcast [https://www.marshavanw.com/unbotheredmindpodcast] Unbothered Entrepreneur Masterclass (for the Podcast Listeners): https://www.marshavanw.com/unbothered-entrepreneur-masterclass-podcast [https://www.marshavanw.com/unbothered-entrepreneur-masterclass-podcast] Download “You Are Supported” Hypnosis and Subliminal Bundle HERE [https://www.marshavanw.com/youaresupportedbundle] Join the next cohort of OUTSPOKEN NLP Coaching Certification (kick-off in January 2026, in person or virtual) HERE [https://www.marshavanw.com/outspokenNLP2025INPERSON] The Stories We Tell Ourselves Digital Program August Promo Save $333 HERE. [https://www.marshavanw.com/offers/RNFetUdr?coupon_code=SWTO333] Tap the “Follow” button never to miss a show, and if you love the show, please feel free to tag me on social media, share it with a friend, or leave me a rating and review. This really helps the show grow! Website: www.marshavanw.com [http://www.marshavanw.com] Connect on IG, click HERE [https://www.instagram.com/marshavanw] Subscribe on YouTube, click HERE [https://youtube.com/@marshavanw?si=TF7_li0ciJRBuycH]

1024 | Choosing Who I Want to Be in the Face of Uncertainty with Carly Carey

In this episode, Marsha speaks with Carly Carey. Carly is a real estate Team Leader and speaker based on Vancouver Island, known for her ability to build meaningful relationships and create experiences rooted in care and connection. After being diagnosed with a rare and aggressive cancer while travelling in Japan on her birthday, Carly’s life took an unexpected turn. What followed was a period of uncertainty, delayed treatment, and deep reflection that reshaped how she chose to live. Out of that experience, Carly co-created Carly’s House with her husband, a home they are renovating to offer comfort and support to cancer patients receiving treatment in their community. What began as a personal challenge has become a way to give back and create something meaningful for others walking a similar path. Through her work and her story, Carly speaks to the power of choice in the face of the unknown and what it means to build a life that is not only successful but deeply aligned and impactful. Chapters: [13:21] Carly's Life-Changing Diagnosis [14:54] The Diagnosis and Its Impact [28:20] Creating Carly's House: A Vision for Cancer Patients [46:07] Finding Clarity in Crisis: The Power of Choice Connect with Carly: Podcast Guest Website: https://www.carlycarey.com [https://www.carlycarey.com] Carly’s House Blog: https://www.carlycarey.com/blog/carlys-house.html [https://www.carlycarey.com/blog/carlys-house.html] Podcast Guest’s Email: carly@carlycarey.com [carly@carlycarey.com] IG: https://www.instagram.com/carlycareyrealestate/ [https://www.instagram.com/carlycareyrealestate/] TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@carlycareyrealestate?_r=1&_t=ZS-95BKybNcouQ [https://www.tiktok.com/@carlycareyrealestate?_r=1&_t=ZS-95BKybNcouQ] Marsha Vanwynsberghe — NLP Storytelling Trainer, OUTSPOKEN NLP Coaching Certification, Author, Speaker, and Podcaster OUTSPOKEN August Cohort: https://www.marshavanw.com/nlp [https://www.marshavanw.com/nlp] UNBOTHERED Mastermind: https://www.marshavanw.com/offers/w8WVE3Pa [https://www.marshavanw.com/offers/w8WVE3Pa] Write Your Damn Book Program: https://www.marshavanw.com/writenow [https://www.marshavanw.com/writenow] OUTSPOKEN Publishing: https://www.outspokenpublishing.com [https://www.outspokenpublishing.com] Tickets for Heart-Wired CEO Live https://www.heart-wiredceo.com/live [https://www.heart-wiredceo.com/live] Download FREE “You Are Supported” Hypnosis and Subliminal Bundle HERE [https://www.marshavanw.com/youaresupportedbundle] Tap the “Follow” button never to miss a show, and if you love the show, please feel free to tag me on social media, share it with a friend, or leave me a rating and review. This helps the show grow! Website: www.marshavanw.com [http://www.marshavanw.com] Connect on IG. Click HERE [https://www.instagram.com/marshavanw] Subscribe on YouTube. Click HERE [https://youtube.com/@marshavanw?si=TF7_li0ciJRBuycH]

