003 - Hacking Your LOOKING at Porn

PH007 - Hacking Your Story, Pt.1

Jeff of PurityCoaching.com talks about the importance of your recovery story. You have Deliverance stories and you have Work In Progress stories. He talks about the difference between the two. jeff@puritycoaching.com

PH5 - Hacking Your Travel Struggles

Jeff Fisher of puritycoaching.com shares tips on how to travel and be successful in your purity journey. Practical tips. Straight truth. No fat. jeff@puritycoaching.com

04 - Hacking Your Longing for Porn (heart)

On the last podcast we talked about our Porn looking behaviors.  Today we go deeper.  Our porn looking is driven by our porn longings.  And really, our longings are not for porn at all, but for much deeper things. Here are the key points from the podcast.  Use these to help reflect an evaluate what's really going on underneath the surface. Porn means something to you. How does it make you feel?  (before, during, climax, after) What are you in need of? Jesus wants to inhabit those places The spiritual battle for your heart is huge. The sin / flesh battle is huge.  Your power is not enough.  Your solo devotion to Jesus is not enough.  You need "one another". What alarms are going off inside you?  Not just an attraction to nudity or sexual things.  The visuals are triggers that set off something deeper inside you. Intro / Outro Music:  “Energy Treatment” OurMusicBox.com Podcast Music: “Shift" Hypp Fractal -  FreeMusicArchive.org

003 - Hacking Your LOOKING at Porn

Why do you look at PORN? Why can't you stop when you want to? Why can't you stop your bad behaviors? 1. Your habit grew over time 2. Lots of physical things are happening in your brain and with your body.  Things that you like. 3. It feels good.  The brain chemicals. 4. You have influences in your past that have shocked you, pushed you and nudged you in this direction. 5. Key people in your life have encouraged you in the porn direction. 6. You have key "milestone" experiences in your past that you look back on as building blocks. 7. Your environment encourages you to access and look at porn. 8. You keep secrets.  You cover up, hide, lie, and deceive others in order to keep your secret. 9. You have no defenses. 10. You have no accountability. 11. You have no self-discipline. 12. You have no boundaries (rules, guidelines) Jeff@puritycoaching.com Intro / Outro Music:  “Energy Treatment” OurMusicBox.com Podcast Music: “Shift" Hypp Fractal -  FreeMusicArchive.org

002 - Hacking Your Need For a Teacher

WHY DO YOU NEED A TEACHER? You lack experience You lack knowledge Your thinking is immature You have blind spots / self-deception You need a safe person / place to practice winning and failing with You need someone to challenge you WHERE TO FIND GOOD TEACHERS – TOP AWESOME 3 – GO FOR THESE Purity ministry leaders Sexual addiction support groups and leaders Counselors that understand sexual addiction WHERE TO FIND GOOD TEACHERS – HIT OR MISS – BE CAREFUL WITH THESE Ministers Wise friends around you Best friends| WHERE TO FIND GOOD TEACHERS – BOTTOM 3 – NOT YOUR TEACHERS Spouse General friends Books / videos / podcasts KEY CORE REALIZATIONS You have to say “yes” to your need for a teacher You have to say “yes” to making first contact You have to say “yes” to continuing to reach out; persevere until you find the right teacher You have to say “yes” until you find the teacher with the right chemistry for you Jeff@puritycoaching.com Intro / Outro Music: “Energy Treatment” OurMusicBox