The Truth About Female Pleasure

The Truth About Female Pleasure

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2558379/fan_mail/new] Most people were never taught what actually creates female pleasure. In this episode of Rewired and Desired, we have an honest conversation about why many women lose interest in intimacy, why penetration is often treated as the goal, and what actually creates connection, desire, and pleasure. As an intimacy coach working with people after illness, disability, and body-altering surgery, Trina hears the same fears over and over from both men and women. Nicole shares how her own health journey changed the way she thinks about intimacy, while together we explore emotional connection, communication, body confidence, foreplay, pelvic health, erectile dysfunction, aging, and why great intimacy is about far more than performance. Whether you're navigating disability, long-term relationships, menopause, pelvic pain, erectile dysfunction, or simply want a healthier perspective on intimacy, this conversation offers practical ideas without shame or unrealistic expectations. 📌 Connect With Us Trina Ricketts – The Intimate Ostomate Website: intimateostomate.com Instagram:   / intimateostomate  [https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqbXFJZE41ZkdrTWl2TEI3ZElXN0tVMlJ6T1FzQXxBQ3Jtc0trZTZ2VUNRWEFSZ05vSXV2XzZNQ19xRDAtWGFuYU85NWlsUDhxY3NOQnhKanpaSWcxd2hzckg1eEpKLTBkbUJwYmlKSzg1ZnV4MzdPOVVhLXZpaWpzUUxxTldXT0lnSlg1U1YxVmFoV1BBVHlnOXhydw&q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.instagram.com%2Fintimateostomate&v=xZFnQwGQ5eg] Youtube:    / @intimateostomate  [https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCTbk5Rh7YxySmV6G4fd6l6A] Books, guides, coaching & resources Coaching • Books / Guides • Resources • Intimacy Advocacy Nicole Richards - Ostomy Innovations Website: ostomyinnovations222.com Instagram:   / ostomyinnovations  [https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqbjNSWDNPN0lXMUpvaUg0R0Y2bXVxRWYzYXoxQXxBQ3Jtc0tuS2trQ0dSMmNPVS1PX3JkZEJ4ekF5aVFHQjB0dzFKZldJR3pKZ2FibThvUFNiczV4OXA2dUZlMVNvMGM4WTJld2tkZV91czhVbVBVNVJfS21QUnJiNTBiakxJVllYaE1rRk8tR1NBczhLS0FDelBmdw&q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.instagram.com%2Fostomyinnovations%2F&v=xZFnQwGQ5eg] Youtube:    / @ostomyinnovations222  [https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC1tE419n85ZG37bfXfElzHQ] Coaching • Wellness • Disability advocacy • Ostomy Clothing

Why Intimacy Matters After Illness, Disability & Ostomy

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2558379/fan_mail/new] What happens when illness, disability, and heartbreak completely change your relationship with intimacy? In this episode, we share the deeply personal experiences that led us to dedicate our lives to helping people rebuild confidence, connection, and intimacy after body-altering surgery. People often ask why we're so passionate about intimacy. The truth is... neither of us planned to build careers around it. Nicole's journey began after her ostomy surgery, when she struggled to find products that helped her feel confident during intimacy. That experience eventually led her to create innovative ostomy garments and become a leading advocate in the ostomy community. Trina's path took an entirely different route through chronic illness, years without physical touch, work in the adult entertainment industry, intimacy surrogacy, and eventually coaching people living with disabilities and body-altering surgeries. Together, we discuss: • How our personal experiences shaped our missions  • Why intimacy is about far more than sex  • The hidden impact of touch starvation  • Body confidence after ostomy surgery  • Breaking stigma around disability and intimacy  • Why products alone aren't enough to heal body shame  • The importance of safe communities  • Our vision for creating products and resources that genuinely help people feel confident again Whether you have an ostomy, live with a disability, are recovering from surgery, or simply want a deeper understanding of intimacy and human connection, we hope this conversation reminds you that you are never alone. 📌 Connect With Us Trina Ricketts – The Intimate Ostomate Website: intimateostomate.com Instagram:   / intimateostomate  [https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqbXFJZE41ZkdrTWl2TEI3ZElXN0tVMlJ6T1FzQXxBQ3Jtc0trZTZ2VUNRWEFSZ05vSXV2XzZNQ19xRDAtWGFuYU85NWlsUDhxY3NOQnhKanpaSWcxd2hzckg1eEpKLTBkbUJwYmlKSzg1ZnV4MzdPOVVhLXZpaWpzUUxxTldXT0lnSlg1U1YxVmFoV1BBVHlnOXhydw&q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.instagram.com%2Fintimateostomate&v=xZFnQwGQ5eg] Youtube:    / @intimateostomate  [https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCTbk5Rh7YxySmV6G4fd6l6A] Books, guides, coaching & resources Coaching • Books / Guides • Resources • Intimacy Advocacy Nicole Richards - Ostomy Innovations Website: ostomyinnovations222.com Instagram:   / ostomyinnovations  [https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqbjNSWDNPN0lXMUpvaUg0R0Y2bXVxRWYzYXoxQXxBQ3Jtc0tuS2trQ0dSMmNPVS1PX3JkZEJ4ekF5aVFHQjB0dzFKZldJR3pKZ2FibThvUFNiczV4OXA2dUZlMVNvMGM4WTJld2tkZV91czhVbVBVNVJfS21QUnJiNTBiakxJVllYaE1rRk8tR1NBczhLS0FDelBmdw&q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.instagram.com%2Fostomyinnovations%2F&v=xZFnQwGQ5eg] Youtube:    / @ostomyinnovations222  [https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC1tE419n85ZG37bfXfElzHQ] Coaching • Wellness • Disability advocacy • Ostomy Clothing

