187. The Mirror Question

The Main ET Contacts Come From This Solar System (NOT The Pleiades)

More and more people claim to be channeling extraterrestrials from around the Galaxy – Pleiadians, Arcturians, Sirians, and others. Are any of these contacts from outside of our Solar System true? In this week’s show, international bestselling author and expert medium Richard Lawrence will share insights that challenge almost everything the modern New Age movement believes about alien channeling. Tune in to discover: * Which commonly-used channeling technique rules out extraterrestrial contact from the get-go * What a medium must be capable of doing before it is possible to become a channel for an ongoing programme of genuine communication with extraterrestrial sources * What extraterrestrials on higher realms of other planets have revealed about intervention from outside this Solar System – and why a genuine contact made from a planet 36,000 light years away is the exception which proves the rule * Where all of these so-called channeled messages come from if they aren’t what people claim they are – and how you can quickly judge whether a medium and their message are the real thing or not Don’t miss it!

Round 3: What Is a Man Responsible For?

What does it mean to step up as a man? In his actions? His intentions? His family? His blind spots? His impact on the people around him? The culture he participates in? In this episode of Skin & Soul, Gwenm sits down with strategist, entrepreneur, coach, and Round 3 founder Reuben Butterfield for an open conversation about masculinity, accountability, fatherhood, consent, reinvention, and the ongoing practice of becoming. Together, they explore the moments that shape a man: loss, heartbreak, mistakes, silence, courage, and the willingness to look honestly at where we've fallen short. Reuben shares insights from his own journey through personal transformation, the lessons learned from fatherhood and relationships, and why growth begins when we stop waiting for permission and start taking responsibility for the lives we're creating. A conversation about awareness. Blind spots. Integrity. About what happens when a man decides to become someone he can respect. From consent and culture to grief, purpose, leadership, and love, this episode asks a question that feels more urgent than ever: What is a man responsible for?

Your Next Is Now: Finding Alignment, Purpose, and Peace in Every Season

What if the greatest transformation in your life doesn't come from doing more—but from becoming more aligned with who you were created to be? In this heartfelt solo episode, Dr. Esther Graham opens up about one of the most challenging seasons of her life, sharing the profound lessons she's learned through grief, personal reflection, and spiritual growth. From navigating the loss of her granddaughter and facing unexpected challenges in business to rediscovering the power of intentional living, Dr. Esther reminds us that while we can't control life's events, we can always choose our response. Using the powerful principle E + R = O (Event + Response = Outcome), she explores how our responses shape the lives we create and why our "next season" requires a different version of ourselves—not one that does more, but one that grows deeper. In this episode, you'll discover: * Why your response—not your circumstances—determines your future. * How to strengthen your spiritual foundation during difficult seasons. * The importance of alignment over achievement. * Why growth often requires subtraction instead of addition. * How to redefine success beyond goals, money, and accomplishments. * Practical ways to live with greater intention and less reactivity. * Why "your next is now" and how today's decisions shape tomorrow's opportunities. If you've been feeling overwhelmed, stretched thin, or wondering what this season is trying to teach you, this conversation will encourage you to pause, reflect, and reconnect with what matters most. Because sometimes the life you've been praying for doesn't require more hustle—it simply requires a deeper alignment with who you were created to become.

The JOY of Being Up To Something

JOY isn’t a mood—it’s a compass. In this JOY Rules episode, Lorelei welcomes BreakThrough instructor, David Traub for a sacred, soul-bright conversation about purpose that doesn’t come from pressure… it comes from presence.   Together they explore the difference between pushing through life and inhabiting it fully; why JOY fades when we “manage” our lives; and how safety and belonging (Cancer Sun medicine) become the container for real transformation. In this eye and heart-opening episode, David shares what it means to lead without a script, trust the process, and let JOY—not pressure—be the engine.  Adrenaline burns out. Determination strains. But JOY? JOY regenerates. David  and Lorelei talk about what happens when you stop living from “should” and start living from a soul-fueled yes. They explore why JOY is not a luxury—it’s a spiritual technology that powers creation, service, and sacred impact. David shares how decades of teaching trained him to release control and trust what wants to happen through the room. This episode is a masterclass in allowing, leading, and living from aliveness With the Sun now in Cancer, David's Sun Sign, we enter the holy work of emotional truth: the warmth that makes real change possible. David shares his evolution as a teacher and reveals how his gift for building safe spaces becomes the launchpad for courageous transformation.  Purpose isn’t a scavenger hunt—it’s a way of being. David and Lorelei explore the difference between getting through life and being up to something, plus the inner shifts that transform service from approval-seeking into sacred contribution. David breaks down why JOY disappears when life becomes a checklist—and how to reclaim the felt sense of being fully alive. Lorelei and David explore “being up to something,” the shift from outcome-control to surrender, and why the safest space is the most transformational one. Transformation doesn’t happen through force—it happens through safety. David shares why his work as an instructor centers on creating a container where people can be real enough to evolve. Under the Sun in Cancer, Lorelei invites us into the emotional intelligence that makes JOY possible—and makes breakthroughs last. In this luminous episode, David Traub shares how he helps people shift from “make it happen” motivation into a passion-led life that feels alive. If you’re ready to live from passion instead of pressure, this episode will light you up.  If you’ve been getting through life instead of inhabiting it, this episode is your return. If you’re standing at the edge of your own new beginning, press play.

187. The Mirror Question

There is a single question that has changed more relationships in my coaching practice than any other. It is the question that closes a four-week series on relationships. It is the question that ties the whole arc together. And it is the question almost no one is willing to ask themselves until they are tired enough to stop accusing the other person. Am I doing to me ...what I am accusing them of doing to me? In this fourth and final episode of The Truth About Relationships, I bring you home with the most freeing teaching of the series. Before I land on the mirror question itself, I name two things almost everyone gets wrong: what an actual boundary is (versus the ultimatum it has been miscalled), and the pattern of self-stonewalling building a wall around yourself and then accusing the other person of building it. The mirror question is the work. Because most of us are doing to ourselves the very thing we are accusing the other person of doing. And then expecting them to give us what we are refusing to give ourselves. The relationship will not change until you change your relationship with you. That is the whole series ... in one sentence. This episode also includes the unconditional love note that closes the series: loving someone unconditionally does not mean tolerating harm, does not mean staying, does not mean access. Love is what you are experiencing inside yourself. It belongs to you. It always did. You are 100% lovable. So are they. Worth is a birthright. The work is the love.