Healing Narcissism Ep. 3: False Self- The Architecture of Resistance

Healing Narcissism Ep. 3: False Self- The Architecture of Resistance

why dropping the mask doesn't work - the origin story, object relations and Winnicott - why the false self is impenetrable - cold therapy and co-independence - therapy vs. structure

Healing Narcissism Ep. 2: The 'Types' Of Change *IF* A Narcissist Can Change

- The question: if the narcissist can change is the wrong question- why healing and 'behavior modification' are completely different - what clinical profile is needed for "healing" - there are two - Do the inside and outside connect in Cluster B - the longitudinal BPD research - and why it's a misnomer - 3 mechanisms that keep internal and external development locked apart - the 3 outcomes of intervention so you don't waste time - the corrective relationship structures OLNE offers

Healing Narcissism Episode 1: Why They Can't See It

Healing Narcissism Episode 1: Why They Can't See It - Why the Narcissist cannot see themselves - even when they try - What the 'False Self' is - The 2 categories they sort things in - Why self-help doesn't work on narcissists - What is narcissistic mortification - How the pillar of OLNE works on narcissism - What change actually requires - beyond surface level

Can They Change? - How To Know IF They Can Without Wasting Time (Sex, Lies, & Cluster B, Ep. 6)

- 3 things that look like "change" to watch out for - cluster b personalities: how they outsource regulation - symptom reduction vs. behavioral change, the truth - covert narcissists; can they change - what to look for so you don't waste years of your life - change your question to this

Why Change, To A Narcissist, Feel Like Death (Sex, Lies & Cluster B Ep. 5)

- why stability feel like death to a narcissist - narcissist "snapshot" theory - why boundaries feel like attack - how they use sex as anxiety medication - how the false self "mummifies" the true self - why narcissists can't see your disappearance - the pathological shared fantasy