Bloodline & Backbone

EP6- Where Do We Go From Here?

Bloodline & Backbone – Season Finale What if motherhood isn’t a destination, but a transformation? This finale explores how becoming a mom rewires our brains, reshapes our desires, and calls us to reclaim what we’ve lost. From viral language like “bedrotting” and “girl dinner” to the sacred science of matrescence, this episode is a benediction for every mom becoming someone new. In this episode: * The power of naming our experience: “bedrotting,” “girl dinner,” “touch grass” * Why matrescence is the motherhood equivalent of adolescence (Lucy Jones) * “Mom brain” as neurological brilliance (Dr. Sarah McKay) * Claire Huxtable’s cultural legacy * What Scripture says about restoration * Reclaiming joy, creativity, desire—and your whole self * A lipstick story from WWII that redefines dignity * A final benediction: you’re not failing. You’re forming. References & Voices: TikToks: Bedrotting [https://www.tiktok.com/@scraptastic_/video/7511394209178389790], Girl Dinner [https://www.tiktok.com/@karmapilled/video/7252489878955445547], Touch Grass [https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTj4EqwSm/] Interviews: Lucy Jones [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q56oGQQU2jI], Dr. Sarah McKay [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2jbVPI7Ri0k], Ellen Pompeo [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jex1tGfWpno] Special thanks to Dr. Beth Stovell You carry the bloodline. You are the backbone. You don’t have to go back—just forward, into who you’re becoming. 🎧 Listen now and tag a mom who needs to hear this.

EP5- Rediscovering Strength in Community

Modern motherhood is often a solo act performed in silence. But what if it wasn’t always meant to be this way? In this episode, we journey back to the sacred spaces that once held us—the tents, porches, and kitchen tables where women gathered to mother together. We explore what happens when we lose those circles—and what it would take to rebuild them today. From the power of a grandmother’s presence to the design flaws in our neighborhoods, we ask the question: What if motherhood wasn’t just about survival—but about communal strength? Featured Topics: * The loss (and revival) of communal motherhood * Periods, plane rides, and why shame has no place in our stories * A modern reimagining of The Red Tent * The Grandmother Hypothesis and what science says about post-menopausal power * The architectural design of loneliness—and how to redesign for connection Key Voices: * Anita Diamant, author of The Red Tent, on how one verse in Genesis became a vision for sisterhood and sacred cycles. Watch the interview [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sKKw8fJ7zZc] * Evolutionary biologists, on why older women may be the secret to human survival. Why Grandparents Are the Key to Human Survival [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xcY11iwmU0Y] * Dr. Emily Talen, urbanism professor at the University of Chicago, on the loss of third spaces and how neighborhood design impacts motherhood. Neighborhood as an Ideal: Is It Still Relevant? [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jJcUYcn3Orc] Notable Quotes: * "To be a mom is to bleed even more... our bodies bleed, but so do our hearts." * "Maybe it’s time to grandmother each other again." * "Loneliness isn’t a character flaw—it’s a design flaw. And we can redesign it." 💬 Feel like you’re mothering in isolation? You’re not alone—and you were never meant to do this alone. Episode 5 of Bloodline & Backbone dives into what we’ve lost in modern motherhood—and how to reclaim it. From red tents to front porches, from grandmas to zoning laws, this one’s a powerful call to rebuild what holds us. We're doing this work at The MomCo. Check it out: www.themom.co 🎧 Listen now and share it with someone who needs to be reminded: you don’t mother alone—you mother among.

EP4- The Unseen Influence of Moms

If you wanted to change the world, where would you start? A boardroom? A ballot box? What if the most powerful catalyst for change was... a mom? In this episode, we uncover the often-overlooked force shaping economies, faith, and the very fabric of society: mothers. From economic trailblazers like Deloris Jordan to the spiritual architects of the home, this episode explores the invisible but undeniable power of moms. We’ll hear from: * Katherine Wintsch, CEO of The Mom Complex, on the economic firepower moms wield—and often underestimate. * Dr. Aisha Nyandoro, founder of the Magnolia Mother’s Trust, who shares what happens when we actually invest in mothers. * Joel Muddamalle, Bible scholar, who helps us reclaim the spiritual identity of motherhood through a scriptural lens. You’ll also learn how moms have been hosting sacred feasts since the beginning of time—not just in Scripture, but around everyday dinner tables. Because the truth is: Motherhood is not a support role. It’s a leadership position. And the influence of moms? It’s world-shaping. In This Episode: * Why motherhood might be the most powerful (and underestimated) force in the world * The economic influence of moms as "consumer-in-chief" * How corporations profit from maternal identity—and what real investment in moms looks like * The shift happening in faith communities and the ripple effect of women stepping away from church * A look at the sacred table: what biblical feasts and everyday mom-life have in common Resources Mentioned: * The Mom Complex [https://www.themomcomplex.com/] – Katherine Wintsch * Magnolia Mother’s Trust – Dr. Aisha Nyandoro * Barna Group Data on Women and Faith * Movie Clip: Air – The story of Deloris Jordan’s economic foresight * Scriptural references on the biblical feasts [https://www.biblegateway.com/] * What A Friend We Have in Jesus:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HKhE34TS0mI&list=PLjm1yU618oqVJbEIuQDEHQu0LUS6plQrC&index=189 [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HKhE34TS0mI&list=PLjm1yU618oqVJbEIuQDEHQu0LUS6plQrC&index=189]Movie Clip: Airhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A0ls21_iM6o [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A0ls21_iM6o]Ad Montage:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JRhwOJdHhzQ [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JRhwOJdHhzQ]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C_yp4Ef_OqM [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C_yp4Ef_OqM]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=B-q-yJv-wyg [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=B-q-yJv-wyg]Interview Referencedhttps://open.spotify.com/episode/0lXyEmvylvAKlOeHcpj74g?si=9adb1caa5c6a4fa3 [https://open.spotify.com/episode/0lXyEmvylvAKlOeHcpj74g?si=9adb1caa5c6a4fa3]Special thank you to Katherine Wintsch for her help as well! Next Week: We’re diving into sisterhood, solidarity, and how moms don’t just raise kids—they raise communities. Want to go deeper? Find a MomCo group near you: www.themom.co [http://www.themom.co]