Finding Your Identity After Ostomy Surgery

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2558379/fan_mail/new] Many people with disabilities, chronic illness, or life-changing surgeries eventually ask the same question: Who am I now? When your body changes, your career changes, your relationships change, or your abilities change, it can feel like your entire identity disappears. In this episode of Rewired and Desired, we explore how values, character, self-love, and personal growth can help you rebuild a sense of self after major life transitions. Trina shares how losing her health, career, confidence, and even aspects of her identity forced her to confront a deeper question about who she really was. Nicole shares the powerful results of a life-changing exercise: writing her own eulogy and discovering the values she wants to live by. Together, we discuss: ✔️ Identity after disability and chronic illness  ✔️ What happens when life strips away everything familiar  ✔️ The difference between living from emotions versus values  ✔️ Creating a personal constitution for difficult decisions  ✔️ Boundaries, self-respect, and self-love  ✔️ Personal growth after ostomy surgery  ✔️ Spiritual perspectives on healing and transformation  ✔️ Why confidence comes from within, not from appearance  ✔️ Letting go of relationships with love instead of resentment If you've ever wondered who you are after surgery, illness, trauma, or a major life transition, this conversation is for you. 📌 Connect With Us Trina Ricketts – The Intimate Ostomate Website: intimateostomate.com Instagram:   / intimateostomate  [https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqbXFJZE41ZkdrTWl2TEI3ZElXN0tVMlJ6T1FzQXxBQ3Jtc0trZTZ2VUNRWEFSZ05vSXV2XzZNQ19xRDAtWGFuYU85NWlsUDhxY3NOQnhKanpaSWcxd2hzckg1eEpKLTBkbUJwYmlKSzg1ZnV4MzdPOVVhLXZpaWpzUUxxTldXT0lnSlg1U1YxVmFoV1BBVHlnOXhydw&q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.instagram.com%2Fintimateostomate&v=xZFnQwGQ5eg] Youtube:    / @intimateostomate  [https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCTbk5Rh7YxySmV6G4fd6l6A] Books, guides, coaching & resources Coaching • Books / Guides • Resources • Intimacy Advocacy Nicole Richards - Ostomy Innovations Website: ostomyinnovations222.com Instagram:   / ostomyinnovations  [https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqbjNSWDNPN0lXMUpvaUg0R0Y2bXVxRWYzYXoxQXxBQ3Jtc0tuS2trQ0dSMmNPVS1PX3JkZEJ4ekF5aVFHQjB0dzFKZldJR3pKZ2FibThvUFNiczV4OXA2dUZlMVNvMGM4WTJld2tkZV91czhVbVBVNVJfS21QUnJiNTBiakxJVllYaE1rRk8tR1NBczhLS0FDelBmdw&q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.instagram.com%2Fostomyinnovations%2F&v=xZFnQwGQ5eg] Youtube:    / @ostomyinnovations222  [https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC1tE419n85ZG37bfXfElzHQ] Coaching • Wellness • Disability advocacy • Ostomy Clothing

