Sniffies' Cruising Confessions

The holidays can be super stressful for queers, which is why Gabe and Chris are back for a special episode full of tips for how to stay safe, sane, and sexually active over the season with the help of Sniffies! First up, RuPaul’s Drag Race icon Kandy Muse spills some very hot tea about her most outrageous Sniffies experiences while touring the globe. Then, for anyone thinking of throwing their own holiday party, the co-founder of NYC’s beloved Papi Juice nightlife and art collective, Oscar Nñ, shares the lessons he’s learned creating positive, uplifting spaces for QTPOC to come together over the past 11 years. Finally, Gabe heads over to Animal in Brooklyn on the wildest gay night of the year - Thanksgiving Eve - to hear hot and heartwarming home-for-the-holidays hookup stories.    Follow Sniffies' Cruising Confessions: cruisingconfessions.com [http://cruisingconfessions.com]   Try Sniffies: sniffies.com [http://sniffies.com]   Follow Sniffies on Social: Instagram: instagram.com/sniffiesapp [http://instagram.com/sniffiesapp] X: x.com/sniffiesapp [http://x.com/sniffiesapp] TikTik: tiktok.com/@sniffiesapp [http://tiktok.com/@sniffiesapp]   Follow the hosts: Gabe Gonzalez: instagram.com/gaybonez [http://instagram.com/gaybonez] Chris Patterson-Rosso: instagram.com/cprgivesyoulife [http://instagram.com/cprgivesyoulife]   Guests featured in this episode:   Kandy Muse instagram.com/thekandymuse [https://www.instagram.com/thekandymuse/?hl=en] https://thekandymuse.com/ [https://thekandymuse.com/]   Oscar Nn instagram.com/oscarnn [https://www.instagram.com/oscarnn/?hl=en] instagram.com/papijuicebk soundcloud.com/oscarnn [https://soundcloud.com/oscarnn]   Animal instagram.com/animal.nyc [https://www.instagram.com/animal.nyc/?hl=en] See omnystudio.com/listener [https://omnystudio.com/listener] for privacy information.

Queer people grow up experiencing bullying at a higher rate than that of our peers. Could that be why some of us find ourselves turned on by consensual domination, degradation and humiliation play in the bedroom? In our spicy final episode of this season, Gabe and Chris welcome two kinky pleasure educators - submissive Bobby Box and dominant Dominion Onyx -  to talk about dominance, submission, bullying, BDSM, and how and why people get into this fetish practice. Can playing this way help queer people turn past traumas into pure pleasure?    Follow Sniffies' Cruising Confessions: cruisingconfessions.com [http://cruisingconfessions.com]   Try Sniffies: sniffies.com [http://sniffies.com]   Follow Sniffies on Social: Instagram: instagram.com/sniffiesapp [http://instagram.com/sniffiesapp] X: x.com/sniffiesapp [http://x.com/sniffiesapp] TikTik: tiktok.com/@sniffiesapp [http://tiktok.com/@sniffiesapp]   Follow the hosts: Gabe Gonzalez: instagram.com/gaybonez [http://instagram.com/gaybonez] Chris Patterson-Rosso: instagram.com/cprgivesyoulife [http://instagram.com/cprgivesyoulife]   Guests featured in this episode:   Bobby Box linktr.ee/bybobbybox [https://linktr.ee/bybobbybox]   Dominion Onyx linktr.ee/domonyx [https://linktr.ee/domonyx] See omnystudio.com/listener [https://omnystudio.com/listener] for privacy information.

