Life On Our Own Terms

Life On Our Own Terms

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2375269/fan_mail/new] We talk about midlife as a coming of age, where we stop apologising and start building a life that fits our needs, our bodies, and our values. We share the parts of ourselves we once hid and how freedom becomes real through honest choices, not perfect circumstances. • Gen X freedom myths and why conditioning still grips us • creating small windows of liberation through planning and commitment • redesigning life yearly through honest self-questioning • rejecting “women of a certain age” and owning menopause openly • reclaiming wildness as energy and leadership rather than performance • living with ADHD and letting suppressed opinions back out • channelling bold truth with wisdom when calling out bias • embracing eccentricity as a way to spot what others miss • using grief and change as prompts to explore new parts of self • dreaming without practicality first and widening what feels possible • learning from money-driven choices that ignore the heart • trusting a soft landing and taking life one step at a time we would love to hear your thoughts on the topics that we are sharing. Send us a comment, ask a question, or suggest a topic. We would love to hear from you

Hay Festival, Cally Beaton and Midlife Reinvention

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2375269/fan_mail/new] We talk through the surge that hits in midlife when we stop shrinking ourselves and start choosing joy without apology. Lucy shares Hay Festival inspiration and we trace how small acts of rebellion can turn into real reinvention at home, at work, and inside our own emotional lives. • Lucy’s Hay Festival highlights and why Cally Beaton [https://callybeaton.com/] stands out as a stand up • Gen X women saying no to staying silent and keeping it small  • the “harmoniser” role, why it exhausts us, and how we step back  • joy foreboding, guilt around happiness, and letting ourselves feel fully  • reinvention on our own terms, including career pivots and new boundaries  • dreaming as a practice, building new patterns daily, and choosing one next step Send us a comment, ask a question, or suggest a topic. We would love to hear from you

Being Unapologetic Starts With One Honest No

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2375269/fan_mail/new] We go deeper on what it means to be an unapologetic woman, especially the everyday moments where we abandon ourselves to keep the peace. We share real family and workplace examples of choosing ourselves with clarity, and we end by reframing unapologetic living as wise, steady leadership rather than selfishness.  • noticing where we self-abandon to avoid conflict and stay “nice”  • recognising the peacekeeper role and the cost of shrinking  • naming hurt directly and resetting boundaries at home  • challenging patriarchal leadership norms and the apologising “hangover”  • reclaiming time with parents and family without guilt  • stepping up at work without becoming a servant leader  • breaking reactive habits with email and messaging boundaries  • spotting micromanagement and responding with clear feedback  • finding allies and building safe spaces where women are celebrated  Yes please gather with women you know because like I said we put the worlds to rights we we just get crack on with it  Send us a comment, ask a question, or suggest a topic. We would love to hear from you

Unapologetic Women

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2375269/fan_mail/new] Ever had a moment where everything looks fine on paper, yet you can’t shake the feeling that something is missing? We start there, with a message that landed in meditation and hit like a bell: you are the part that’s missing. For so many women, years of people-pleasing, holding it all together, and living outward can create a slow drift away from your own voice, needs, and truth. We sit with a midlife truth that can feel startlingly simple: the thing that feels missing might be us. We talk about feeling lost, the habit of apologising for taking up space, and how small, gentle acts of honesty can bring us back to ourselves.  • feeling lost as a normal signal rather than a flaw  • using the wheel of life to spot disconnection and imbalance  • coming home to ourselves instead of chasing external acceptance  • “I am here” as a practice for presence and self-trust  • noticing where we live an apology through automatic “sorry”  • defining what an unapologetic woman looks like in real life  • building non-negotiables that stop self-abandonment  • naming fear stories about receiving, need, and worth  • telling the truth in relationships and watching what strengthens  • spotting early patterns of shrinking, masking, and red flags  Until next time, keep saying it, sister.  Send us a comment, ask a question, or suggest a topic. We would love to hear from you

Part 2. Seasons of a woman, 30's, 40's and beyond

Send us Fan Mail [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2375269/fan_mail/new] In the last episode we talked about childhood, maidenhood and what that means for women. In this episode we reflect on how women move through their thirties, forties, and into the edges of fifty, and how identity can change through marriage, motherhood, career shifts, and healing. We talk about ageing as arriving, learning to mother ourselves, and choosing freedom without chasing youth.  • early marriage that still holds freedom, friendship and experimentation  • the moment motherhood reshapes identity and relationship dynamics  • the “midlife thrisis” in the thirties, responsibility and loss of self  • careers ending and beginning again, taking ownership of happiness  • mothering energy expressed through coaching, leadership and self-care  • forties as a deep healing decade, trauma work and rebuilding boundaries  • integrating the younger parts of ourselves rather than abandoning them  • body changes, perimenopause and the pressure to look younger  • mirror work, self-acceptance and resisting harmful beauty standards  • intentions for the fifties, living on our terms and reclaiming the crone  Send us a comment, ask a question, or suggest a topic. We would love to hear from you