Is My Child’s Behavior Normal? Signs You Should Consider Therapy

The Signs of Adult ADHD Most people Miss (It's Not What You Think)

Many adults spend years believing they're lazy, forgetful, unmotivated, or simply "not disciplined enough"—when the real issue may be undiagnosed ADHD. In this episode of Real Life Counseling, David Morillo sits down with licensed clinical social worker Dr. Ernie to unpack what adult ADHD really looks like beyond the common stereotypes. Together they explore inattentive ADHD, emotional regulation, executive functioning, procrastination, shame, relationships, parenting, and why so many adults aren't diagnosed until later in life. Whether you've been diagnosed with ADHD, suspect you might have it, or love someone who struggles with attention and executive functioning, this conversation offers practical insight, compassion, and hope. You'll also hear why ADHD isn't a character flaw, how treatment can transform quality of life, and how couples and families can better understand one another. If you've ever wondered whether your struggles are something more than forgetfulness or lack of motivation, this episode is an encouraging place to begin. Key Takeaways * What adult ADHD actually is—and what it isn't * The difference between inattentive, hyperactive, and combined ADHD * Common signs that adults often overlook * Why ADHD is frequently mistaken for laziness or poor discipline * How executive functioning affects everyday life * The emotional impact of years of shame and self-criticism * How ADHD influences marriages and long-term relationships * Practical ways couples can better understand ADHD * The role ADHD plays in parenting and family dynamics * Why diagnosis and treatment can dramatically improve quality of life REAL LIFE COUNSELING — LISTEN NOW Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4oUv25gP3n01Gtf3xpoBjU?si=6d3092fff5794b8d [https://open.spotify.com/show/4oUv25gP3n01Gtf3xpoBjU?si=6d3092fff5794b8d] Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/4ohRxq2 [https://apple.co/4ohRxq2] YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheCounselingCornerFL [https://www.youtube.com/@TheCounselingCornerFL] THE COUNSELING CORNER — CONTACT US Website: www.counselingcorner.net [http://www.counselingcorner.net] Phone: 407-843-4968 Email: info@counselingcorner.net Address: 1631 Hillcrest St., Orlando, FL 32803 FOLLOW US: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/counselingcornerorlando/ [https://www.instagram.com/counselingcornerorlando/] Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/1631CounselingCorner [https://www.facebook.com/1631CounselingCorner] Meet Our Counselors:  Dr. Ernie Reilly, LCSW [https://www.counselingcorner.net/findyourcounselor/ernie-reilly] Dr. Judi Allen, LCSW [https://www.counselingcorner.net/findyourcounselor/judith-allen] Andreina Bellow, LMHC [https://www.counselingcorner.net/findyourcounselor/andreina-bello] Amanda Riendeau, LMHC [https://www.counselingcorner.net/findyourcounselor/amanda-riendeau] Michael Bombka, LMHC [https://www.counselingcorner.net/findyourcounselor/michael-bombka] Michelle Buchanan, LMHC [https://www.counselingcorner.net/findyourcounselor/michelle-buchanan] Walter Echols, LCSW [https://www.counselingcorner.net/findyourcounselor/walter-echols] George Allmaras, LMHC [https://www.counselingcorner.net/findyourcounselor/george-allmaras] Alejandra Rios, MA, RMHCI [https://www.counselingcorner.net/findyourcounselor/alejandra-rios]

