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The Courage to Choose: How to Stop Waiting and Start Trusting Yourself with Nan Whaley

1 h 18 min · 19. Juni 2026
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What if the life you're dreaming about is waiting on a decision you're too afraid to make? So many women spend years waiting to feel certain before they take the leap—whether that's changing careers, ending a relationship, starting a business, running for office, or simply admitting they want something different. But what if confidence doesn't come before the decision? What if it comes after? In this deeply honest conversation, former Dayton Mayor and trailblazing leader Nan Whaley shares why some of the most important choices of her life were made long before she felt ready. From becoming the first woman nominated by her party for Governor of Ohio to leading a city through extraordinary challenges, Nan has learned that perfection is not the goal—courage is. Together, we explore: ✨ Why perfectionism keeps women stuck  ✨ The real reason decision-making feels so overwhelming  ✨ How to stop waiting for certainty and start trusting yourself  ✨ What failure actually teaches us  ✨ Reinvention, resilience, and choosing again and again  ✨ Why sharing our stories helps other women find their own strength This episode is for every woman standing at a crossroads, wondering if she's capable of more than the life she's currently living. Because the truth is: there is no perfect choice. There is only the choice to trust yourself enough to take the next step.  JOIN THE WAITLIST, NOW WHAT: https://forms.gle/upoSwPQEu5vm1wYW6 Support the show [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2270822/support] FREE FEEL BETTER SPRINT (7 DAYS) https://admirable-cake-433.myflodesk.com/feelbetterin7days [https://admirable-cake-433.myflodesk.com/feelbetterin7days] JOIN THE WAITLIST, NOW WHAT: https://forms.gle/upoSwPQEu5vm1wYW6 Connect with Betsy: Website: writeyourownstory.co Email: betsy [betsyleonidas@gmail.com]@writeyourownstory.co Instagram: write_your_own_story_co [https://www.instagram.com/write_your_own_story_co/?hl=en#]Or betsyleo [https://www.instagram.com/betsyleo/?hl=en#] Youtube:writeyourownstorypodcast

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Episode The Courage to Choose: How to Stop Waiting and Start Trusting Yourself with Nan Whaley Cover

The Courage to Choose: How to Stop Waiting and Start Trusting Yourself with Nan Whaley

What if the life you're dreaming about is waiting on a decision you're too afraid to make? So many women spend years waiting to feel certain before they take the leap—whether that's changing careers, ending a relationship, starting a business, running for office, or simply admitting they want something different. But what if confidence doesn't come before the decision? What if it comes after? In this deeply honest conversation, former Dayton Mayor and trailblazing leader Nan Whaley shares why some of the most important choices of her life were made long before she felt ready. From becoming the first woman nominated by her party for Governor of Ohio to leading a city through extraordinary challenges, Nan has learned that perfection is not the goal—courage is. Together, we explore: ✨ Why perfectionism keeps women stuck  ✨ The real reason decision-making feels so overwhelming  ✨ How to stop waiting for certainty and start trusting yourself  ✨ What failure actually teaches us  ✨ Reinvention, resilience, and choosing again and again  ✨ Why sharing our stories helps other women find their own strength This episode is for every woman standing at a crossroads, wondering if she's capable of more than the life she's currently living. Because the truth is: there is no perfect choice. There is only the choice to trust yourself enough to take the next step.  JOIN THE WAITLIST, NOW WHAT: https://forms.gle/upoSwPQEu5vm1wYW6 Support the show [https://www.buzzsprout.com/2270822/support] FREE FEEL BETTER SPRINT (7 DAYS) https://admirable-cake-433.myflodesk.com/feelbetterin7days [https://admirable-cake-433.myflodesk.com/feelbetterin7days] JOIN THE WAITLIST, NOW WHAT: https://forms.gle/upoSwPQEu5vm1wYW6 Connect with Betsy: Website: writeyourownstory.co Email: betsy [betsyleonidas@gmail.com]@writeyourownstory.co Instagram: write_your_own_story_co [https://www.instagram.com/write_your_own_story_co/?hl=en#]Or betsyleo [https://www.instagram.com/betsyleo/?hl=en#] Youtube:writeyourownstorypodcast

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