Putting the "fun" in dysfunctional

Putting the "fun" in dysfunctional

Diana and JR discuss the ways in which the show and the person amplified the "fun in dysfunctional" trope in comedy. Subscribe to our Patreon for extras [https://www.patreon.com/c/weblameroseanne] A few resources: Quiet One, Funny One, or Favorite? How Childhood Roles in Dysfunctional Families Shape Adult Trauma — Tim Fletcher Co. [https://www.timfletcher.ca/blog/the-roles-we-play-in-dysfunctional-families-how-the-quiet-one-the-funny-one-and-the-favourite-survive-complex-traumanbspnbsp]  Dysfunctional Family: Traits, Examples, Impact, Healing [https://www.verywellmind.com/what-is-a-dysfunctional-family-5194681]  Every Chuck Lorre Sitcom Has The Exact Same Problem [https://www.looper.com/1246156/every-chuck-lorre-sitcom-has-the-exact-same-problem/] Produced by Your Highness Media. [https://www.yourhighnessmedia.com/] ---------------------------------------- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy [https://acast.com/privacy] for more information.

The Magnification of Mediocre White Men

In this episode, we talk about how we blame Roseanne for the magnification of mediocre white men, through the show onscreen and offscreen.  Important links: Mediocre: The Dangerous Legacy of White Male America [https://www.collectedworksbookstore.com/post/mediocre-the-dangerous-legacy-of-white-male-america-by-ijeoma-oluo] Why does the world reward mediocre white men? [https://www.harpersbazaar.com/uk/culture/a35379486/why-does-the-world-reward-mediocre-white-men/] Why are sitcom dads still so incompetent? [https://www.todaysparent.com/family/parenting/sitcom-dads/] Today's Parent [https://www.todaysparent.com/family/parenting/sitcom-dads/]Judd Apatow, Sarah Silverman, and Roseanne Barr Talk Judaism, F-bombs, and Radical Feminism [https://www.elle.com/culture/celebrities/q-and-a/a28851/funny-people/] Sarah Michelle Gellar Speaks on Joss Whedon Trying to Ruin Her [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=u7Ic6QnAJDc&t=134s] YouTube [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=u7Ic6QnAJDc&t=134s]The Influence of American Television on Global Cultural Norms [https://www.usahistorytimeline.com/pages/the-influence-of-american-television-on-global-cultural-norms-a1afe0bc.php] Produced by Your Highness Media. [https://www.yourhighnessmedia.com/] ---------------------------------------- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy [https://acast.com/privacy] for more information.

Bill Maher Being a Scourge to Society

Despite being blatantly homophobic, xenophobic, and aggressively unfunny, Bill Maher continues to be booked and blessed, making millions a year. Flying his private plane, although he claims to be an environmentalist. Being misogynistic AF while claiming to be pro-women. Spouting half-baked talking points without any research to back up dangerous rhetoric, without any consideration for the folks who are harmed by the language...the contradictions have no end. Bill Maher is an enigma wrapped in a rage-inducing riddle, and he unintentionally provokes thought-provoking discourse from super talented folks like Francesca Fiorentini [https://www.youtube.com/results?search_query=Francesca+Fiorentini%2C], Matt Berenstein [https://www.youtube.com/@MattBernstein1], Will Weldon [https://www.oldmanweldon.com/ihatebillmaher]*, Sam Seder, [https://www.youtube.com/results?search_query=sam+seder] and Kyle Kulinski. [https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLuT_CbT94oXKCJVXlJ1f_Mh_-ygHc4uZr] But they aren't laughing with him (no one who is not on his staff or on a Real Time panel), they're reading him for filth. We wouldn't have all of this rage bait content if it were for Roseanne, and we make that point in this episode. *I accidentally called Will Weldon Will Wheaton in the episode. Major brain blank! References: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SQQ9hU1rR0I&list=WL&index=2&t=1109s [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SQQ9hU1rR0I&list=WL&index=2&t=1109s] https://www.watchmojo.com/articles/top-10-reasons-why-bill-maher-is-hated/his-sense-of-entitlement-is-shocking [https://www.watchmojo.com/articles/top-10-reasons-why-bill-maher-is-hated/his-sense-of-entitlement-is-shocking] Clip of Club Random where Sandra Bernhardt talks about Roseanne [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wVbmDEk4k-Y] https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4LPgTpcB8sE&t=295s [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4LPgTpcB8sE&t=295s] Trump slams Bill Maher after their White House dinner [https://www.usatoday.com/story/entertainment/tv/2026/02/15/donald-trump-bill-maher-white-house-dinner/88691402007/] Bill Maher hits Trump for pulling a Roseanne [https://www.msn.com/en-us/news/news/bill-maher-hits-trump-for-pulling-a-roseanne/ar-AA1VRwYq?ocid=BingNewsSerp] I Hate Bill Maher [https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLvWXkbLN9Rtl7IB8B5Xpli3Y4dpTlVFfG] Produced by Your Highness Media. [https://www.yourhighnessmedia.com/] ---------------------------------------- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy [https://acast.com/privacy] for more information.

