"If you're denying anyone's right to exist, you should not be part of this group" with Avi Ben-Zeev

"If you're denying anyone's right to exist, you should not be part of this group" with Avi Ben-Zeev

I'm such a fan of Dr. Avi Ben-Zeev, both as a human and a writer. You'll see why by the end of this episode. We talk about the complexities of queer identity, the challenges of visibility, and the resilience required to navigate a diverse and often hostile societal landscape. We don't shy away from the hot issues. We talk about Avi's personal journey as a queer, trans writer and psychologist, the impact of the Polari Prize controversy and institutional transphobia, as well as the power of 'staying in' the conversation. Avi suggests a new way of talking about responsible inclusion and the importance of authentic representation. And if that's not enough we also cover ageing, mortality, and finding purpose in later life.

Absolutely No Regrets

Join Paul for a husky episode talking about Pride in London including marching with QUEERWELL, meeting Sandi Toksvig and Zack Polanski. There's also a few exciting updates on his upcoming book 'Still Here, Still Queer Now What?' and recent cultural moments including Robyn's tour and Madonna's latest album, Confessions II. There's also a little tease of an upcoming interview with author Avi Ben-Zeev discussing The Polaris Prize controversy and trans representation. Lie back and grab a Fisherman's Friend.

"I've got every single receipt" with Alexis Gregory

We're delighted to welcome the legendary Alexis Gregory back to the pod. Despite the homophobic heatwave causing all kinds of technical problems, we manage to explore Queer Art, Performance, and Cultural Shifts as well as a quick critique of Madonna's Confessions II era. Alexis shares insights into his current work, including the upcoming performance of Riot Act Two, and reflects on the creative process of transforming real stories into powerful theatre. Get Tickets To Riot Act 2 At Crazy Coqs On July 5 [https://www.brasseriezedel.com/events/alexis-gregory-riot-act2-2026/?instance_id=2047709]

I Am Nature In Nature (in Barcelona)

Paul is away on a writing retreat so this is a super short episode which, fun fact, took almost 40 times the episode length to edit. Why? Because I'm an idiot. But it's fun. And you get to be with me in Barcelona! So enjoy the equivalent of a 7" single's worth of podcast. Back to the retreat! Byeeeeee!

"I'm in a knitting group. Is that cool?" with Lior Locher

We're over the moon to welcome Lior Locher back on the pod. Join us in this fabulous conversation exploring their journey toward authenticity, community-building, and self-discovery in midlife. We discuss the importance of living true to oneself, overcoming social awkwardness, and the value of local community engagement. Lior shares their evolving identity, including the nuances around legal and chosen names, and the significance of self-ownership. We talk about the power of honest self-expression through open mic performances, singing, and creative pursuits and how curiosity and inquiry can lead to a more fulfilled, vibrant life regardless of age. Prepare to have your mind blown. You might want to take notes!