We Never Completely Forgot Who We Were with Yaffah Batya DaCosta

Season 3 Premiere- The Story Continues...

After several weeks away, The Story of Us returns with the premiere of Season Three. In this personal opening episode, host Jeff Ellison reflects on a season of profound life transitions—from becoming an empty nester and preparing for his son's wedding to traveling through Europe and rediscovering the value of slowing down. Along the way, he shares how these experiences reshaped his understanding of the podcast and reinforced its central mission: exploring what it means to be fully human. What began as a series of interviews has evolved into something much larger—a tapestry of conversations connecting neuroscience, history, psychology, spirituality, philosophy, literature, and ancient wisdom in search of the timeless questions that unite us all. Jeff also introduces the vision for Season Three and explains why he believes technology itself isn't the problem. Instead, it's one of the greatest opportunities we have to spread curiosity, compassion, meaningful conversation, and genuine human connection. In this episode, you'll discover: * Why The Story of Us has become much more than a podcast * The surprising connections emerging between experts from vastly different backgrounds * Lessons learned from becoming an empty nester and watching children begin their own journeys * Reflections from recent travels through Amsterdam, Ghent, Bruges, and London * How slowing down can help us ask better questions * Why curiosity may be one of the highest forms of love * A new perspective on technology, social media, and human connection * What you can expect from Season Three This season we'll continue exploring life's biggest questions through conversations with storytellers, neuroscientists, historians, physicians, artists, spiritual teachers, psychologists, travelers, and extraordinary people from every walk of life. Because while our backgrounds may differ, our deepest questions remain remarkably the same. Join the Conversation If this episode resonates with you, we'd love your help growing this community. ⭐ Follow the podcast so you never miss an episode. ⭐ Leave a rating and review on your favorite podcast app. ⭐ Share this episode with someone who enjoys thoughtful conversations. ⭐ Visit TheStoryOfUsProject.com [http://TheStoryOfUsProject.com] to subscribe to Letters from the Middle of It All, Jeff's free weekly Thursday essay exploring the questions of everyday life. ⭐ Follow us on YouTube, Instagram, Facebook, and Bluesky for additional conversations throughout the week. Know Someone We Should Interview? Some of our most meaningful conversations have come from listener recommendations. If you know someone with an extraordinary story, unique wisdom, or a perspective that could help others better understand themselves and the world around them, we'd love to hear from you. Visit TheStoryOfUsProject.com [http://TheStoryOfUsProject.com] and send us your suggestion. "Different cultures. Different disciplines. Different beliefs. Yet somehow they keep pointing toward the same enduring truths about what it means to be human." Welcome to Season Three of The Story of Us.

SEASON FINALE: You Were Sold a Smaller God… and You Accepted It Without a Receipt.

What if the feeling you call “God” was never meant to be contained inside a building? In this Season 2 finale of The Story of Us, Jeff reflects on the moments that leave us speechless—the overwhelming awe of standing beneath the vaulted ceilings of Notre-Dame, the impossible beauty of La Sagrada Familia, the silence of a mountain range, the pull of a night sky filled with stars. Part travel reflection… part philosophical exploration… part deeply personal letter… this episode explores the human tendency to build institutions around mystery—and what may be lost when we outsource our search for meaning to them. Drawing inspiration from Mark Twain, Eastern philosophy, the great cathedrals of Europe, and the ordinary moments of everyday life, Jeff asks a difficult but essential question: What do you actually believe? And perhaps more importantly… Have you ever stopped long enough to truly feel it for yourself? 🌍 In This Episode * Why ancient cathedrals evoke awe—even for nonbelievers * The emotional experience of visiting La Sagrada Familia * How religions evolved from stories into institutions * The difference between spirituality and organized belief * What Eastern traditions understood about mystery and presence * Why the sacred may live in ordinary moments—not sacred buildings 🎯 Key Themes * Awe and wonder * Spirituality vs religion * Human connection * Presence and attention * The search for meaning * The beauty of existence 🧠 Memorable Questions Explored * What do you actually believe? * Has organized religion brought us closer to the divine—or further from it? * What if you are not separate from the sacred… but an expression of it? * What if wonder itself is the point? ✨ Final Invitation This episode is ultimately an invitation: To slow down. To pay attention. To stop outsourcing the search for meaning. And to rediscover the extraordinary hidden inside ordinary life. 🌐 Explore More Subscribe to our free weekly blog: Letters From The Middle of It All 👉 www.thestoryofusproject.com/start-here 📲 Follow The Story of Us * Instagram * Facebook * BlueSky 🎥 Full episodes, shorts, and spoken word reflections available on YouTube. 🎧 Listen on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and Amazon Music. ❤️ Thank You Thank you for being part of Season 2. These conversations exist because people like you continue sharing them, discussing them, and helping us build a growing community centered around curiosity, connection, and what it means to be human. 💬 Final Thought Maybe the sacred was never hiding inside the cathedral. Maybe it was waiting… in the moments you almost overlooked. 🪨 The Story of Us From stardust to stillness. “I was here. My life was meaningful.”