The Hero Worship of White Feminists

In this episode, Diana and JR unpack why they blame Roseanne (both the show and the person) for perpetuating White Feminism. While Roseanne continues to be regarded as a "feminist icon", the bulk of her work only allowed for a feminism that primarily focused on the experience of cisgender, neurotypical white people. The show Roseanne has received a lot of critical acclaim for a couple of episodes labeled controversial or groundbreaking because they address homophobia and racism, but sitcom barely scratched the surface. The episode neatly wraps the issue of racism up in a bow, with a brief performative rant and not further discussion. In season 10, DJ marries the Black girl he initially refused to kiss, but the previous prejudice is never explored. When the focus is LGBTQIA+ characters, the jokes are mean-spirited, lazy, and unclever, yet Roseanne (pre-cancelation) was constantly referred to as a "gay rights icon". No other show has launched as many influential careers as Roseanne. In a new segment loosely titled "demon spawn", Diana and JR also discuss how the show launched the careers of two creators who have been worshipped for their feminist characters. Those creators, Joss Whedon and Amy Sherman-Palladino, have permeated pop culture with the idea that post racist and post-feminist "utopias" exist. References: "The Caucasian Persuasion Here in the 'Dale": Othering, White Normality, and Post-Racialism in Buffy the Vampire Slayer [https://pdxscholar.library.pdx.edu/cgi/viewcontent.cgi?article=2303&context=honorstheses] Rewatching Gilmore Girls Woke Me Up To Its Problematic Truths [https://feminisminindia.com/2019/02/12/gilmore-girls-problematic-review/] Rory from ‘Gilmore Girls’ Is Actually the Worst [https://www.vice.com/en/article/rory-from-gilmore-girls-is-actually-the-worst/] LGBTQ+ History: When NOW Purged Lesbians From Its Feminist Movement [https://www.advocate.com/history/betty-friedan-anti-lesbian#:~:text=Yet%20the%20taint,a%20mental%20disease.] White Feminism: From the Suffragettes to Influencers and Who They Leave Behind [http://www.koabeck.com/white-feminism-from-the-suffragettes-to-influencers-and-who-they-leave-behind/] Against White Feminism book by Rafia Zakaria [https://www.thriftbooks.com/w/against-white-feminism-notes-on-disruption_rafia-zakaria/27142572/item/86148333/?mkwid=%7cdc&pcrid=77172150940733&pkw=&pmt=be&slid=&product=86148333&plc=&pgrid=1234751854563929&ptaid=pla-4580771612621121&utm_source=bing&utm_medium=cpc&utm_campaign=Shopping+-+Low+Vol+Scarce+-+%2410+-+%2450&utm_term=&utm_content=%7cdc%7cpcrid%7c77172150940733%7cpkw%7c%7cpmt%7cbe%7cproduct%7c86148333%7cslid%7c%7cpgrid%7c1234751854563929%7cptaid%7cpla-4580771612621121%7c&msclkid=41774982ceb81fd6d0da20050b5f0322#idiq=86148333&edition=64059652] https://mashable.com/article/white-feminism-explained [https://mashable.com/article/white-feminism-explained] https://www.jstor.org/stable/23415265 [https://www.jstor.org/stable/23415265] Produced by Your Highness Media. [https://www.yourhighnessmedia.com/] ---------------------------------------- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy [https://acast.com/privacy] for more information.

Parentification As a Punchline

Before the debut of Roseanne, television shows depicted children without parents as a tragedy. But the Conners made light of the parentification of their children, even when the situation was objectively grim. The general theme of the show was "putting the fun in dysfunctional", which meant normalizing a lack of boundaries. Each one of the Conner kids display the long-term impact of parentification, but because it's viewed in a comedic light, viewers aren't invited to examine the damage. And the normalization of making parentification a punchline can be seen in many subsequent television shows. For example, Gilmore Girls - created by Roseanne writer Amy Sherman-Palladino - was a case study of parentification if there ever was one, but audiences viewed the toxic dynamic as endearing and amusing. Parents projecting their issues onto their children and treating them as contemporaries was such a regular occurrence at that point that no one thought to criticize it (until much later). In this episode, Diana and JR talk about some of the ways the show Roseanne made childhood trauma fodder for laugh-track comedy and how the person Roseanne did the same in her standup and with her other projects. At the end, they examine just how complicit Roseanne is, and how much they blame her. References: Does parentification place Mexican-heritage youth at risk for substance use? Identifying the intervening nature of parent–child communication about alcohol - ScienceDirect [https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0140197112001613] The positive and negative aspects of parentification: An integrated review - ScienceDirect [https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0190740922003450] Opinion | How Did the Latchkey Kids of Gen X Become the Helicopter Parents of Gen Z? - The New York Times [https://www.nytimes.com/2025/09/04/opinion/helicopter-parents-genx-genz.html] Latchkey Kids Legal Age Limits Listed By State [http://www.latchkey-kids.com/latchkey-kids-age-limits.htm] 5 Ways Being a Narcissist's "Surrogate Parent" Affects You | Psychology Today [https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/women-autism-spectrum-disorder/202110/5-ways-being-narcissists-surrogate-parent-affects-you] When Can Kids Stay Home Alone? 50 State Guide [https://www.today.com/parents/family/when-can-kids-stay-home-alone-rcna172938] How parentification can shape your adult life (and 9 tips to heal) — Calm Blog [https://blog.calm.com/blog/parentification] Produced by Your Highness Media. [https://www.yourhighnessmedia.com/] ---------------------------------------- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy [https://acast.com/privacy] for more information.