#96 - How Do You Know You’re With the Right Person?

#96 - How Do You Know You’re With the Right Person?

We saw this quote about Beef on Netflix that said “everyone is with the wrong person” and it got us thinking “how do you know you’re with the right person?’”🌀 We share our college theory about the red string of fate getting tangled by modern dating, why butterflies in your stomach are actually your nervous system detecting a threat and not love, and what it really means to show up as yourself in a relationship instead of being the "perfect partner." We're unpacking karmic relationships, what rupture and repair actually looks like in long-term partnerships, and that one memoir about a marriage that fell apart in a single night that shook us to our core. Baby potato also makes a guest appearance and has OPINIONS!!! 🤭 If you've ever questioned whether you're with the right person, or wondered why your calm, steady relationship doesn't feel as exciting as the chaotic ones did, this one's for you. Maybe the question isn't "am I with the right person" but "am I becoming the right partner?" 💛 What's your take? Is everyone with the wrong person? Mentioned: * Book: Strangers https://amzn.to/4uE6oz2 [https://amzn.to/4uE6oz2] ☎️ HUGS HOTLINE: Got a juicy question yourself? A sticky situation? Something you just need to voice HUG-it-out? Leave us a voicemail and we’ll share our thoughts and/or best advice in an upcoming episode. Can’t wait to hear from you ❣️ Leave us a voicemail here: https://www.speakpipe.com/HugsHotline [https://www.speakpipe.com/HugsHotline] Or, as always, you can send us an email hello@voicehugspodcast.com [hello@voicehugspodcast.com] or DM us on IG @voicehugsposcast 😼 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices [https://megaphone.fm/adchoices]

#95 - The Hardest Part of Growing Up No One Warns You About

Our sweetest bbs, this one came out of us like a wave we didn't see coming 🥹 We mentioned in our 3rd Hugs Hotline (https://open.spotify.com/episode/7mqDW2aTcHj99nzeDP0wKy?si=sGY_l5YHT6CuCtXlQlko_w [https://open.spotify.com/episode/7mqDW2aTcHj99nzeDP0wKy?si=sGY_l5YHT6CuCtXlQlko_w]) how much we looove growing older… but it recently dawned on us that - oh! there’s actually plenty for us to grieve from our past selves 👀 As Viv is entering her third trimester and feeling the weight of what it means to say goodbye to a version of yourself you didn't know you'd miss, this topic is extra front of mind. We're getting into the fear of aging, the grief that hides inside exciting life transitions, pregnancy body changes, mom guilt before baby even arrives, and why two feelings can be true at the same time. Ro shares what it's actually like on the other side and the moment her mom said something that changed the way she sees herself as a parent ✨ If you're in a season of becoming something new and you feel equal parts excited and terrified—hi, same, welcome. You're not losing yourself. You're integrating and expanding 💛 What life transition are you in right now? ☎️ HUGS HOTLINE: Got a juicy question yourself? A sticky situation? Something you just need to voice HUG-it-out? Leave us a voicemail and we’ll share our thoughts and/or best advice in an upcoming episode. Can’t wait to hear from you ❣️ Leave us a voicemail here: https://www.speakpipe.com/HugsHotline [https://www.speakpipe.com/HugsHotline] Or, as always, you can send us an email hello@voicehugspodcast.com [hello@voicehugspodcast.com] or DM us on IG https://instagram.com/voicehugspodcast [https://instagram.com/voicehugspodcast] 😼 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices [https://megaphone.fm/adchoices]

#94 - What Deleting Instagram For A Week Actually Does To Your Brain

Our sweetest bbs, the day hath cometh. We’ve been wanting to talk about social media for many years now, and instead of just talking about it, we decided to do something about it. For the plot. And to no ones surprise, our screen time went downnnnn unda 🪸🐬🐚✨ We get into phantom scrolling (the first hour was brutal), the boredom that turns into creativity, and the friends we actually called instead of just parasocially watching their Stories. This one is eye-opening, a little alarming (the stats 🤯), and hopefully the nudge you need to try a social media detox for yourself—even if it’s just for a day 💛 What 7-day challenge should we try next?? ☎️ HUGS HOTLINE: Got a juicy question yourself? A sticky situation? Something you just need to voice HUG-it-out? Leave us a voicemail and we’ll share our thoughts and/or best advice in an upcoming episode. Can’t wait to hear from you ❣️ Leave us a voicemail here: https://www.speakpipe.com/HugsHotline [https://www.speakpipe.com/HugsHotline] Or, as always, you can send us an email hello@voicehugspodcast.com [hello@voicehugspodcast.com] or DM us on IG https://instagram.com/voicehugspodcast [https://instagram.com/voicehugspodcast] 😼 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices [https://megaphone.fm/adchoices]

#93 - Quarter Life Crisis? Let's Talk About It | Hugs Hotline (ep. 3) ☎️

This week's episode is extra special 🥹 We're answering your Hugs Hotline voicemails from our bed, on our very first Voice Hugs retreat!! The two of us haven't gone on a trip together since we were in our early 20s, so this was already special before we pressed record, and then we pressed record and heard your voices 😭 You called in with really beautiful and honest questions, from navigating a quarter life crisis and figuring out if your passion should be your paycheck, to the strange grief that comes with simply growing up. We're talking content creation, aging, and why none of it is as linear as we wish it were. Keep calling in, we love hearing your voices more than you know 💛 ☎️ HUGS HOTLINE: Got a juicy question yourself? A sticky situation? Something you just need to voice HUG-it-out? Leave us a voicemail and we’ll share our thoughts and/or best advice in an upcoming episode. Can’t wait to hear from you ❣️ Leave us a voicemail here: https://www.speakpipe.com/HugsHotline [https://www.speakpipe.com/HugsHotline] Or, as always, you can send us an email hello@voicehugspodcast.com [hello@voicehugspodcast.com] or DM us on IG https://instagram.com/voicehugspodcast [https://instagram.com/voicehugspodcast] 😼 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices [https://megaphone.fm/adchoices]

#92 - We're Having Another Baby!!! Pregnancy journey & all the feels

Okay so we've been keeping a secret 👀 One of us is pregnant… and we're finally sharing everything!!! From the moment she found out, to the feelings nobody warned her about, to the dog who somehow knew before she did 🐶 We talk about wanting to be a mom since literally six years old, getting pregnant ten days after the wedding (!?!!), and then the unexpected part: sitting on the bathroom floor in shock instead of jumping for joy. Beyond grateful to be able to share another incredible milestone with you all 🥹 Let’s all strive to be gardeners in our loved ones lives!! 🌱 ☎️ HUGS HOTLINE: Got a juicy question yourself? A sticky situation? Something you just need to voice HUG-it-out? Leave us a voicemail and we’ll share our thoughts and/or best advice in an upcoming episode. Can’t wait to hear from you ❣️ Leave us a voicemail here: https://www.speakpipe.com/HugsHotline [https://www.speakpipe.com/HugsHotline] Or, as always, you can send us an email hello@voicehugspodcast.com [hello@voicehugspodcast.com] or DM us on IG https://instagram.com/voicehugspodcast [https://instagram.com/voicehugspodcast] 😼 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices [https://megaphone.fm/adchoices]