Nobody Warned Me About Pain Medication Withdrawal

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2558379/fan_mail/new] If you've ever been sent home after surgery with pain medication and little guidance, this conversation is for you. In this episode, Nicole and Trina share their personal experiences with post-surgical pain medication, physical dependence, withdrawal, chronic pain, and the emotional toll of trying to get help when medical professionals don't seem to understand what you're experiencing. We discuss the difference between addiction and physical dependence, the shame many patients feel when withdrawal symptoms are misunderstood, and some of the non-medication strategies we've used to manage pain throughout our health journeys. This episode is not medical advice. It's a candid conversation between two people living with chronic illness, disability, surgeries, and ongoing pain who want others to know they're not alone. 📌 Connect With Us Trina Ricketts – The Intimate Ostomate Website: intimateostomate.com Instagram:   / intimateostomate  [https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqbXFJZE41ZkdrTWl2TEI3ZElXN0tVMlJ6T1FzQXxBQ3Jtc0trZTZ2VUNRWEFSZ05vSXV2XzZNQ19xRDAtWGFuYU85NWlsUDhxY3NOQnhKanpaSWcxd2hzckg1eEpKLTBkbUJwYmlKSzg1ZnV4MzdPOVVhLXZpaWpzUUxxTldXT0lnSlg1U1YxVmFoV1BBVHlnOXhydw&q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.instagram.com%2Fintimateostomate&v=xZFnQwGQ5eg] Youtube:    / @intimateostomate  [https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCTbk5Rh7YxySmV6G4fd6l6A] Books, guides, coaching & resources Coaching • Books / Guides • Resources • Intimacy Advocacy Nicole Richards - Ostomy Innovations Website: ostomyinnovations222.com Instagram:   / ostomyinnovations  [https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqbjNSWDNPN0lXMUpvaUg0R0Y2bXVxRWYzYXoxQXxBQ3Jtc0tuS2trQ0dSMmNPVS1PX3JkZEJ4ekF5aVFHQjB0dzFKZldJR3pKZ2FibThvUFNiczV4OXA2dUZlMVNvMGM4WTJld2tkZV91czhVbVBVNVJfS21QUnJiNTBiakxJVllYaE1rRk8tR1NBczhLS0FDelBmdw&q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.instagram.com%2Fostomyinnovations%2F&v=xZFnQwGQ5eg] Youtube:    / @ostomyinnovations222  [https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC1tE419n85ZG37bfXfElzHQ] Coaching • Wellness • Disability advocacy • Ostomy Clothing

Is an Ostomy an Invisible Disability?

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2558379/fan_mail/new] What if the hardest part of disability is that nobody can see it? In this episode, we talk honestly about ostomy life, invisible disability, chronic illness, medical trauma, and the exhausting pressure to prove you are really struggling. Today on Rewired and Desired, Trina Ricketts and Nicole Richards discuss whether having an ostomy can be considered a disability, why the answer is not the same for everyone, and how underlying illness, fatigue, dehydration, pain, leaks, food restrictions, bathroom access, and medical dismissal can deeply affect daily life. We also talk about the emotional side of invisible illness: being told “but you look fine,” being judged for using disability accommodations, being dismissed by doctors, feeling like a burden in relationships, and trying to live your life while managing symptoms other people may never see. This conversation is honest, personal, and a little raw because invisible disability is not always about what the world can see. Sometimes it is about everything you are quietly managing just to get through the day. 📌 Connect With Us Trina Ricketts – The Intimate Ostomate Website: intimateostomate.com Instagram:   / intimateostomate  [https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqbXFJZE41ZkdrTWl2TEI3ZElXN0tVMlJ6T1FzQXxBQ3Jtc0trZTZ2VUNRWEFSZ05vSXV2XzZNQ19xRDAtWGFuYU85NWlsUDhxY3NOQnhKanpaSWcxd2hzckg1eEpKLTBkbUJwYmlKSzg1ZnV4MzdPOVVhLXZpaWpzUUxxTldXT0lnSlg1U1YxVmFoV1BBVHlnOXhydw&q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.instagram.com%2Fintimateostomate&v=xZFnQwGQ5eg] Youtube:    / @intimateostomate  [https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCTbk5Rh7YxySmV6G4fd6l6A] Books, guides, coaching & resources Coaching • Books / Guides • Resources • Intimacy Advocacy Nicole Richards - Ostomy Innovations Website: ostomyinnovations222.com Instagram:   / ostomyinnovations  [https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&redir_token=QUFFLUhqbjNSWDNPN0lXMUpvaUg0R0Y2bXVxRWYzYXoxQXxBQ3Jtc0tuS2trQ0dSMmNPVS1PX3JkZEJ4ekF5aVFHQjB0dzFKZldJR3pKZ2FibThvUFNiczV4OXA2dUZlMVNvMGM4WTJld2tkZV91czhVbVBVNVJfS21QUnJiNTBiakxJVllYaE1rRk8tR1NBczhLS0FDelBmdw&q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.instagram.com%2Fostomyinnovations%2F&v=xZFnQwGQ5eg] Youtube:    / @ostomyinnovations222  [https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC1tE419n85ZG37bfXfElzHQ] Coaching • Wellness • Disability advocacy • Ostomy Clothing