The Invisible Load of Motherhood

Marriage, Meltdowns, & Major Life Decisions

In this candid episode of This Is How We Mom, the hosts share the highs and challenges of family life—from a getaway gone sideways to the everyday realities of parenting, marriage, and career balance. They open up about tough decisions like whether to grow their families, and the emotional weight behind questions about family size. The conversation also touches on parenting struggles, children’s well-being, and the increasing appeal of homeschooling amid concerns about today’s education system. Honest, relatable, and unfiltered, this episode highlights the complexity, humor, and heart of modern motherhood

We're Tired, They're Crying - Let's Talk About It

This episode, the moms pull back the curtain on real life with toddlers and their big emotions—meltdowns in the car, bath time struggles, swim lesson tears, and the constant mental load of parenting. They open up about the pressure behind naming babies, celebrating milestones, and managing growing expenses, all while trying to be good partners and good moms. No pretending. No perfection. Just real motherhood

The Invisible Load of Motherhood

Summary In this conversation, the hosts discuss the multifaceted challenges of motherhood, including the invisible load that mothers carry, societal expectations regarding postpartum recovery, and the mental load of parenting. They share personal stories of meltdowns, the decision-making process around expanding their families, and the impact of social media on their perceptions of motherhood. The conversation emphasizes the importance of grace and understanding in navigating the complexities of being a mother.

When Motherhood Breaks You Open: Tori’s Story

In this powerful and emotional episode, Tori shares her full journey into motherhood—from a smooth first birth to two deeply heartbreaking losses caused by a rare genetic kidney disease. She opens up about medical trauma, the impossible decisions she faced, grief that reshaped her life, and the fierce love that carried her through it. Tori’s story is raw, honest, and incredibly brave—a testament to the strength behind every mother’s story.

NICU Days & Mama Instincts: Austin’s Story

In this episode of This Is How We Mom, Austin opens up about all three of her wildly different birth experiences—from a shocking 34-week HELLP syndrome diagnosis, to NICU stays, inductions, and a sudden C-section that saved her baby’s life. She shares the fear, the advocacy, the humor she clung to, and the strength she found through it all. Austin’s story is a reminder that motherhood rarely follows the plan—but always reshapes us.