1023 | You Cannot Outdo Who You Are Being

In this episode, Marsha explores the powerful connection between identity and personal transformation, emphasizing the truth that you cannot outperform the identity you currently hold about yourself. She dives into the gap that often exists between who people say they want to become and the version of themselves their subconscious mind still believes they are. Marsha unpacks how many individuals pursue new levels of success, visibility, leadership, or growth while unconsciously holding onto outdated beliefs, stories, and self-perceptions that no longer align with their future vision. She explains how this internal conflict can create resistance, self-sabotage, and emotional exhaustion, even when the right strategies and actions are in place. Throughout the episode, Marsha highlights the importance of identity work, emotional regulation, support, and repetition in creating lasting change. She encourages listeners to reflect on the stories they continue to rehearse internally and on whether their current identity truly matches the future they desire to create. Chapters: [01:08] - Identity Work and Personal Growth [03:56] - Understanding Identity and Support in Business Growth [08:35] - Identity Transformation and Rewiring [09:38] - Understanding Identity and Transformation [11:31] - Shifting Identity and Personal Growth Marsha Vanwynsberghe — NLP Storytelling Trainer, OUTSPOKEN NLP Coaching Certification, Author, Speaker, and Podcaster OUTSPOKEN August Cohort: https://www.marshavanw.com/nlp [https://www.marshavanw.com/nlp] UNBOTHERED Mastermind: https://www.marshavanw.com/offers/w8WVE3Pa [https://www.marshavanw.com/offers/w8WVE3Pa] Write Your Damn Book Program: https://www.marshavanw.com/writenow [https://www.marshavanw.com/writenow] OUTSPOKEN Publishing: https://www.outspokenpublishing.com [https://www.outspokenpublishing.com] Tickets for Heart-Wired CEO Live https://www.heart-wiredceo.com/live [https://www.heart-wiredceo.com/live] Unbothered Mind Private Podcast https://www.marshavanw.com/unbotheredmindpodcast [https://www.marshavanw.com/unbotheredmindpodcast] Unbothered Entrepreneur Masterclass (for the Podcast Listeners): https://www.marshavanw.com/unbothered-entrepreneur-masterclass-podcast [https://www.marshavanw.com/unbothered-entrepreneur-masterclass-podcast] Download “You Are Supported” Hypnosis and Subliminal Bundle HERE [https://www.marshavanw.com/youaresupportedbundle] Join the next cohort of OUTSPOKEN NLP Coaching Certification (kick-off in January 2026, in person or virtual) HERE [https://www.marshavanw.com/outspokenNLP2025INPERSON] The Stories We Tell Ourselves Digital Program August Promo Save $333 HERE. [https://www.marshavanw.com/offers/RNFetUdr?coupon_code=SWTO333] Tap the “Follow” button never to miss a show, and if you love the show, please feel free to tag me on social media, share it with a friend, or leave me a rating and review. This really helps the show grow! Website: www.marshavanw.com [http://www.marshavanw.com] Connect on IG, click HERE [https://www.instagram.com/marshavanw] Subscribe on YouTube, click HERE [https://youtube.com/@marshavanw?si=TF7_li0ciJRBuycH]

1022 | The Journey Beyond 1000 Podcasts

This episode is a reminder that your vision does not have to make sense to everyone else for it to matter. Marsha reflects on the milestone of recording over 1,000 podcast episodes — a feat achieved by only a small percentage of podcasters — and shares the importance of consistency, commitment, and believing in your message even when others do not fully understand it. Through personal reflection, she encourages listeners to stop seeking external validation and instead stay connected to the deeper reason behind what they create. This episode is about trusting your path, honouring your vision, and continuing to show up for what matters to you. Chapters: [02:00] - The Journey of Podcasting: Insights and Reflections [04:04] - The Importance of Sharing Your Voice [05:34] - Legacy of Unspoken Stories [08:08] - Embracing Change: The Journey of Transitioning Programs [10:11] - Embracing Your Journey Marsha Vanwynsberghe — NLP Storytelling Trainer, OUTSPOKEN NLP Coaching Certification, Author, Speaker, and Podcaster OUTSPOKEN August Cohort: https://www.marshavanw.com/nlp [https://www.marshavanw.com/nlp] UNBOTHERED Mastermind: https://www.marshavanw.com/offers/w8WVE3Pa [https://www.marshavanw.com/offers/w8WVE3Pa] Write Your Damn Book Program: https://www.marshavanw.com/writenow [https://www.marshavanw.com/writenow] OUTSPOKEN Publishing: https://www.outspokenpublishing.com [https://www.outspokenpublishing.com] Tickets for Heart-Wired CEO Live https://www.heart-wiredceo.com/live [https://www.heart-wiredceo.com/live] Unbothered Mind Private Podcast https://www.marshavanw.com/unbotheredmindpodcast [https://www.marshavanw.com/unbotheredmindpodcast] Unbothered Entrepreneur Masterclass (for the Podcast Listeners): https://www.marshavanw.com/unbothered-entrepreneur-masterclass-podcast [https://www.marshavanw.com/unbothered-entrepreneur-masterclass-podcast] Download “You Are Supported” Hypnosis and Subliminal Bundle HERE [https://www.marshavanw.com/youaresupportedbundle] Join the next cohort of OUTSPOKEN NLP Coaching Certification (kick-off in January 2026, in person or virtual) HERE [https://www.marshavanw.com/outspokenNLP2025INPERSON] The Stories We Tell Ourselves Digital Program August Promo Save $333 HERE. [https://www.marshavanw.com/offers/RNFetUdr?coupon_code=SWTO333] Tap the “Follow” button never to miss a show, and if you love the show, please feel free to tag me on social media, share it with a friend, or leave me a rating and review. This really helps the show grow! Website: www.marshavanw.com [http://www.marshavanw.com] Connect on IG, click HERE [https://www.instagram.com/marshavanw] Subscribe on YouTube, click HERE [https://youtube.com/@marshavanw?si=TF7_li0ciJRBuycH]