073 - Why pastors and leaders fail (from someone who did)

Theo Von gets raw and vulnerable | Reaction

As a former pastor in recovery for addiction, I connected with this instantly!I had to react! And this is my first reaction and it’s a good one! Theo is so vulnerable, so honest about where he is and what it's like. I appreciate his vulnerability and provide my own thoughts and experiences that match his. Watch his full video https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CihTN2GQymcI'm Andy and I make videos for men who are struggling. As Christians, we sometimes find ourselves acting, thinking, believing, in ways that we're ashamed of. We want to follow Jesus, but struggle to change. I've been there and I know what it's like. You're not alone, there is hope and there is a way forward. Subscribe! https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC-GqCcVM_ybA4CH4pOlwT7A/?sub_confirmation=1

073 - Why pastors and leaders fail (from someone who did)

I'm Andy a former pastor and recovering addict. I make videos for men who are struggling. As Christians, we sometimes find ourselves acting, thinking, believing, in ways that we're ashamed of. We want to follow Jesus, but struggle to change. I've been there and I know what it's like. You're not alone, there is hope and there is a way forward. 00:00 - Why do pastors and leaders fail? 02:42 - The problem of shame 03:41 - Shame from Sin 04:25 - Shame from Wounds 05:50 - How wounds affect leaders 07:55 - Pastors are humans too 08:56 - The root cause – a belief problem 11:28 - So what’s going on? 13:55 - Problem #1 Pastors and isolation 17:15 - Problem #2 Pastors and self-righteousness 20:14 - Problem #3 Pastors and ministry idolatry 25:42 - Recap

072 - Following Jesus & the 12 Steps

Should a Christian go to 12 step groups for help with addiction? Should Christians avoid it, is it unwise or is it helpful? These are valid questions for any Christian who is dealing with addiction and looking for help. Here, I share my experiences being a Christian in recovery and what I've learned from "going to church in the basement" I'm Andy and I make content for men who are struggling. AsChristians, we sometimes find ourselves acting, thinking, believing, in ways that we're ashamed of. We want to follow Jesus, but struggle to change. I've been there and I know what it's like. You're not alone, there is hope and thereis a way forward. Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC-GqCcVM_ybA4CH4pOlwT7A/?sub_confirmation=1 Follow on Social Media: Substack https://thechurchbasement.substack.com/ Instagram https://www.instagram.com/thechurchbasement/ Twitter/X https://twitter.com/church_basement

071 - Goals and Habits for 2026

What goals do you have for 2026? What habits can help you get there? In this video, I’ve outlined my 2 main goals and the daily, weekly, monthly habits that’ll help me stay on the path in 2026. As a guy following Jesus, my goal is to be more connected (to God, truth, myself and others) and be less distracted by all the noise. Contents:00:00 Goals for 202602:05 Habit #1 Morning Routine05:12 Habit #2 Gratitude Journal06:58 Habit #3 PM RoutineDevotionals I love:Go Forward in Love by Tim KellerGod’s Wisdom for Navigating Life Tim KellerThe Songs of Jesus by Time KellerUntamed Prayers by Chad BirdUnveiling Mercy by Chad BirdNew Morning Mercies by Paul David TrippBibles I love:ESV Gospel Transformation Study BibleESV Study BibleSubscribe! https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC-GqCcVM_ybA4CH4pOlwT7A/?sub_confirmation=1I'm Andy and I make videos for men who are struggling. As Christians, we sometimes find ourselves acting, thinking, believing, in ways that we're ashamed of. We want to follow Jesus, but struggle to change. I've been there and I know what it's like. You're not alone, there is hope and there is a way forward. Men's Struggles Playlist https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLaw4DY-wc-vsqVRMNkmChcu2w83KhuTdwAddiction Video https://youtu.be/NbF-4iO3bQ4Recovery Video https://youtu.be/Hm9GA412of0Follow on Social Media:Instagram https://www.instagram.com/thechurchbasement/Substack https://thechurchbasement.substack.com/Twitter/X https://twitter.com/church_basementEmail andyfromthebasement@gmail.com #grace, #recoveryjourney, #addictionandrecovery, #jesus #celebraterecovery

070 - Three Things Robbing Men of Purpose

Why do we get sidelined from living out our purpose as men? "For we are God’s handiwork, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do." Ephesians 2:10If we could just take that scripture and apply it, everything would be different. We'd be living out purpose changing lives and glorifying God. So why don't we? Why do we get sidelined from living out our purpose, what's hindering us and halting us from truly being faithful and obedient? Three things: Lies, shame and fear.I'm Andy and I make content for men who are struggling. As Christians, we sometimes find ourselves acting, thinking, believing, in ways that we're ashamed of. We want to follow Jesus, but struggle to change. I've been there and I know what it's like. You're not alone, there is hope and there is a way forward. Subscribe! https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC-GqCcVM_ybA4CH4pOlwT7A/?sub_confirmation=1Contents: 00:00 Intro 01:14 Purpose in Ephesians 2:10 02:23 The Struggle with Purpose 03:45 We live in a Genesis 3 world 09:35 How Lies stop us 11:04 How Shame stops us 14:01 How Fear stops us 14:59 How Jesus helps us deal with lies, shame and fearFollow on Social Media:Instagram https://www.instagram.com/thechurchbasement/Substack https://thechurchbasement.substack.com/Twitter/X https://twitter.com/church_basement#grace, #recoveryjourney, #addictionandrecovery, #jesus #celebraterecovery