EP3- Sex, Power, and the Shifting Rules of Marriage

Episode Summary: Sex, marriage, and motherhood—the trio we’re supposed to master, but mostly just survive. In this episode, we open the door to both the bedroom and the past to explore how cultural shifts—from the sexual revolution to today’s TikTok “tradwife” trend—are reshaping intimacy. We talk with experts, look at surprising data, and ask honest questions about what’s really happening in marriages today. Spoiler: it’s not just about desire. It’s about identity, exhaustion, shifting roles, and the deep human longing to be known. Because the story of sex and motherhood? It’s not about shame. It’s about reclamation. Maybe even resurrection. Featuring: 🎙 Dave & Ashley Willis – Marriage and intimacy experts, @daveandashleywillis [https://www.instagram.com/daveandashleywillis] 🎙 Louise Perry – Journalist and author of The Case Against the Sexual Revolution 🎙 Richard V. Reeves – Author of Of Boys and Men Clips + Conversations: 🎧 "We just high-five now." — Moms get hilariously real about sex after kids 🎧 Trey Kennedy’s comedy [https://www.instagram.com/reel/DINBz9xsflw/?igsh=NjZiM2M3MzIxNA%3D%3D] on married life 🎧 TikToks on modern sex struggles: Clip 1 [https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTjDjxdpx/], Clip 2 [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y4sbwi2Ljio], Clip 3 [https://youtube.com/shorts/fI2sH_QCcK4] 🎧 Louise Perry [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0K1ZIbFU6O4] on how the sexual revolution impacted women 🎧 Richard Reeves [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DBG1Wgg32Ok] on modern masculinity 🎧 The “tradwife” trend: Tori [https://www.tiktok.com/@tradwifetori/video/7338803674589842734], Jasmine [https://www.tiktok.com/@jasminediniss/video/7466699379307580690], Nara [https://www.tiktok.com/@naraazizasmith/video/7328514190765804843] 🎧 Cher’s viral moment [https://www.tiktok.com/@chnge/video/7208327282371464494]: “I am the rich man.” 🎧 Archival footage from the women’s liberation movement: * Birth control PSA [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eddL_C5pFCg] * Feminist protest [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4ZeowophZe8] * Vintage coverage [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PD4N55I0neM] Referenced Research + Reading: 📚 Gallup: Changing Views on Sex & Marriage [https://news.gallup.com/opinion/polling-matters/351326/continuing-change-views-sex-marriage.aspx] 📚 Motherly: 2023 State of Motherhood [https://www.mother.ly/news/2023-state-of-motherhood-survey/] 📚 Divorce Stats: The Jimenez Law Firm [https://www.thejimenezlawfirm.com/what-percentage-of-divorces-are-initiated-by-the-wife-20] 📚 The Case Against the Sexual Revolution – Louise Perry 📚 Of Boys and Men – Richard Reeves Subscribe. Share. Leave a review. Because motherhood built the world—and now we’re telling the story.

EP2- The State of Modern Motherhood

The mental health of parents is now a public health crisis. Moms are tired—not just tired, bone-deep weary—from carrying the invisible weight of modern parenting. In this episode, we zoom in on the reality of what it means to mother in 2025. From mom-shaming and societal pressure to the mental load and cultural narratives that tell us motherhood is something to survive—we dig deep. But this isn’t a pity party. It’s a call to rise.Because the problem isn’t motherhood. It’s what we’ve been told to believe about it. In This Episode: * The U.S. Surgeon General’s 2024 advisory on parent mental health * Why women are delaying or opting out of motherhood * The myth of “doing it all” and the truth about invisible labor * The mental health toll of mom-shaming * And the radical idea that… maybe we can stop performing motherhood like it’s a job interview Referenced Clips & Media*: Expert Commentary & Research * Lyman Stone on Marriage & Birth Rate Decline [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-zAQesNbIe4] * Erica Djossa on Maternal Mental Health & Invisible Labor [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0YGysPgt7rc] Mom Voices Montage & Cultural Clips * LINK 1 [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xhtPu1GX93c] * LINK 2 [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CopCwdPks_o] * LINK 3 [https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTjBgLQe4/] * LINK 4 [https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTjBgr3N8/] * LINK 5 [https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTjBgrQUp/] * LINK 6 [https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTjBgLxMp/] * LINK 7 [https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTjBbEjoj/] * LINK 8 [https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTjSJGCAk/] Listen & Share: We’re not here to romanticize motherhood—or burn it down. We’re here to tell the truth, so we can build something better.If this episode made you feel seen, send it to the friend who needs to hear that what looks like breaking… might actually be becoming. *Disclaimer:Referenced materials, interviews, and external media featured in Bloodline & Backbone are included for educational and contextual purposes. Their inclusion does not constitute endorsement or agreement by The MomCo or its affiliates. For more from Bloodline & Backbone and The MomCo: Website: www.themom.co [https://www.themom.co/]Instagram: @themomco [https://www.instagram.com/themomco]Facebook: facebook.com/themomco [https://www.facebook.com/themomco]YouTube: youtube.com/@themomco [https://www.youtube.com/@themomco]Join a local group: themom.co/find-a-group Like what you heard?Leave a review, share the episode with a friend, and help us tell the story of motherhood the world forgot to write down.