We Never Completely Forgot Who We Were with Yaffah Batya DaCosta

What happens when an entire people are forced to hide who they are… for generations? In this episode of The Story of Us, Jeff sits down with Yaffah Batya daCosta—educator, speaker, and advocate for the descendants of the “Secret Jews,” families who were forced to convert during the Spanish and Portuguese Inquisitions while quietly preserving pieces of their identity in secret. But this conversation is about much more than history. It’s about memory. Identity. Belonging. And the human need to understand where we come from. Together, they explore the story of the Anousim (“the forced ones”), how ancient persecution still echoes into modern life, and what happens when someone begins rediscovering truths their family was never allowed to openly speak about. Along the way, the conversation widens into something universal: How fear divides people. How stories shape identity. And how understanding each other more deeply may be one of the few paths toward healing. 🎯 What You’ll Take Away * Who the “Secret Jews” were and why their story still matters today * How forced conversion and hidden identity shaped generations of families * The surprising connections between history and modern global tensions * Why human beings are more alike than different beneath culture and belief * How compassion and curiosity can lead to deeper understanding 🌍 Key Themes * Identity and ancestry * Generational memory * Religious persecution and survival * Human connection * Healing through understanding 👤 About the Guest – Yaffah Batya daCosta Yaffah Batya daCosta is an educator, speaker, coach, and advocate working to support descendants of the Anousim—Jewish families forced to conceal their identity during the Inquisition. Drawing from her own ancestral journey, she has spent decades studying Jewish history, early Christianity, interfaith relations, and the roots of antisemitism in order to promote deeper understanding and reconciliation between communities. She is also the CEO of a nonprofit organization dedicated to helping descendants reconnect with their heritage and identity. 🔗 Learn More * Website: www.bneianousim.org [http://www.bneianousim.org] * Facebook: Yaffah Batya daCosta 🌐 Explore More from The Story of Us If this conversation resonated with you, we invite you to explore more episodes, reflections, bite-sized clips, and shorts designed to help us better understand ourselves—and each other. 👉 www.thestoryofusproject.com/start-here 🎥 Full episodes and clips available on YouTube 📲 Follow us on Facebook, Instagram, and BlueSky 🎧 Share the Episode If you found value in this conversation, share it with someone who may need to hear it. Because stories like this remind us of something important: History may divide us… but understanding each other can still bring us back together. 💬 Final Thought Identity can be hidden. But somehow… the human spirit remembers.

