You Weren’t a Blank Slate: A Mom’s Journey to Attachment

The Quiet Years: After the Papers, Before the Breakthrough

This is the rare adoptee/father convo that doesn’t center beginnings or endings — it sits in the silence of the middle. Where trust isn’t broken but also not whole. When everyone’s figuring it out but no one’s saying it out loud. It’s not about trauma — it’s about distance, identity, and who you become when things aren’t dramatic… just hard in slow motion.

You Weren’t a Blank Slate: A Mom’s Journey to Attachment

This episode brings the world into the real work of mothering an adopted child — especially one who comes with a full history, personality, and pain. It explores the tension between wanting to nurture and needing to earn trust. Between protection and control. Between grief and growth. This is what adoptive love looks like when it’s honest.

The Mother I Needed vs. The Mother You Tried to Be

To explore the unseen emotional labor and silent expectations between adopted kids and adoptive moms. What happens when a mom loves hard, but the kid still feels unmet? What does it take to actually feel mothered — and not just managed? This is for every adoptive mom wondering, “Am I enough?” and every adoptee trying to say, “I needed something different.”

He Already Had a Life Before Us: A Father's Role After Adoption

To show the world what it actually means to parent a child who didn’t start with you. This episode dismantles the fairytale, but still finds the beauty in the effort, the grief, the rebuilding. It’s for everyone who thinks adoption ends when the papers are signed.

The Only Way Forward Is Back

Born in a Liberian war zone. Raised by one of America’s most recognized Christian families. Now a husband, father, speaker, and author — Jackson TerKeurst joins Adopt-ology to talk about identity, legacy, and the messy grace of adoption. From village life to the suburbs, from trauma to faith, he opens up about honoring his roots, raising his own kids with cultural pride, and why he believes the only way forward… is back.