How Trauma Therapy Helps Children Heal — And What It Looks Like in Real Life

In this episode of Real Life Counseling, Ryan is joined by Dr. Ernie Reilly, LCSW [/findyourcounselor/ernie-reilly], Amanda Riendeau, LMHC [/findyourcounselor/amanda-riendeau], and Andreina Bello, LMHC [/findyourcounselor/andreina-bello] from The Counseling Corner to talk about childhood trauma, how it can show up in children, and how child trauma therapy [/services/children/trauma-therapy] can help kids begin to heal. Many parents hear the word trauma and think only of major catastrophic events, but trauma in children can also come from experiences like divorce, conflict at home, bullying, grief, medical experiences, abuse or neglect, instability, natural disasters, or other overwhelming situations. For children, trauma often shows up through behavior before it shows up in words. A child may become angry, defiant, clingy, fearful, withdrawn, regressive, or suddenly overwhelmed by things that seem small from an adult perspective. The conversation explains how therapy for childhood trauma [/services/children/trauma-therapy] is different from therapy for adults. Children may not be ready or able to talk directly about what happened, so therapists often use play, art, connection, emotional safety, and gentle observation to help children process painful experiences in a way their nervous system can handle. The goal is not to force children to relive trauma, but to help them feel safe, supported, understood, and gradually more in control. Parents will also hear practical ways to support healing at home, including creating predictable routines, staying calm during big emotions, acknowledging what the child is feeling, and avoiding the urge to minimize or rush past the child’s experience. Key Takeaways: * Childhood trauma is not only about what happened; it is about how the child experienced and processed what happened. * Children often communicate trauma through behavior, body language, play, emotions, sleep changes, clinginess, anger, regression, or withdrawal. * Two children can experience the same event and respond very differently based on age, development, temperament, support systems, and prior experiences. * Child trauma therapy often looks different from adult trauma therapy because children process through play, connection, safety, and emotional regulation more than direct verbal processing. * A child does not need to repeatedly retell a painful story for therapy to be effective. * Talking about trauma does not automatically make it worse when it is done safely, gently, and at the child’s pace. * Kids are resilient, but resilience does not mean they should have to “just bounce back” without support. * Healing at home begins with emotional and physical safety, predictable routines, calm parenting, and helping children feel seen rather than managed. * Parents should avoid minimizing a child’s experience with phrases like “you’re fine” or “it wasn’t that big of a deal.” Therapy for childhood trauma can help children regain a sense of safety, control, and connection after overwhelming experiences. REAL LIFE COUNSELING — LISTEN NOWSpotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4oUv25gP3n01Gtf3xpoBjU?si=6d3092fff5794b8d [https://open.spotify.com/show/4oUv25gP3n01Gtf3xpoBjU?si=6d3092fff5794b8d] Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/4ohRxq2 [https://apple.co/4ohRxq2] YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheCounselingCornerFL [https://www.youtube.com/@TheCounselingCornerFL] THE COUNSELING CORNER — ⁠CONTACT US [/contact-us] Website: www.counselingcorner.net [http://www.counselingcorner.net] Phone: 407-843-4968 [tel:4078434968] Email: info@counselingcorner.net [info@counselingcorner.net] Address: 1631 Hillcrest St., Orlando, FL 32803 [/locations/orlando-office] FOLLOW US:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/counselingcornerorlando/ [https://www.instagram.com/counselingcornerorlando/] Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/1631CounselingCorner [https://www.facebook.com/1631CounselingCorner] Meet Our Counselors: Dr. Ernie Reilly, LCSW [https://www.counselingcorner.net/findyourcounselor/ernie-reilly] Dr. Judi Allen, LCSW [https://www.counselingcorner.net/findyourcounselor/judith-allen] Andreina Bellow, LMHC [https://www.counselingcorner.net/findyourcounselor/andreina-bello] Amanda Riendeau, LMHC [https://www.counselingcorner.net/findyourcounselor/amanda-riendeau] Michael Bombka, LMHC [https://www.counselingcorner.net/findyourcounselor/michael-bombka] Michelle Buchanan, LMHC [https://www.counselingcorner.net/findyourcounselor/michelle-buchanan] Walter Echols, LCSW [https://www.counselingcorner.net/findyourcounselor/walter-echols] George Allmaras, LMHC [https://www.counselingcorner.net/findyourcounselor/george-allmaras] Alejandra Rios, MA, RMHCI [https://www.counselingcorner.net/findyourcounselor/alejandra-rios]