Raising Good Humans…Not Just "Successful" Ones with Rosemary Olender

What does it really mean to raise a “good” human? Not a high achiever. Not a perfectly behaved child. But someone who is kind, grounded, resilient… and emotionally aware. In this episode of The Story of Us, Jeff sits down with educator, consultant, and author Rosemary Olender—who has spent decades working inside classrooms, schools, and family systems—to explore what actually shapes a child. This conversation goes beyond parenting advice. It’s about the everyday moments… the conversations we have… the behaviors we model… and how those small things quietly shape who our children become. Drawing from over 20 years of experience as a teacher, principal, and director of special education, Rosemary shares what she’s seen change in today’s families—and what still matters most. Together, they explore: * Why character matters more than achievement * What emotional intelligence really looks like in real life * The biggest mistakes parents make (often without realizing it) * How families and schools can work together more effectively * What it means to raise children who are prepared for life—not just success This episode isn’t just for parents. It’s for anyone who cares about the kind of humans we are raising—and the kind of world we’re creating. 🎯 What You’ll Take Away * Why children learn more from what you model than what you say * How to build emotional intelligence in everyday interactions * What strong families do differently * The importance of communication between home and school * How to shift from reactive parenting to intentional guidance 🌍 Key Themes * Character development * Emotional intelligence * Parenting with intention * Family dynamics * Human connection 👤 About the Guest – Rosemary Olender Rosemary Olender, MS, CAS, is an educator, consultant, and non-fiction author with decades of experience supporting families and schools. Her career includes: * 17 years as a teacher of profoundly deaf children * Roles as a junior high and elementary school principal * Director of special education * Educational consultant working with school districts across New York State She is the author of: * Coffee and Wisdom * The School-Home Connection Her work focuses on helping families and educators build stronger relationships, improve communication, and support children in reaching their full potential. 🌐 Explore More If this conversation resonated with you, we’ve created a space for you to go deeper. 👉 www.thestoryofusproject.com/start-here Explore more episodes, reflections, and insights on what it means to be human—and how we shape the next generation. 📲 Follow & Connect Follow The Story of Us: * Facebook * Instagram * BlueSky 🎥 Full episodes, clips, and shorts available on YouTube. 🎧 Share This Episode If you know someone raising kids—or working with them—send this their way. Because the small things we do today… become the foundation for who they are tomorrow. 💬 Final Thought We don’t just raise children. We raise future humans. And that might be the most important work any of us will ever do.

NEXT GEN: Your Life Is An Empty Canvas... Now What? with Max McGuire

What does it actually feel like…to stand at the edge of your life…and try to figure out who you’re going to become? In this special NextGen episode of The Story of Us, Jeff sits down with Max McGuire—recent University of Tennessee graduate, adventurer, artist, and someone stepping into adulthood in real time. This conversation is a little different. Max isn’t just a guest—he’s someone Jeff knows personally (yeah, it's his daughters BOYFRIEND). Which makes this episode feel less like an interview… and more like a real, honest conversation between two people at very different stages of life. And maybe that’s what makes it so powerful. Together, they explore the questions that don’t come with easy answers: * What does it mean to find your purpose… before you’ve fully lived your life? * How do you balance ambition with meaning? * What are you willing to sacrifice—and what are you not? From working as a ranch hand in Aspen… to exploring the Amazon River Basin… to navigating creativity, relationships, and the uncertainty of what comes next—Max opens up about what he’s learning, what he’s still figuring out, and what matters most right now. This isn’t a conversation about having it all figured out. It’s about being honest enough to admit you don’t. 🎯 What You’ll Take Away * Why early adulthood is more about questions than answers * How real-world experiences shape identity and perspective * The importance of curiosity, creativity, and exploration * What it means to build a life with intention * Why honesty matters more than saying what people expect 🌍 Key Themes * Becoming vs arriving * Identity and self-discovery * Purpose and direction * Adventure and growth * Living without a script 👤 About the Guest – Max McGuire Max McGuire is a recent graduate of the University of Tennessee with a degree in supply chain management. Originally from Charlotte, North Carolina, Max brings a unique blend of grit, creativity, and curiosity. From working as a ranch hand in Aspen to traveling into the Amazon, his experiences reflect a willingness to step outside the ordinary and into growth. He is an artist, an outdoorsman, and someone just beginning to shape the life he wants to build. 🌐 Explore More If this conversation resonated with you, we’ve created a space for you to go deeper. 👉 www.thestoryofusproject.com/start-here [http://www.thestoryofusproject.com/start-here] Explore more full episodes, bite-sized clips, and conversations about what it means to be human in a rapidly changing world. 📲 Follow & Connect Follow The Story of Us: * Facebook * Instagram * BlueSky 🎥 Full episodes, clips, and shorts available on YouTube. 🎧 Share This Episode If you know someone navigating this stage of life… Send this to them. Because sometimes the most important thing you can hear is: You don’t need to have it all figured out. 💬 Final Thought Becoming isn’t something that happens once. It’s something we all keep doing… no matter how old we are.