It’s easy to talk about what we don’t want in the world—hate, discrimination, and violence against our community—but what kind of future DO we want to see?  In this episode Gabe and Chris ask past guests from this season what kind of queer utopia they’d like to see materialize by the year 2069, on the 100th anniversary of the Stonewall riots. You’ll hear from kinksters, artists, and sex workers about their hopes for the future, and the possible innovations, societal shifts, and sexual possibilities that await us later this century.  Follow Sniffies' Cruising Confessions: cruisingconfessions.com [http://cruisingconfessions.com]   Try Sniffies: sniffies.com [http://sniffies.com]   Follow Sniffies on Social: Instagram: instagram.com/sniffiesapp [http://instagram.com/sniffiesapp] X: x.com/sniffiesapp [http://x.com/sniffiesapp] TikTik: tiktok.com/@sniffiesapp [http://tiktok.com/@sniffiesapp]   Follow the hosts: Gabe Gonzalez: instagram.com/gaybonez [http://instagram.com/gaybonez] Chris Patterson-Rosso: instagram.com/cprgivesyoulife [http://instagram.com/cprgivesyoulife]   Guests featured in this episode:   Scott Carslake: x.com/muscledcumhole [http://x.com/muscledcumhole] Leo Herrera:  iftheylived.org [http://iftheylived.org]   Brontez Purnell  instagram.com/brontezpurnell [http://instagram.com/brontezpurnell]   Xavier Blanco linktr.ee/nycdominicano [https://linktr.ee/nycdominicano]   Tomik Dash instagram.com/tomik2point0 [https://www.instagram.com/tomik2point0/?hl=en] linkin.bio/tomik2point0 [https://linkin.bio/tomik2point0/]   Dale Corvino instagram.com/dalecorvino [https://www.instagram.com/dalecorvino/?hl=en] dalecorvino.com [https://dalecorvino.com/]   Jules Rosskam instagram.com/julesrosskamfilms [https://www.instagram.com/julesrosskamfilms/] www.desirelinesfilm.com [https://www.desirelinesfilm.com/]   Santos J. Arce instagram.com/kinkpunx/ [https://www.instagram.com/kinkpunx/] linktr.ee/santosjarce [https://linktr.ee/santosjarce]   Donald C. Shorter Jr instagram.com/donxmen [http://instagram.com/donxmen]   Chipper instagram.com/followchipper [http://instagram.com/followchipper] instagram.com/unleashedbk [http://instagram.com/unleashedbk] See omnystudio.com/listener [https://omnystudio.com/listener] for privacy information.

Some couples practice “strict” monogamy, while other couples pick up tricks, attend sex parties, and visit cruising spots together. Ain’t love grand? In this episode, Gabe and Chris talk to a couple who cruise and throw sex parties together, about how they make it work, deal with jealousy, and the pros and cons of pursuing partners in pairs! Plus: we stop by Brooklyn’s hottest new queer nightspot Animal to hear stories both hot and horrific - about hooking up with couples.    Follow Sniffies' Cruising Confessions: cruisingconfessions.com [http://cruisingconfessions.com]   Try Sniffies: sniffies.com [http://sniffies.com]   Follow Sniffies on Social: Instagram: instagram.com/sniffiesapp [http://instagram.com/sniffiesapp] X: x.com/sniffiesapp [http://x.com/sniffiesapp] TikTik: tiktok.com/@sniffiesapp [http://tiktok.com/@sniffiesapp]   Follow the hosts: Gabe Gonzalez: instagram.com/gaybonez [http://instagram.com/gaybonez] Chris Patterson-Rosso: instagram.com/cprgivesyoulife [http://instagram.com/cprgivesyoulife]   Guests featured in this episode:   Leo and Jordan / JXXL instagram.com/jxxlcommunity/ [https://www.instagram.com/jxxlcommunity/] See omnystudio.com/listener [https://omnystudio.com/listener] for privacy information.

Sides define themselves as neither top nor bottom, preferring non-penetrative practices to buttstuff. In this episode, Gabe and Chris go deep with the “Messiah of Masturbation”, BATEBANDIT XL, about why he identifies as both a side and a bator, and why he created the BBXL Bate Bros, an international organization that holds online and in-person events for Black and Brown masturbation enthusiasts. Then our hosts learn all about what led BATEBANDIT XL to start making horny (and hot AF) hip-hop music chronicling his wild life as a bator. Plus, a special Side edition of “Pump or Dump?”   Follow Sniffies' Cruising Confessions: cruisingconfessions.com [http://cruisingconfessions.com]   Try Sniffies: sniffies.com [http://sniffies.com]   Follow Sniffies on Social: Instagram: instagram.com/sniffiesapp [http://instagram.com/sniffiesapp] X: x.com/sniffiesapp [http://x.com/sniffiesapp] TikTik: tiktok.com/@sniffiesapp [http://tiktok.com/@sniffiesapp]   Follow the hosts: Gabe Gonzalez: instagram.com/gaybonez [http://instagram.com/gaybonez] Chris Patterson-Rosso: instagram.com/cprgivesyoulife [http://instagram.com/cprgivesyoulife]   Guests featured in this episode:   BATEBANDIT XL x.com/batebanditxl [https://x.com/batebanditxl]   BBXL BATE BROS bbxlbatebros.com/ [https://www.bbxlbatebros.com/] See omnystudio.com/listener [https://omnystudio.com/listener] for privacy information.