Is My Child’s Behavior Normal? Signs You Should Consider Therapy

In this episode of Real Life Counseling, Ryan talks with Dr. Ernie Reilly, LCSW, Amanda Riendeau, LMHC and Andreina Bello, LMHC from The Counseling Corner [www.counselingcorner.net] about a question many parents ask: Is my child’s behavior normal, or is it a sign they may need therapy? The conversation explores common concerns like big meltdowns, clinginess, stomach aches before school, sudden withdrawal, emotional outbursts, bedwetting, panic, perfectionism, and behavior changes after stressful events. The team explains how parents can use five practical filters — frequency, intensity, duration, daily functioning, and change from baseline — to better understand what their child’s behavior may be communicating. This episode also gives parents a clear look at what child therapy, play therapy, and therapy for kids can actually look like. Rather than being a punishment or a sign that something is “wrong,” therapy can give children a safe, age-appropriate way to express feelings through conversation, play, art, movement, and connection. Key Takeaways: * Not all child behavior is a problem to fix; sometimes behavior is a signal to understand. * Parents should compare a child’s behavior to that child’s normal baseline, not to siblings or other kids. * The five helpful filters are frequency, intensity, duration, functioning, and change from baseline. * Physical symptoms like stomach aches or headaches before school can sometimes point to stress or anxiety. * Long tantrums, major behavior shifts, panic symptoms, or changes that affect school, sleep, eating, friendships, or home life may be worth exploring with a therapist. * Child therapy often involves both the parent and child, especially in the first session. * Play therapy helps kids communicate feelings they may not have the words to explain yet. * Therapy for kids is not punishment; it is support for the child and the family. * Parents can start by connecting before correcting and getting curious about what the behavior may be saying. REAL LIFE COUNSELING — LISTEN NOW Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4oUv25gP3n01Gtf3xpoBjU?si=6d3092fff5794b8d [https://open.spotify.com/show/4oUv25gP3n01Gtf3xpoBjU?si=6d3092fff5794b8d] Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/4ohRxq2 [https://apple.co/4ohRxq2] YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheCounselingCornerFL [https://www.youtube.com/@TheCounselingCornerFL] THE COUNSELING CORNER — CONTACT US Website: www.counselingcorner.net [http://www.counselingcorner.net] Phone: 407-843-4968 Email: info@counselingcorner.net Address: 1631 Hillcrest St., Orlando, FL 32803 FOLLOW US: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/counselingcornerorlando/ [https://www.instagram.com/counselingcornerorlando/] Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/1631CounselingCorner [https://www.facebook.com/1631CounselingCorner] Meet Our Counselors:  Dr. Ernie Reilly, LCSW [https://www.counselingcorner.net/findyourcounselor/ernie-reilly] Dr. Judi Allen, LCSW [https://www.counselingcorner.net/findyourcounselor/judith-allen] Andreina Bellow, LMHC [https://www.counselingcorner.net/findyourcounselor/andreina-bello] Amanda Riendeau, LMHC [https://www.counselingcorner.net/findyourcounselor/amanda-riendeau] Michael Bombka, LMHC [https://www.counselingcorner.net/findyourcounselor/michael-bombka] Michelle Buchanan, LMHC [https://www.counselingcorner.net/findyourcounselor/michelle-buchanan] Walter Echols, LCSW [https://www.counselingcorner.net/findyourcounselor/walter-echols] George Allmaras, LMHC [https://www.counselingcorner.net/findyourcounselor/george-allmaras] Alejandra Rios, MA, RMHCI [https://www.counselingcorner.net/findyourcounselor/alejandra-rios]

Adult Depression in Real Life: The Hidden Forms No One Talks About

Depression does not always look like sadness. In this episode, Ryan Simpson is joined by Dr. Ernie Reilly, LCSW Dr. Judi Allen, LCSW, and Ale Rios, RMHCI to explore the hidden forms of adult depression, including high-functioning depression, irritability, numbness, burnout confusion, and achievement-driven depression. They discuss how depression can show up even when someone is still working, parenting, and getting things done, and what depression counseling can actually do to help. If you have ever wondered whether what you are feeling is “just life” or something more, this conversation offers clarity, compassion, and practical next steps.Key Takeaways * Depression can be present even when someone is still functioning, working, parenting, and checking all the boxes. * High-functioning depression often hides behind productivity, responsibility, and outward competence. * Depression does not always look like sadness. It can also look like irritability, numbness, exhaustion, disconnection, and loss of interest. * One helpful way to distinguish burnout from depression is whether rest and a change of pace actually improve how you feel. * Numbness can be a protective response, but when it becomes chronic, it may be a sign that something deeper is going on. * Achievement-driven depression can develop when a person’s worth becomes tied to performance, output, or external success. * Depression often attacks motivation first, making even simple tasks feel heavier and harder than they should. * Therapy can help even if you do not know exactly why you feel the way you do. * Counseling is not just “talking about feelings.” It can include practical tools, thought patterns, behavior activation, self-care work, and evidence-based approaches like CBT and somatic therapy. * Small internal shifts matter, including talking to yourself with more compassion, separating your worth from your productivity, and asking “What am I responding to?” instead of “What’s wrong with me?” THE COUNSELING CORNER — CONTACT US Website: www.counselingcorner.net [http://www.counselingcorner.net] Phone: 407-843-4968 Email: info@counselingcorner.net Address: 1631 Hillcrest St., Orlando, FL 32803 FOLLOW US: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/counselingcornerorlando/ [https://www.instagram.com/counselingcornerorlando/] Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/1631CounselingCorner [https://www.facebook.com/1631CounselingCorner] Meet Our Counselors:  Dr. Ernie Reilly, LCSW [https://www.counselingcorner.net/findyourcounselor/ernie-reilly] Dr. Judi Allen, LCSW [https://www.counselingcorner.net/findyourcounselor/judith-allen] Andreina Bellow, LMHC [https://www.counselingcorner.net/findyourcounselor/andreina-bello] Amanda Riendeau, LMHC [https://www.counselingcorner.net/findyourcounselor/amanda-riendeau] Michael Bombka, LMHC [https://www.counselingcorner.net/findyourcounselor/michael-bombka] Michelle Buchanan, LMHC [https://www.counselingcorner.net/findyourcounselor/michelle-buchanan] Walter Echols, LCSW [https://www.counselingcorner.net/findyourcounselor/walter-echols] George Allmaras, LMHC [https://www.counselingcorner.net/findyourcounselor/george-allmaras] Alejandra Rios, MA, RMHCI [https://www.counselingcorner.net/findyourcounselor/alejandra-rios]

