This Is Where I’m At: In Between | Why You’re Tired of Comparing Yourself to Everyone

Are You Behind Or Just On A Different Timeline?

Welcome to This Is Where I'm At: In Between. Season 1 has wrapped. Season 2 is coming. And in between ..we keep showing up. These are shorter, reflective conversations about life, womanhood, identity and all the things we're figuring out in real time. Today's conversation: Does summer make anyone else feel behind? Everyone's travelling. Glowing. Thriving. And you're sitting there thinking wait, am I missing something? But moving and growing are not always the same thing. Some seasons are loud. Some seasons are quiet. Some seasons are healing. And healing doesn't always photograph well. 🎙️ This Is Where I'm At Honest Conversations on Womanhood, Motherhood & Becoming 💬 Does summer make you feel behind? Drop it in the comments. 👇🏽 📍 Follow on Spotify & Apple Podcasts 🔔 Subscribe — Season 2 coming July 2026 Follow the show so you never miss an episode. New conversations dropping every week. 🤎

The Biggest Thing Season 1 Taught Me | This Is Where I’m At Finale

I genuinely cannot believe we made it to the end of Season 1. When I started this podcast, I was nervous. I was figuring it out. Honestly? I still am. But maybe that’s the point. This finale is about everything we’ve been talking about this season: motherhood, identity, protecting your peace, sharing your story, and becoming more of yourself while navigating real life. Our lives may look different, but the feelings behind them often aren’t. Thank you for listening, commenting, sharing, and growing with me. Season 2 is coming… and I already know those conversations are going to be special. 🎙️ This Is Where I’m At Honest conversations on womanhood, motherhood & becoming. 💬 What was one moment or episode from Season 1 that stayed with you?

This Is Where I’m At: In Between | Why You’re Tired of Comparing Yourself to Everyone

In this In Between conversation, we’re talking about comparison, pressure, and what happens when we start carrying expectations that were never ours in the first place. How many of us are chasing timelines, lives, or versions of success that don’t actually belong to us? Sometimes exhaustion isn’t because we’re falling behind. Sometimes it’s because we’re running a race that was never designed for us. This is a reminder to pause, come back to yourself, and stop measuring your life against everyone else’s highlight reel. If this conversation resonated with you, follow the podcast and leave a rating. It helps these conversations reach more women navigating life in real time. This… is where I’m at 🤎

When Someone Else’s Life Starts Affecting Yours

Why do we say “women support women” and then spend the rest of the year competing, comparing, and tearing each other down? In this episode Alyshia gets honest about where the competition between women actually comes from. From the modeling industry in New York, London and Denmark where there was literally only one spot for a Black woman in the room to our friendships, our workplaces, and our social media feeds. The programming runs deep. But it was never ours to carry. We talk about the jokes that aren’t really jokes. The backhanded compliments. The friend who couldn’t celebrate you. And what real sisterhood actually looks like when we finally choose it over competition. This is not a “women are the worst” episode. This is a “we deserve so much better than what we were taught” conversation.

I Didn’t Lose Friends. I Changed

Have you ever grown really grown and suddenly felt out of place in friendships that used to feel like home? When awareness changes you, it changes everything. Including who you feel safe around. In this episode I'm getting honest about what happens to your friendships when you start doing the work on yourself. The distance. The guilt. The quiet grief of outgrowing people you love. This is not about cutting people off. This is about understanding why the dynamic shifts and what to do with that awareness. 🎙️ This Is Where I'm At Honest Conversations on Womanhood, Motherhood & Becoming New episodes every week on Spotify and Apple Podcasts. Follow so you never miss one.