Somatic Therapy — Why Healing Can Involve the Body

Somatic therapy [https://www.counselingcorner.net/services/trauma-therapy/mindfulness-and-somatic-therapies] is everywhere right now—but what does it actually mean? Is it just deep breathing, stretching, yoga, or mindfulness? In this eye-opening episode, the counselors at The Counseling Corner break down what somatic therapy really is and why healing sometimes has to involve more than just talking. If you’ve ever felt stress in your shoulders, anxiety in your stomach, or found yourself shutting down in conflict without knowing why, this conversation will help you understand what your body may be trying to say. Join Dr. Ernie Reilly, LCSW, Dr. Judi Allen, LCSW, and Ale Rios, RMHCI as they explore the deep connection between the mind, body, and nervous system. Together, they explain how somatic therapy helps people become aware of physical sensations, process what’s happening internally, and move toward healing in the present moment. Whether someone is dealing with trauma, anxiety, chronic stress, burnout, or simply feels stuck, this episode reveals why body-based therapy can be such a powerful part of the healing process. You’ll discover: -Why somatic therapy is more than yoga, exercise, or breathing apps. -How the body can carry stress, trauma, and emotional experiences even when the mind understands them. -What fight, flight, and freeze responses can look like in everyday life—from sleepless nights to shutting down during conflict. -Why some people talk about their pain for years and still feel stuck. -How somatic therapy and talk therapy work together rather than compete. -Simple ways to begin practicing somatic awareness, grounding, and intentional movement this week. In a world that trains people to stay busy, override their bodies, and push through stress, what happens when the nervous system never gets a chance to reset? This episode invites listeners to slow down, tune in, and recognize that the body is not the enemy—it may actually hold some of the clearest clues for healing. Sometimes growth begins not by thinking harder, but by listening more closely. Perfect for anyone navigating trauma, anxiety, emotional shutdown, chronic stress, or burnout—as well as caregivers, therapists, and anyone curious about body-based healing. If you’ve ever thought, “I’ve talked about this for years and still don’t feel better,” this episode may help explain why. Healing is not just about understanding your story. It is also about helping your body learn that it is finally safe. This episode is a practical, compassionate introduction to somatic therapy—and an invitation to reconnect the mind and body in a way that supports real life healing. THE COUNSELING CORNER — CONTACT US Website: www.counselingcorner.net [http://www.counselingcorner.net] Phone: 407-843-4968 Email: info@counselingcorner.net Address: 1631 Hillcrest St., Orlando, FL 32803 FOLLOW US: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/counselingcornerorlando/ [https://www.instagram.com/counselingcornerorlando/] Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/1631CounselingCorner [https://www.facebook.com/1631CounselingCorner] Meet Our Counselors:  Dr. Ernie Reilly, LCSW [https://www.counselingcorner.net/findyourcounselor/ernie-reilly] Dr. Judi Allen, LCSW [https://www.counselingcorner.net/findyourcounselor/judith-allen] Andreina Bellow, LMHC [https://www.counselingcorner.net/findyourcounselor/andreina-bello] Amanda Riendeau, LMHC [https://www.counselingcorner.net/findyourcounselor/amanda-riendeau] Michael Bombka, LMHC [https://www.counselingcorner.net/findyourcounselor/michael-bombka] Michelle Buchanan, LMHC [https://www.counselingcorner.net/findyourcounselor/michelle-buchanan] Walter Echols, LCSW [https://www.counselingcorner.net/findyourcounselor/walter-echols] George Allmaras, LMHC [https://www.counselingcorner.net/findyourcounselor/george-allmaras] Alejandra Rios, MA, RMHCI [https://www.counselingcorner.net/findyourcounselor/alejandra-rios]